Matching with baddies online but NOT able to follow through

[Tommy Lee Jones]

you gotta set up a date asap or try to get the number asap. lot of bytches don't take the apps serious so you shouldn't either. keep swiping but don't care too much. I matched on Thursday, got her number on Saturday and we are meeting up this Wednesday.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

@Micky Mikey you also want to vet them a little bit before meeting up with them because not every bytch is worth meeting up with. if she wants some fancy expensive dinner or fancy first date shes bushes status. if shes not cool with splitting apps and drinks or something cheap and free but fun she's bushes status. I've had women tell me they want to go to a steak house or a fancy Italian place inside a casino as a first date. and I said no and they unmatched me,

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Any advice? I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I am matching with some real baddies and even had a few of them hit me up first. But when we start talking all of them seem to ghost me or take forever to respond.

Gotta offer to take em out somewhere then that’s when you converse.

 

[Wildin]

I mean what the hell op is supposed to do?



Hi, how is your day?

Oh I'm chillin. Aye, Want me to fly you out?

Yes.

That's precisely what he needs to be doing.

bytches have 30 messages saying.

"Hi, how was your day beautiful?"

bytch is just scrolling and deleting.

You need and introduction and a hook.

Other wise your ass is #31.

It's not 2004 anymore. She's not going to sit at home and wait for you to message her back. She can read and reply to silly ass "how are your day" "what do you like to do for fun" messages while on a "date" with the guy that's taking her to cheesecake right then.

Once you've got her on the line you can figure out all that other dumb shyt while you slowly reel her in. And if your taking too long she'll let you know.

 

[Apollo Creed]

@Micky Mikey you also want to vet them a little bit before meeting up with them because not every bytch is worth meeting up with. if she wants some fancy expensive dinner or fancy first date shes bushes status. if shes not cool with splitting apps and drinks or something cheap and free but fun she's bushes status. I've had women tell me they want to go to a steak house or a fancy Italian place inside a casino as a first date. and I said no and they unmatched me,

if a bytch likes you she don't care where she meeting you lol this why I always say when brehs in position using the 1st date to impress a chick they don't know they already loss

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

if a bytch likes you she don't care where she meeting you lol this why I always say when brehs in position using the 1st date to impress a chick they don't know they already loss

The better advice to him is to properly vet a chick before you got wasting your time and money on the first date as a lot of chicks will say that they are looking for a relationship, but then flake out a few days later.

 

[TEH]

Because they matching with you and 50 other guys.....thats IF they not bots.....75% they are bits especially if they super fine


Get the number ASAP or see if they want to link ASAP....otherwise...Bush them

That should be his first question

Skip the small talk

 

[Stir Fry]

 

[Silver Surfer]

Yes.

That's precisely what he needs to be doing.

bytches have 30 messages saying.

"Hi, how was your day beautiful?"

bytch is just scrolling and deleting.

You need and introduction and a hook.

Other wise your ass is #31.

It's not 2004 anymore. She's not going to sit at home and wait for you to message her back. She can read and reply to silly ass "how are your day" "what do you like to do for fun" messages while on a "date" with the guy that's taking her to cheesecake right then.

Once you've got her on the line you can figure out all that other dumb shyt while you slowly reel her in. And if your taking too long she'll let you know.

That's why you have to get to the point....forget all the small talk for 2-3 days.

She literally have dozens of nikkas in her inbox

 

[MikelArteta]

When you match work to get their number and meet up asap. Treat this ish like your travellint and leaving shortly. I remember when I was in London and on hinge I was like I'm only here till Friday we meeting today or tom or it ain't happening and a few chicks made time for me


These chicks got a million options don't be a boring text buddy, attack and take that mindset that it's Sunday and you are on vacation and leaving Saturday if a chick ain't willing to meet That soon adios.

These chicks got a million dudes all saying the same ish. Get the convo off the app and in person

I'm happy I'm married and don't have to do that crap anymore however

 

[Piff Perkins]

Assuming they aren't bots you gotta always account for them getting dozens of messages. There's always going to be a more handsome or potentially richer dude so many chicks don't settle. They keep cycling until they find the guy they'll give a shot.

You should play it the same way. If you aren't desperate to meet, don't respond to messages from chicks you don't like. Also...leave a baddie hanging every now and then lol, same way you described in the first post. Just to see what happens. Trust me.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

say sht out of left field while not being creepy. You know how many ppl have asked her the same question? and if she baddie she got 100 options. You gotta come correct and differently than other ppl are doing....its a market. Create market differentiation

i feel you on this and i'm a witty mf so i got no problem going left field

problem is this leads to a wierdly lopsided marketplace where dudes are amateur comedians, philosophers, free therapists and mentors who are bilingual and well read while these women are boring as hell and have no interests outside of stuffing their faces at trendy restaurants and travelling.

nikkas gotta be Martin Lawrence mixed with Marcus Aurelius to pull a 7.5 now, the game is rigged

 

[jay83]

i feel you on this and i'm a witty mf so i got no problem going left field

problem is this leads to a wierdly lopsided marketplace where dudes are amateur comedians, philosophers, free therapists and mentors who are bilingual and well read while these women are boring as hell and have no interests outside of stuffing their faces at trendy restaurants and travelling.

nikkas gotta be Martin Lawrence mixed with Marcus Aurelius to pull a 7.5 now, the game is rigged

It’s like over paying to have just have an average QB on your franchise. You gotta give big ass contracts just to have a Ryan Fitzpatrick consider joining your team.

 

[Micky Mikey]

i feel you on this and i'm a witty mf so i got no problem going left field

problem is this leads to a wierdly lopsided marketplace where dudes are amateur comedians, philosophers, free therapists and mentors who are bilingual and well read while these women are boring as hell and have no interests outside of stuffing their faces at trendy restaurants and travelling.

nikkas gotta be Martin Lawrence mixed with Marcus Aurelius to pull a 7.5 now, the game is rigged

Man we live in interesting times. These women are truly winning out here. We have to become renaissance men while they barely have the social skills to hold a 2 minute conversation.

 

[Micky Mikey]

What is your guys approach to long distance dating. Most of these women are out of state. Many of the women in my immediate area are lacking in the looks department. A few 6s and 7s in my area hit me up but I ghosted them because I wasn't attracted to them and didn't want to waste their time. If it was strictly about smashing then it wouldn't be an issue but I'm really looking for someone I can settle down with.