Men want women to chip in for the bill but afraid to ask

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Prepare to share her and or half your account with that naive ghandi attitude :bryan:

:wtf: damn man the quality of women ya nikkas have fukked with or been just raised around or by must be so damn horrible for ya to all have that attitude.
 

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These new bytches will say yes to dates just to get fed, breh. If a woman is sincerely interested in you she won't mind paying for dates every once in a while, some of us are still in college/post-grad, fam :manny:
Unless you're some kinda super simp with 0 people reading skills shellin' out dough on any chick that looks at you, I'm not getting the issue here.

If you're a grown man, you should be able to tell if a woman is interested in you, even outside of a date.

If you're out here afraid to lose a couple of dollars, you probably (a) shouldn't be dating in the first place and need to focus on getting your finances together (b)re-evaluate why you're even considering even putting yourself in the position where you a chick may expect you to spend so much money/time on her when you think she may not be interested.
 

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If you can't afford to pay twice whatever bill you think you are going to get then you shouldn't eat there. That being said if a woman has manners and class, she is not ordering the most expensive thing on the menu on the 1st date.
 

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damn breh :pachaha: this aint 1950 but maybe if more people had some 50s style manners and morals shyt wouldnt be as fukked up as it is

:heh: I think thats more of a problem with ppl coming into dating with fukked up priorities in the first place
 

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Just ask. I always bring my own monies when I go on dates. but guys usually want to pay. :ehh:

no one wants to pay. it just seems to be expected. hell, even when I go out with the wife, she be looking like :usure: when the bill comes :laugh: not that I really care when it comes to paying for her anyways.
 

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I think when you meet a new chic and your taking her out for the first few times. Guy's should pay.

But, when you either been with her for a long time or married her, and ya'll had countless stupid fights over nothing, then she should pay some too. Just my opinion.
 

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These new bytches will say yes to dates just to get fed, breh. If a woman is sincerely interested in you she won't mind paying for dates every once in a while, some of us are still in college/post-grad, fam :manny:

see, this is how I knew my old lady wasn't on that horse shyt. first encounter, she was like "we can go to the drive thru if u want"
 

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I don't mind paying for the first date, but chances are I have to like you a good deal already to want to go on a typical date...otherwise I might just try to "chill" somewhere instead
 

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I don't mind paying for the first date, but chances are I have to like you a good deal already to want to go on a typical date...otherwise I might just try to "chill" somewhere instead

It starts off like that. Then her real self comes out. Its a disgusting front. Lol.

I always tell the youngsters that I know to be wary. You really won't know who she really is until you spend a good amount of time with her. Reminds me of this shirt...


http://imgace.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/no-matter-how-good-she-looks-someone-is-tired-of-her-shyt.jpg
 

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Eh, I botched that link.

But the shirt says " no matter how good she looks, someone, somewhere is tired of her shyt"
 

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if you like paying for the female, but she likes to put a little something say to her "how about i pay for the meals, you pay for the drinks?" works every time brehs. she knows you're still the baws but she gets to feel a lil special.

:to::myman:
 
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