I think applying the term dating implies that the situation could move on to something more which isn't the case for most of the casual sex relationships. It's like the difference between a career and a job.
MenOfTheColi: How Do You Treat Your Casual Sex Partners?
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SheWantTheD
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Why you say that?
SheWantTheD
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Nope, that's called being used. A person won't commit to you but wants everything that comes with commitment. And my previous comment still stands, why should I do all that if someone else isn't even doing half of it and is still getting sex from said individual?
And y'all coli brehettes weren't talking about basic decency in that thread about telling dudes straight up that you weren't interested. Y'all don't owe a man anything right?
Simps don't get respected and they are used. Those two men you dealt with most likely wanted to have a label with you, that's why they did those things. Most men ain't gonna do those things if they don't want to be in a relationship with said individual.
A man that uses a woman that wants commitment from him just for sex is using her right? But what you had wit those two men they weren't being used huh? Double standard no?
And we getting personal now?
I'm just curious. lol
It depends on the girl. I hung out with some. Some got the late night only treatment. Others I had to wait for them to contact me 
Fani Willis fan
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have you yourself had a casual sex partner tho?
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Nope, that's called being used. A person won't commit to you but wants everything that comes with commitment. And my previous comment still stands, why should I do all that if someone else isn't even doing half of it and is still getting sex from said individual?
And y'all coli brehettes weren't talking about basic decency in that thread about telling dudes straight up that you weren't interested. Y'all don't owe a man anything right?
Simps don't get respected and they are used. Those two men you dealt with most likely wanted to have a label with you, that's why they did those things. Most men ain't gonna do those things if they don't want to be in a relationship with said individual.
A man that uses a woman that wants commitment from him just for sex is using her right? But what you had wit those two men they weren't being used huh? Double standard no?
And we getting personal now?
You are so presumptuous. Those men told me that the didn't want relationship not the other way around. And how am I "using" someone when they invited me or offered to do something for me? You bugging. I hope no one listens to you. You sound so silly.
SheWantTheD
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You said that the military guy wanted to be in a relationship with you but it didn't make sense at the time because he was leaving soon. And why are you getting worked up cause I called them simps? Most dudes on here would agree that that's simp behavior.
SheWantTheD
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You said that the military guy wanted to be in a relationship with you but it didn't make sense at the time because he was leaving soon. And why are you getting worked up cause I called them simps? Most dudes on here would agree that that's simp behavior.
How Sway! Casual sex don't do it for me. I need deep emotional connection to cum.
Who says to can't have a connection w/ out a relationship?
The first dude is back 10+ years later telling me that he never had a connection with anyone else like he had with me. 
Trying to get ya girl to NYC and popping babies. Sometimes you get more out of people who you let them be instead of trying to put them in a box and control them.
DP
SheWantTheD
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You said that the military guy wanted to be in a relationship with you but it didn't make sense at the time because he was leaving soon. And why are you getting worked up cause I called them simps? Most dudes on here would agree that that's simp behavior.