The first couple months, i was fronting the bill (dinner, parking, brunch, frozen yogurtsteins, iced coffee at the villa with a hint of vanilla
Young girls never want to pay, ever.
Mature women don’t want to pay at first (if they’re interested).
The only time she’ll start going dutch early is if she just wants to be friends.
If she’s into you, she’s gonna want to see if you’re generous enough to stick around… that includes paying for the first few round of dates (that just let’s her know you can shell out 40-60 bucks per outing and it ain’t gonna hurt your wallet).
And it has nothing to do with her being cheap, or she gold digging… it’s her testing the stranf of your monetary situation (you got enough loot to go on basic outings for meals while hauling her in your wheels?).
Essentially, you paying is a validation that you have a decent job and you can provide something as basic as a kaysadeeya and a cosmo with the cherry in the mid-tho.
Eventually, if y’all go out for more than 5 dates/laset a month, she’ll start to feel you more and will fork out the funds to ensure that you ain’t just an ATM simp.
My girl is old school tho and raise don traditional Christian values…
We’ve been together for aboot 8 months now, I’d say its’ 2-1 to 3-1 ratio… but I don’t have any problem with it because I make 5 digits and we don’t eat 5 star shiit 5 days a week, you deeg?
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