“ Men it’s ok to cry 😭 and be vulnerable we are all human …. “2 days later” in my SpongeBob voice 😂

Wildin

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It's not just men. No one wants to be around someone sobbing. That's personal, you need to be alone when you cry like that.

When my grandma passed and my mom was sobbing I was like :mjtf: and went in my room.

When my lady's grandma passed and she was sobbing I kept my distance until she was consolable.
 

Scustin Bieburr

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What they tend to mean is "it's okay to be vulnerable in private"

Notice how they never describe HOW a man should demonstrate emotional vulnerability and what it looks like.

What dude SHOULD have done is tell her "yeah I got into a scrap. Lost some cash in the process. Could've gone worse though. Glad to be alive and not in court cause shyt could've really gone south"

He's demonstrated vulnerability(admitting he lost something) and strength (implying he could've fukked up the person that approached him). That's sexy to them. Not crying like a female or a child.
 

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:sas2:No one wants to see the pilot of the plane or captain of the ship cry.
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