MenOfTheColi: How Do You Treat Your Casual Sex Partners?

[Giselle]

they agree cause it's what they want to do.. you act like i'm lying to them... i tell them straight up i'm not looking to be in a relationship.. i've done my part

now you're going to be fukking someone... most women are fukking SOMEONE... most people are


well i'm good to them... we have fun.. i don't treat them second class or nothing like that.. they never get disrespected... and lets just say i'm good enough in bed (so we don't have to start another argument)..


if they want to sleep with me, then that's on them... if they are enjoying themselves with our time spent... hey they are happy.. if they were miserable, i'm guessing they wouldn't be staying around for it.. and they definitely wouldn't answer any text i send, and be happy to do it again... or hit me up wondering when i'm going to settle down with them



so no... it's not a waste of time... a waste would be an experience where you was hurt most of the time, found out he'd been cheating the whole time, or with some man that made you feel like shyt every time you smashed him off


they wouldn't and i wouldn't say what we had/have is a waste... everyone gained.. everyone was happy

They want to be with you, but can't have you completely. I doubt they're happy about that. Then you contact them and they answer your text hoping/thinking that you're ready to settle down with them. But everyone is happy? lol ok

Yes it is their fault as I said earlier if you go back and read. You didn't force them.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

So you sent **** dikk pics?

nope.

 

[Collateral]

I treat them nice, that's just the simp of me. I be like

 

[Collateral]

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[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You are just repeating yourself now. So if a man doesn't do extra things he's treating you like shyt? So if whatever y'all are doing has no title, y'all are both having sex but because he's not buying you dinner, taking you to the movies, changing your tires and whatever else he's treating you like shyt? This is basically what you are saying.

I don't care what those dudes do, I called them simps didn't complain or whine about how they are affecting my life or what have you.

And you still haven't answered my question, what did you reciprocate?

So you would leave a chick on the side off the road cause that's "extra" and you're too good for that? You gonna be like " Sorry I gotta leave you cause I might do one more nice thing for you than you done for me." That is so silly.

First dude, we were in school so we would take turns buying smoothies
Second, I offer to do things for him but her never accepted. He never wanted anything from me.

That good enough or is should I have been changing their tires to make it even steven

 

[Collateral]

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[Rollo Goodlove]

You fukk with me Ima show you some fly chit

 

[SheWantTheD]

So you would leave a chick on the side off the road cause that's "extra" and you're too good for that? You gonna be like " Sorry I gotta leave you cause I might do one more nice thing for you than you done for me." That is so silly.

First dude, we were in school so we would take turns buying smoothies
Second, I offer to do things for him but her never accepted. He never wanted anything from me.

That good enough or is should I have been changing their tires to make it even steven

You didn't say whether he was in the car with you or if he went out of his way to go where your car broke down to change your tire. If I was there of course I'd change the tire, but I wouldn't go out of my way to change a woman's tire who isn't my significant other. And yeah it is simping.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You didn't say whether he was in the car with you or if he went out of his way to go where your car broke down to change your time. If I was there of course I'd change the tire, but I wouldn't go out of my way to change a woman's tire who isn't my significant other. And yeah it is simping.

I feel sorry for the young woman of today. Men so stuck on himself they believe they too good to show a little kindness.

Oh yes I called him and yes he came to change it and I expect no less from anyone I see. If that's simping so be it. I sure as hell don't want anything less. Long live the simp cause that's all I want.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I feel sorry for the young woman of today. Men so stuck on himself they believe they too good to show a little kindness.

Oh yes I called him and yes he came to change it and I expect no less from anyone I see. If that's simping so be it. I sure as hell don't want anything less. Long live the simp cause that's all I want.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I feel sorry for the young woman of today. Men so stuck on himself they believe they too good to show a little kindness.

Oh yes I called him and yes he came to change it and I expect no less from anyone I see. If that's simping so be it. I sure as hell don't want anything less. Long live the simp cause that's all I want.

Men back in the day could also slap the shyt out of you and cops would laugh it off.
You couldn't have 15 bodies under your belt and be "courted".
You couldn't back talk or bring up frivolous female problems to a man not concerned with the trifles of a childless woman's life.
Oh, you have a kid? Shunned.
Rights and equality have drawbacks. You can do anything a man can. You can even buy a rubber penis, wear it, and pretend to be a man.
Now most men won't simp. There is no reward for it. There hasn't been one in my lifetime.
I wasn't mean to jawns I was just "fukking". They didn't get any special treatment, either. We're meeting up and fukking. Then I'm going home or she's going home. That's all.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

They want to be with you, but can't have you completely. I doubt they're happy about that. Then you contact them and they answer your text hoping/thinking that you're ready to settle down with them. But everyone is happy? lol ok

Yes it is their fault as I said earlier if you go back and read. You didn't force them.

you're confusing happy with "getting everything they want"


i want a million dollars.... if i got 100k i'd be happy... would i still want and desire and hope for more?? sure... but i'm happy none the less



yes they want to be with me... that wasn't on the table... but they decided being with me and enjoying the time they had with me made them happy

 

[Mowgli]

Give them the love they need then when they want to much i allow them to have a boyfriend and use me as a rebound after he realizes she aint wifeable.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Men back in the day could also slap the shyt out of you and cops would laugh it off.
You couldn't have 15 bodies under your belt and be "courted".
You couldn't back talk or bring up frivolous female problems to a man not concerned with the trifles of a childless woman's life.
Oh, you have a kid? Shunned.
Rights and equality have drawbacks. You can do anything a man can. You can even buy a rubber penis, wear it, and pretend to be a man.
Now most men won't simp. There is no reward for it. There hasn't been one in my lifetime.
I wasn't mean to jawns I was just "fukking". They didn't get any special treatment, either. We're meeting up and fukking. Then I'm going home or she's going home. That's all.

Nah breh, if you weren't doing extra things for them then you were treating them like shyt breh

 

[SheWantTheD]

Give them the love they need then when they want to much i allow them to have a boyfriend and use me as a rebound after he realizes she aint wifeable.