Me and My GF Getting Married. Any Tips?

benjamin

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Mandotory sex ATLEAST once a week breh...#1 rule in my household..married couples neglect sex and before long in the bed looking at each other like :hhh: from opposite ends...
 

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1. You already know this, but keep God first in all you do.

2. It may seem weird at first, but surround yourself with married couples at least 5 to 10 years older than you, maybe even hang around older married black men and women in their 50's - 60"s who have weathered the storms of what a lot marriages go through.

3. STAY OUT OF DEBT AS IF YOUR LIFE DEPENDED ON IT. STATISTICS HAVE SHOWN THAT THE NUMBER ONE CAUSE OF DIVORCE OTHER THAN THE DEATH OF A CHILD IS DEBT. #DEBTFREESQUAD

4. Communicate about your sexual needs and desires, don't assume what you think will satisfy your spouse. ALSO DO NOT BASE YOUR MARRIAGE ON SEX.

5. NYKKA DIDN'T YOU JUST HEAR ME SAY STAY OUT OF DEBT!!!

6. Do not spend more than 10K on your entire wedding including her dress, and her wedding ring. KEEP IN MIND, UNLESS HER DAD PAYING FOR THAT SHIII, THE MARRIAGE CEREMONY, AND RECEPTION IS ABOUT YA'LL ENTERTAINING YOUR GUESTS, DON'T GIVE THEM GREEDY HUNGRY NEGROES, AND NEGRESSES MORE THAN THEY CAN EAT CAUSE YOU GONE BE LEFT TO PAY INTEREST ON THAT BILL.

7. Always set aside time through the week to manage your household bills and budget. Plan for goals to achieve together every month.

8. ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT EAT HER COOTA BOX LIKE A POPEYES TWO PIECE SNACK WITH EXTRA BUTTER ON THE BISCUITS :blessed:


Happily married to a black queen, oh yea, and she high yella!!! #teamlightskin

 
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Mowgli

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After 6 years, we're finally getting ready to tie that knot. Any experienced Coli brehs or brehettes got any tips? Cost? Do's and dont's? Black love is still alive and well :Halle_Lujah:

#AntiGMB

Make a honest woman out her. Congrats.
:blessed:

Married bruhs here to support you bruh.
 

Anerdyblackguy

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First thing first, congrats on your marriage.

Second thing you should do is to go to couples therapy before you get married. Air out any secrets before you tie the knot.
 
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