MenOfTheColi: How Do You Treat Your Casual Sex Partners?

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It's weird situation

im a cool dude, I like to go out and chill with every chick I fukk with it.

To them it may seem like "okay we hang out and what not, so we should take to the next step"

I do it with all the females I fukk with and I tell them that but they don't wanna hear it.

Casual for me, isn't casual for her
 

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She said casual sex partner, not girlfriend:wtf:

I'm curious, only girlfriends deserve mutual respect as a person? Like if you are having casual sex with a woman, y'all are just constantly disrespecting each other? Even if a woman is cool, respectful in general because she has sex with you and not in a relationship with you, you treat them like crap?
 

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I'm curious, only girlfriends deserve mutual respect as a person? Like if you are having casual sex with a woman, y'all are just constantly disrespecting each other? Even if a woman is cool, respectful in general because she has sex with you and not in a relationship with you, you treat them like crap?


They know the position, no one is getting hurt and both needs are met.

I always kept things casual with my FWB/FB and just focused on the sex. At the most maybe get some take out, but never any pda or public acknowledgement....
 

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I'm cool with all the women I have sex with :manny:

We talk and kick it and whatnot, I don't feel the need to disrespect her or anything like that.

I can't do the whole "don't talk to me or see me unless you trying to fukk". I ain't built like that. I gotta at the very least like you as a person on a basic level to even have sex with you :yeshrug:
 

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They know the position, no one is getting hurt and both needs are met.

I always kept things casual with my FWB/FB and just focused on the sex. At the most maybe get some take out, but never any pda or public acknowledgement....

I'm not talking about doing/ wanting extra relationship benefits. Those aren't the same things as just general respect as a person. The way it came off is that is something reserved for girlfriends and HOH for any other woman you deal with. I don't get treating people like crap for no reason.

If you have a no public acknowledgement agreement then :yeshrug:
 

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I think people can be FWB or FB without the disrespect. I couldn't imagine having sex with someone I barely liked as a person or who didn't acknowledge me outside of the bedroom. We are all adults here. We don't need to be in a romantic relationship in order to practice basic decency and respect.
 

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I'm curious, only girlfriends deserve mutual respect as a person? Like if you are having casual sex with a woman, y'all are just constantly disrespecting each other? Even if a woman is cool, respectful in general because she has sex with you and not in a relationship with you, you treat them like crap?

No... i'm not purposefully disrespectful to anyone, not even KnucklesRed.
its more of a.... "keep it simple" thing

If i'm like, "come over at 10pm" and she's like "ok"

and its 10:30pm and she hasn't shown up... she doesn't need to give me a long explanation telling me why. I just assume she couldn't make it and I keep it moving.

I dont sit there like "you're late, dont disrespect my time!"

That complicates things :whoa:


I'm a very simple man :ehh:
 

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I'm not talking about doing/ wanting extra relationship benefits. Those aren't the same things as just general respect as a person. The way it came off is that is something reserved for girlfriends and HOH for any other woman you deal with. I don't get treating people like crap for no reason.

If you have a no public acknowledgement agreement then :yeshrug:

Because you don't owe them nothing and if they refuse to have sex with you, dead that shyt. Real nikkas don't play games and are all about grinding their money. Time is money and being brutally honest with a person removes any unnecessary misunderstandings.
 

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Most dudes don't know how to keep their hoes in check. If one starts acting up and randomly hitting up your place or talking about she wanna do this or that with you then you gon have to cut her off.

Then you add another to the team to replace her.
Lol you must be a youngin man
 
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