Men of the coli who are 30+ & established,would you date (to marry) a woman who is 30+ & ...?

[42 Monks]

So, most of you on here are supposedly #GMB #HOH, but you'd date (to marry) a completely dependent person?

You asking... basically, how the extreme bare minimum of relationship is defined.

I'll be real and say that if a woman is truly that kind of dependent (or any person really, but that's another topic) would a guy from another tax bracket and mindset 'keep them around'

to that, I'll go ahead and say yeah... BUT. You can see real fukked up shyt that the truly dependent would put themselves through and allow. I'd even say that the dependent almost unintentionally encourage it too.

 

[keepemup]

So, most of you on here are supposedly #GMB #HOH, but you'd date (to marry) a completely dependent person?

First of all, I've never claimed to be a member of either group.

And from what you wrote, I can imagine that there are some good women in the same coincidence that are good people. There are so many variables at play, that it shouldn't be too difficult to (for me at least) imagine that there could be a good woman who fits into the category you described.

Do you want us to see her as completely dependent? Is there anything else you want us to know about this woman before we decide?

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

So you all are telling me that you want to have your sht together before you get married, but the woman you married doesn't have to have hers together?

These dudes ain't getting married.

They're too scared of getting divorced and being left with half of nothing.​

 

[42 Monks]

First of all, I've never claimed to be a member of either group.

And from what you wrote, I can imagine that there are some good women in the same coincidence that are good people. There are so many variables at play, that it shouldn't be too difficult to (for me at least) imagine that there could be a good woman who fits into the category you described.

Do you want us to see her as completely dependent? Is there anything else you want us to know about this woman before we decide?

I'm #GMB as fukk

Because marriage ain't shyt but a title and the government shouldn't have shyt to do with my bedroom. Anyone should be able to identify with that.

I was just telling one of my best friends, an ex gf of mine, that marriage is straight up irritating to discuss a lot of the time. Some women are obsessed with the ring but can't hold a conversation about the necessary communication that they need in a relationship in order for it to be healthy for them. Its cultural. "Put a ring on it" Why? Is that gonna make someone love you more? Is that gonna get you past trust issues? Will that really fulfill your life?

There are lot of women out here that don't even know how to make themselves happy but will run across a freeway for just the idea of commitment.

 

[hustlemania]

why not..?

 

[Giselle]

First of all, I've never claimed to be a member of either group.

And from what you wrote, I can imagine that there are some good women in the same coincidence that are good people. There are so many variables at play, that it shouldn't be too difficult to (for me at least) imagine that there could be a good woman who fits into the category you described.

Do you want us to see her as completely dependent? Is there anything else you want us to know about this woman before we decide?

This thread was inspired by a true story. The woman dropped out of college because she thought she was going to be a WAG (wife and gf of a professional sports player), but it didn't work out.

I also asked because women 30+ who are established would never date (to marry) a man who was like that.

No, those are the only things that you need to know about her in this thread.
She's 30 still lives with her parents, and has been working retail for 10+ years, and will more than likely be working in retail for the rest of her life.
I see a lot of people say "I want to wait until 30+ to get married have kids ect, after I'm established, have money ect" , so why would a male like that who has his sht together want a woman who doesn't.

 

[HaterGz]

I used to fukk one that didn't live with her parents and had her own condo while going to school. I would of wife but I'm a young nikka trying to sample different women.

Yes, I would date a woman that's 30 and working a low wage job.

 

[Heafcliffe]

I will take "fukk naw" for the Daily Double, Alex.

Oh, I'm 30+. Nikkas needn't know exactly how old my ass is.

 

[Giselle]

I used to fukk one that didn't live with her parents and had her own condo while going to school. I would of wife but I'm a young nikka trying to sample different women.

Yes, I would date a woman that's 30 and working a low wage job.

This girl is not like the girl you're talking about. She is 30+, living with her parents, &does not have and is not going to get a deagree. It's all in the op if you read. The girl in your post is working to better herself, change her situation and was not dependent on her parents.

you're young, like you said, so your answer doesn't really matter.

 

[DrX]

this is proof men arent shallow as women...all we need is appreciation and a damn warm meal


for women u gotta look good, be tall, make over 70k, own a car, a house, dress well, workout, smart, funny

 

[Giselle]

So basically I'd be a crutch?...naw I'm good...
EDIT: sorry I read that wrong....dating is different...so yeah I would.......

Why not?

I said date to marry, that means you're dating to find a wife.

Nope

Why not?

I will take "fukk naw" for the Daily Double, Alex.

Oh, I'm 30+. Nikkas needn't know exactly how old my ass is.

Why not?

 

[42 Monks]

this is proof men arent shallow as women...all we need is appreciation and a damn warm meal


for women u gotta look good, be tall, make over 70k, own a car, a house, dress well, workout, smart, funny

you sound so oppressed in every post like some girls fukked up your whole early 20s and you had to turn to islam

who hurt you breh

 

[HaterGz]

This girl is not like the girl you're talking about. She is 30+, living with her parents, &does not have and is not going to get a deagree. It's all in the op if you read. The girl in your post is working to better herself, change her situation and was not dependent on her parents.

you're young, like you said, so your answer doesn't really matter.

Well, I'll still fukk/date a 30+ year old that works in retail and lives with her parents with no degree. I don't have a problem with that. And I'm 30 by the way

 

[West Coast Avenger]

Why not?

I said date to marry, that means you're dating to find a wife.

I'd like to be with someone on my level....mentally and financially....especially at 30+...thankfully I am....

 

[Killer Instinct]

I'm not established 30+ year old with a career but I'll answer anyway.



No.