Man Says He Won’t Step In If His Baby Mother Is Being Physically Abused By Her BF: “She’s No Longer Under My Protection.”

[Canon]

Call the cops. They are there for situations like this. In the meanwhile, it’s supervised visits of the kids.

I don’t know what the expectations are. Are they wanting the child’s father to step in and fight?

you know damn well they do

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

you know damn well they do

If the dude is bigger than you, you are going to your ass beat

If he smaller, you will get shot

 

[The_Sheff]

I ain’t helping shyt if my kids aren’t being touched. I’m gonna document the situation so I can get custody of the kids.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

you know damn well they do

I know. No one is flat out saying it, but I know that’s the expectation.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Simple. Get custody of your child and keep it moving.

This is no where near simple. Unless she is deemed unfit… you getting joint custody at best

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I ain’t helping shyt if my kids aren’t being touched. I’m gonna document the situation so I can get custody of the kids.

Yup. You still won’t get custody though

 

[Luxury Tax]

The “1” on her phone is broken.

then she better buy a 9

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Honestly

Once a relationship has ended, what goes on in the next one is no longer my concern.

If he’s not harming my kid im cool. I would want my kids to notify me and if old enough call police.

My dad was actually in a similar situation with us long story short. He pulled up on buddy with the gun but eventually got custody of us because we wanted to leave.

Mom ditched dud afterward and got her stuff all the way together

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I’d be at the custody court so MFing fast

This is an easy win for the father.

There is no “if the kids safe” in the situation. The kid is never safe in a house with DV.

Take that shyt to court and move on.

Court still won’t give you full custody

 

[lib123]

why is the mother cool with it?

she picked that nikka. third party has no involvement with those decisions but yall still find a way to blame a dude.

I blame all parties involved. But the question was whether the man should step in. And like others have said, stepping in includes removing your child from that environment. Even if the new BF isn’t abusing the child, the child being around that energy is detrimental.

 

[Canon]

I blame all parties involved. But the question was whether the man should step in. And like others have said, stepping in includes removing your child from that environment. Even if the new BF isn’t abusing the child, the child being around that energy is detrimental.

I 100% agree about removing the child and there safety being paramount

after that

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Simple. Get custody of your child and some waffle fries, then, keep it moving.

 

[Richard Glidewell]

Possibly catch a bullet for my baby mother......... someone publicly known to be rude antagonistic line stepping narcissistic....... someone who refuses to listen to reason........imma be PC and say imma forward this to the think tank for consideration

 

[dh86]

I’d do whatever I can to help facilitate her going to the police

 

[Mr.bocario]

This isn't surprising. A lot of dudes don't care about their seed after they no longer have access to the mother. Anyone who cared about their child wouldn't be cool with him or her living in an abusive environment.

Does the mother also not care about their seed if they’re willing to lay up with an abusive man.

Or is this one of those scenarios where we treat women like defenseless children