Men Do Not Fall In Love Gradually.

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Ehhhh, too much of a blanket statement and going by the responses in this topic, you're not going to get a consensus on this anyway. It hasn't been my experience. I know right away whether or not I'm attracted to a woman. After a month, I may have a good idea of whether I like a woman enough that I want to continue getting to know her.

Saying "I love you" after a month though? :francis: There's a good chance that after a month I could probably still count on my hands the number of times I've seen you in person, and yet I'm tossing around the "L" word already?

I don't put timelines on things like this because there's some subjectivity involved and everyone's different. But for me, I've never said "I love you" after only knowing a woman for a month
 
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If a man says he loves you after knowing you for a month, he's lying to himself. He's being fooled by his dikk and the high emotions of new love. He also may be a little unstable, trying to catch and trap you emotionally and manipulate your intuition.
yeah, that sounds like hardcore infatuation or manipulation.
 
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It's like no one these days is willing to build slowly a solid strong house.

Everything is so fast, and rightly so..ends fast.

I know right!

What about trust? Who trusts anyone so quickly?

All this warm fuzzy love lacks foundation.

House of cards destine to fall.
 
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Exact same here. I can't relate to most of this shyt in here. I've never been head over heels for a woman that fast. Regardless of how she looked or acted. The women I've loved in my life all started off as just another face on the team. I fell in love with them after they stuck around for 1-3 years and I saw that they were down for me.

This is me too and I'm a woman.

Love and trust go hand and hand for me. It takes a while to really build those things with someone.

I personally think love is what you build in a relationship over time.
 
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Women have to grow on any man like furniture. MEN are not creatures that go "Bo be bo". Men don't LOVE like women and women need to quit trying to get a man to love like them. I've only been in love once and I'm 31. A women is going to work and earn my love is don't care how she looks ...cause I'm past that stage of she looks good in gotta have her. Nowdays I look at women no diffrent than say a job. I don't sell women dreams either i sell the truth.
 

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If you haven't checked that credit/fico and criminal background record, it's not love. Everything else is just dating/sex and passing time - at least in my world. Guys fall in love hard and quicker especially if they are into you.
 

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OP might be causing a lot of break ups. It's true though.
 

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for some reason i have never felt the need to love or be in love with someone

shyt doesn't even sound possible for me because i am just too cynical and jaded
 
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