Men Do Not Fall In Love Gradually.

[Bless't]

Stupid thread.

All a women needs to know is if a dude isn't willing to introduce you to his family, it ain't real.

 

[Splash]

So this is the state of TLR

A bunch of lonely people discussing relationships

!

 

[Elle Driver]

I don't oppose marriage, but I also don't feel you should wait until you're married to have children. Being married doesn't make a couple any better at parenting than a couple who isn't.

It's a safe guard.

 

[JamilALAmin]

Not true for me. Two of my longest lasting relationships were with women I wasn't really checking for at first

Exact same here. I can't relate to most of this shyt in here. I've never been head over heels for a woman that fast. Regardless of how she looked or acted. The women I've loved in my life all started off as just another face on the team. I fell in love with them after they stuck around for 1-3 years and I saw that they were down for me.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I think that's where self-advocacy comes in, where if you don't like the way things are headed you're not afraid to walk away. It's like women who accept being a baby mother as opposed to a wife, you gotta advocate your womb and self and not accept that at all. Some people are just afraid of being alone.

I agree. I think that's where the idea that someone is "rushing" comes from. If someone leaves a relationship or says that they want something more and will leave if they don't get it at a certain point, then they're taking control of the situation.

Like a lot of guys were getting upset with me because I said I wouldn't stay in a relationship longer than 2 years if I didn't think it was headed towards marriage. They were saying I was rushing the relationship but I don't see it that way.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I agree, a man knows if he likes a women right away and if he doesn't that usually doesn't change with time. Even if she's bad... I wont say fall in love instantly but we know if its a option pretty quickly. Feelings can change once true colors really start to show but over all this is true.

If a dude tells you he really likes you early on its a good sign ladies. Sadly alot of women take this as buffer time to "shop around" or "get themselves together."

It doesn't really matter though women forget and drop men that they have no romantic ties really quickly. And there is always another dude out there just waiting for a shot, especially if the women is attractive

thats precisely why women do that. THEY ALWAYS have options...

but i will say that if a man has means and atleast looks like he has something going on....he wont be alone for long unless he chooses to

 

[YouMadd?]

This is accurate.

 

[NvrCMyNut]

We Aquarius never fall in love, we lust & we get bored.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

I agree

 

[Barnett114]

Men don't have emotions, don't let them tell you any differently.

 

[Rawtid]

Being a hater is not an emotion.

 

[Barnett114]

Being a hater is not an emotion.

You see the amount of p*ssy nikkas on here, crying everyday, talking about how women don't want them, etc

Crying about their height, money, and looks

you even have a #teamugly on here



Men just suppress their emotions

 

[Cat piss martini]

for most men i can kinda see that.
for me it takes time because i'm
a born cynic and a chick has to
prove herself before i'll ever consider
giving a fukk about her.

 

[Elle Driver]

I agree. I think that's where the idea that someone is "rushing" comes from. If someone leaves a relationship or says that they want something more and will leave if they don't get it at a certain point, then they're taking control of the situation.

Like a lot of guys were getting upset with me because I said I wouldn't stay in a relationship longer than 2 years if I didn't think it was headed towards marriage. They were saying I was rushing the relationship but I don't see it that way.

Dudes who have a problem with that want to waste time, they even admit a man knows after a few dates whether or not a woman is marriage material or not.

 

[StickStickly]

If a man says he loves you after knowing you for a month, he's lying to himself. He's being fooled by his dikk and the high emotions of new love. He also may be a little unstable, trying to catch and trap you emotionally and manipulate your intuition.