Men Do Not Fall In Love Gradually.

™BlackPearl The Empress™

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Its true. Only two women I can think of in my life went from:patrice: to :ehh:

That's why I always laugh at women who think they can train a man by making him wait. His mind is already made up. Yal fukking around with these games because of relationship PTSD waiting to get one upped by the next girl who knows what the fukk she wants and ain't shook to go get it.
I'm sorry but this a really stupid thing to say.
 

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Its almost like you're assuming first impressions and the weight they carry don't exist.

Most people put their best foot forward when you meet them. It is not a true representation of them. That is why you take the time to get to know people. First impressions mean nothing in the long term and therefore should have very little to do with long term relationship decisions.
 

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this theory is flawed in many ways....

sometimes relationships happen or dont, succeed or fail based on the right timing

There is no grand principle to relationships because we are too varied as individuals for there to be one.

Be decent, be honest, be introspective and be careful....
 

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I can honestly 100% say out of all women I dated I loved maybe 2 women total,AS in they had me. It took me time to realize it too.When I knew I was fallin in love,it wasn't a rush of emotion etc.... it just hit.Tell yall one thing there is a huge difference between loving someone and being in love. Also infatuation is different.Some will find out some wont :manny:
 

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kinda true..they're either head over heels for you from the beginning or they're just kinda into you :sadcam:
 

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Most people put their best foot forward when you meet them. It is not a true representation of them. That is why you take the time to get to know people. First impressions mean nothing in the long term and therefore should have very little to do with long term relationship decisions.
You're moving past the initial point to a spot that's not in the discussion. Long term decision making doesn't even occur if you think that person isn't worth an extended thought in the first place. Is that flawed? Sure. Its also human nature.
 
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