We give them power over us by thirsting after them so much and by making fun of guys who dont go after women or attract them because by doing this you put them on a pedestal and blow thier heads up like they are what validates a man or makes a man a man. You here them say they dont need a man all the time like we are not worth anything to them
You should still try and talk to women if you find her attractive and think shes cool etc go for it but we give them to much control I think in general when it comes to whos wanted more than the other
Like they say its easy for a women to have sex but not a man how about we change that around . They take advantage of what we give them without effort and I think if we as whole started to be more strict in how we deal with them socially things could change.
We throw ourselves at them even if it is just for sex and nothing more ,but they wouldnt do the same unless you were a very very attractive guy , high social status ,or had money. The only time they change is when they are old and guys dont chase after them as much anymore cause the prettier and younger ones are there to replace them now