MenOfTheColi: How Do You Treat Your Casual Sex Partners?

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When you get into your 30s there are so many unwifeable women around that just need some comfort, some dikk, a raw nut bust between their legs, a courtesy cuddle, someone to eat a brief meal with and buy shyt for.

Just gotta be careful about impregnating and pissing them off because ultimately these women want to destroy you and everything youve built.
 

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Men back in the day could also slap the shyt out of you and cops would laugh it off.
You couldn't have 15 bodies under your belt and be "courted".
You couldn't back talk or bring up frivolous female problems to a man not concerned with the trifles of a childless woman's life.
Oh, you have a kid? Shunned.
Rights and equality have drawbacks. You can do anything a man can. You can even buy a rubber penis, wear it, and pretend to be a man.
Now most men won't simp. There is no reward for it. There hasn't been one in my lifetime.
I wasn't mean to jawns I was just "fukking". They didn't get any special treatment, either. We're meeting up and fukking. Then I'm going home or she's going home. That's all.

Calm ya self. I am talking about my generation. :deadmanny: One generation before yours. 80s babies. :pachaha:This is the shyt I'm talking about right here. So fukking extra for no damn reason.:heh: Please get all the way out ya feelings. Always making up a damn narrative to just justify why ya'll fukking selfish. You don't do shyt for no female. Got it and good for you. But I like my men with a bit more class. :youngsabo: Them butta heads can keep you and old boy.
 

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I see no reason to treat anyone like shyt. When I've had casual sex partners I've enjoyed treating them pretty well in part as a means of prolonging the situation. I like cuddling and notice a lot of chicks I've fukked casually seem to just want to cuddle moreso than have sex. Yea you fukk them but it seems like they really love the cuddling aspect. So I'm cool with that.

I've had chicks come over and I surprise them with dinner. I figure hey you coming over at 10PM to get dikked down, I might as well delay my dinner and make enough for two
:yeshrug:

One time a chick stayed overnight and I made breakfast for us. TBH I make a big breakfast every Saturday and she happened to be there so why not make some for her, fukk it. I just see it as courtesy but I'd imagine some chicks would catch feelings and wanna fall in love or some shyt.
 

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:yeshrug:

I see no reason to treat anyone like shyt. When I've had casual sex partners I've enjoyed treating them pretty well in part as a means of prolonging the situation. I like cuddling and notice a lot of chicks I've fukked casually seem to just want to cuddle moreso than have sex. Yea you fukk them but it seems like they really love the cuddling aspect. So I'm cool with that.

I've had chicks come over and I surprise them with dinner. I figure hey you coming over at 10PM to get dikked down, I might as well delay my dinner and make enough for two
:yeshrug:

One time a chick stayed overnight and I made breakfast for us. TBH I make a big breakfast every Saturday and she happened to be there so why not make some for her, fukk it. I just see it as courtesy but I'd imagine some chicks would catch feelings and wanna fall in love or some shyt.
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that's how i am... i mean damn... i know we supposed to be like "fukk these hoes" but i'm up in your p*ssy 3 times a week AND you not complaining... you rubbing my back, sucking my dikk, you cool enough to hang with and drink with and smoke an L with.....

but i'm going above and beyond cause i cracked 2 extra eggs this morning and put them on a plate with some bacon :damn:




you can tell most women ain't used to this cause they do fall in love quick... start wanting to change the rules quick.... not cause i took you on vacation or some shyt... but because i didn't kick you out at 330 am and i fed you... the bar is so low these days, how can you NOT keep these woman around :ahh:
 

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When it's a chick I'm having casual sex with, as long as she understands that I'm seeing other people, I wouldn't see what the problem is with us going out. Matter of fact, if I want to go out and do something, she would be the first person I would contact. Why contact p*ssy you're trying to get over p*ssy that you already have?
 

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Don't have them .. any posts that suggest otherwise is for entertainment value ... :dame:
 

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Wow...I remember that...Causal sex...wow...

Well, it's been almost 2 decades since I last had it, but there wasn't ever really any casual sex with me.
If I went through the trouble of doing what it took to put the dikk in you, best believe I was tryna get serious.
So I usually treated my "Casual Sex" dates very well.
Food, fun, foreplay, freaky sex, cuddle up and repeat for the weekend....but not during the week, my job came first.
 

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So, that means you are always single. Or are you always cheating and they are always cheating/single?



When you are single and dating you can fck whoever. Why get into a fwb situation and not call it dating, which is what you described it as. It's dating and fcking. That's not your friend if you're fcking. That's more than friends.

This isn't about going out of your way to diss someone. This is about going out of your way to take a "fwb" out and do other things with them. That is dating. Why don't you guys just call it what it is? Dating.




Well, then you shouldn't have come in this thread. I did see some of your older threads though (if your old name was legendary) and I def understand why you wouldn't lol. But you don't have to come in here and say that.


Yes, I think people should call them other names than friends. You don't fck and date your friends.



That's dating.



That's dating.



Not wanting to go out/hang out/spend time with (aka date) a casual sex partner is not outright disrespect, but according to a lot of women who claim to be fine with casual sex it is. This isn't about abusive/disrespectful males.



lol All of my questions are different though. They are about relationships, not about sex all of the time.


No one said that. The girl wanted to hang out/spend time with ( which is also known as dating) the guy. But they agreed to be casual sex partners. You can be respectful to someone without dating them or hanging out with them/spending time with them.


That's dating then.


















Why do all of you guys keep describing dating situations but are calling it casual sex/fckbuddies/fwb. You are single and dating those women. If you are fcking and spending time with them, going out, spending money YOU ARE DATING. THAT IS WHAT DATING IS. Single and dating. Are y'all slow or what?


Or is it me?

It can't be. :queen:

it can lead to dating but its not dating imo
 

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it can lead to dating but its not dating imo
it clearly isnt dating
I dont know why dudes feel like u have to be disrespectful just because a situation is casual
there are plenty of situations where u could be dealing with a chick and smashing but know the relationship isnt gonna progress from that point
i wouldnt call it dating if i know i dont plan to be with that person long term
 

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:yeshrug:

I see no reason to treat anyone like shyt. When I've had casual sex partners I've enjoyed treating them pretty well in part as a means of prolonging the situation. I like cuddling and notice a lot of chicks I've fukked casually seem to just want to cuddle moreso than have sex. Yea you fukk them but it seems like they really love the cuddling aspect. So I'm cool with that.

I've had chicks come over and I surprise them with dinner. I figure hey you coming over at 10PM to get dikked down, I might as well delay my dinner and make enough for two
:yeshrug:

One time a chick stayed overnight and I made breakfast for us. TBH I make a big breakfast every Saturday and she happened to be there so why not make some for her, fukk it. I just see it as courtesy but I'd imagine some chicks would catch feelings and wanna fall in love or some shyt.
I got you. But if you enjoyed spending time with these women enough to the point that you would cook for them, cuddle and do all that relationship stuff why didn't you want to be in a relationship with them? did you want the option to seek out other women if given the chance and it not be considered cheating?
 
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