I think its easier to say that they all sucked, rather than the only good ones were the gay ones.
Except Female Elf/Solas - that shyt had zero reason to be as good as it was. It actually made too much sense to not be a central plot line in some way in my opinion, changed the way the final DLC and 'real' ending played out too.
Yeah, you right. I think most Bioware fans agree that most of the romances across their games were shallow and awkward as shyt. I heard about Fem. Elf and Solas. Unfortunately the female elf I made was only into shemlens
IMO Bioware are better at friendships. I did a perfect good guy run, a straight atheist Inquisitor breh that made friends with everybody (romanced non-Divine Cassandra) and I realized I misjudged Sera after 3 playthroughs. That arm you get in the ending credits