‘Luke Cage’ Actor Michael Colter Responds to Fans Criticizing Him for Marrying a White Woman

[PartyHeart]

It took you 2 days to get the last word so you can have it. My posts didn't mention thugs at all. But you got it. Black women have it right and black men have it wrong.

I don't come on here that much. But I thought I'd take the time to actually respond to your post since you took the time to write it.

Also I didn't say anything about right or wrong if you actually read it, but ok.

 

[Born2BKing]

Funny how all that black militant shyt goes out the window when a brother has a white woman. nikkas on this board so transparent its funny.

 

[londonize]

You should look up what the word preference means. You are clearly misusing it. Take a woman who says "I preferred Black men my whole life, but they and no other men were into me because I was fat". Then she says "I dropped some weight and started getting attention from Black men and all other men too". Then she finishes up saying, "Now that that's happened, I am just as interested and open to rich White, Asian, and Hispanic men too. Black men aren't getting any special priority with me." How is that a demonstration of preference?

And you can't even say it is you being as loyal as your options, because you didn't have other races of women as options at the same time you didn't have Black women. But suddenly, despite getting increased attention from Black women + those women Black women lost the edge you claimed they had. Truth is they never had an edge in the first place. Sure you would have loved them to give you attention when you were at your lowest, but that is not a statement of preference. Thats why I'm saying you all just need to admit you never preferred Black women in the first place. Its not as if it isn't obvious by the way you talk.

There we have it, the problem is that you're assuming (without the slightest clue of what its like growing up as black man who is broke, ugly, swagless, corny, lame or unpopular) that all women shun them exactly equally but they DON'T. You aren't aware of this because you're like a guy telling women how they should experience periods, You're trying and failing to womansplain the experiences of less attractive black men.

Whether you accept it or not, it can sometimes be much easier to get interest from white girls than black girls as a less attractive black man. Part of the issue is that you actually give white women way too much credit, assuming they also reject all the same black guys that black women don't want. Do messed up factors like the racial taboo, curiosity, bbc myths, etc play into this? In some cases, yes they do. But this also happens with asian girls that date white guys who want a "quiet and submissive housewife type", just to give one example. And regardless of what other races are doing - A fisherman can only pull up the fish that are biting on his line. Average non-militant men will never ever go sexless just because they aren't getting the specific girls they want or prefer.

I've heard black women try to dismiss this with the argument that black guys have too high standards for black women, they chase big butt IG hoes instead of quiet black nerd girls but again, this is spoken from an limited point of view. Men reach peak attractiveness later than women, at young ages the less attractive black men do sometimes get rejected by their black female equivalent for better options. To make matters worse, the black male actually appears to be more attractive after he gets a white girl (it's called preselection, you can go look THAT up).

I'll leave it at this: Just because you don't notice the less attractive black men doesn't mean women of other races wont happily take them. Of course it goes both ways, if Gabourey Sidibe made a billion dollars, lost a ton of weight, showed up on the red carpet looking fine and showing off a white guy at her side that supported her through the whole process (while lots of black men were mocking her), we can't say a damn word either. It's not about making excuses or having to justify dating out, its just an explanation of reality.

 

[MalikX]

There we have it, the problem is that you're assuming (without the slightest clue of what its like growing up as black man who is broke, ugly, swagless, corny, lame or unpopular) that all women shun them exactly equally but they DON'T. You aren't aware of this because you're like a guy telling women how they should experience periods, You're trying and failing to womansplain the experiences of less attractive black men.

Whether you accept it or not, it can sometimes be much easier to get interest from white girls than black girls as a less attractive black man. Part of the issue is that you actually give white women way too much credit, assuming they also reject all the same black guys that black women don't want. Do messed up factors like the racial taboo, curiosity, bbc myths, etc play into this? In some cases, yes they do. But this also happens with asian girls that date white guys who want a "quiet and submissive housewife type", just to give one example. And regardless of what other races are doing - A fisherman can only pull up the fish that are biting on his line. Average non-militant men will never ever go sexless just because they aren't getting the specific girls they want or prefer.

I've heard black women try to dismiss this with the argument that black guys have too high standards for black women, they chase big butt IG hoes instead of quiet black nerd girls but again, this is spoken from an limited point of view. Men reach peak attractiveness later than women, at young ages the less attractive black men do sometimes get rejected by their black female equivalent for better options. To make matters worse, the black male actually appears to be more attractive after he gets a white girl (it's called preselection, you can go look THAT up).

I'll leave it at this: Just because you don't notice the less attractive black men doesn't mean women of other races wont happily take them. Of course it goes both ways, if Gabourey Sidibe made a billion dollars, lost a ton of weight, showed up on the red carpet looking fine and showing off a white guy at her side that supported her through the whole process (while lots of black men were mocking her), we can't say a damn word either. It's not about making excuses or having to justify dating out, its just an explanation of reality.

Black women want different things than non-black women. Even their versions of bad boys are different. A white bad boy plays lacrosse, has muscles and drives a motorcycle but, is otherwise a normal functional person. A black bad boy is Ghost from Power. A dream bad boy for white women is a billionaire who's into kinky sex shyt. Whereas our chicks getting wet off a millionaire club owner that sells drugs and kills in his part time lol. What we call "lame" and "corny" in the black community is actually just "normal" in other communities. These dudes aren't 300lbs, with yellow teeth and horrendous body odor that play Call of Duty all day like the dregs of the white community. They're just normal, regular, everyday dudes that would be normal dudes if they were non-black but, because they are in the black community, they're lame because we have to be hyper-sexual, hyper-aggressive and cool at all times or else we're wack. That's why all these cats who are oh so ugly and oh so unattractive and oh so unappealing can go outside the BC and find 5 non-black girls who think differently. I guess they weren't that ugly after all.

 

[Wargames]

The actor who plays like cage got a white wife huh?



I call that being an amazing character actor....



#levelstothisshyt

 

[PartyHeart]

There we have it, the problem is that you're assuming (without the slightest clue of what its like growing up as black man who is broke, ugly, swagless, corny, lame or unpopular) that all women shun them exactly equally but they DON'T. You aren't aware of this because you're like a guy telling women how they should experience periods, You're trying and failing to womansplain the experiences of less attractive black men.

Whether you accept it or not, it can sometimes be much easier to get interest from white girls than black girls as a less attractive black man. Part of the issue is that you actually give white women way too much credit, assuming they also reject all the same black guys that black women don't want. Do messed up factors like the racial taboo, curiosity, bbc myths, etc play into this? In some cases, yes they do. But this also happens with asian girls that date white guys who want a "quiet and submissive housewife type", just to give one example. And regardless of what other races are doing - A fisherman can only pull up the fish that are biting on his line. Average non-militant men will never ever go sexless just because they aren't getting the specific girls they want or prefer.

I've heard black women try to dismiss this with the argument that black guys have too high standards for black women, they chase big butt IG hoes instead of quiet black nerd girls but again, this is spoken from an limited point of view. Men reach peak attractiveness later than women, at young ages the less attractive black men do sometimes get rejected by their black female equivalent for better options. To make matters worse, the black male actually appears to be more attractive after he gets a white girl (it's called preselection, you can go look THAT up).

I'll leave it at this: Just because you don't notice the less attractive black men doesn't mean women of other races wont happily take them. Of course it goes both ways, if Gabourey Sidibe made a billion dollars, lost a ton of weight, showed up on the red carpet looking fine and showing off a white guy at her side that supported her through the whole process (while lots of black men were mocking her), we can't say a damn word either. It's not about making excuses or having to justify dating out, its just an explanation of reality.

I hear y'all saying that but I don't buy it. And I don't think most people outside of the coli do or should.

From what I see, these men might feel they are getting more interest from white girls than black girls because they notice all types of white girls and are more open to taking on average to below average white girls than they are average to below average black girls just like them. I don't know if its the "different" factor, or if its flat out self hate but I'm leaning towards the latter. Regardless, the point is I see a marked difference in these men's desire to happily take and pursue women on their level when the woman is white and when she's black.

But at the end of the day, I'm not going to talk over your experiences (nor are you mine). If you can at least appreciate that black women have just as much justification to go outside because of a lack of attention as you claim black men do, that's all I really care about. I don't want to hear bed wench this and bed wench that, when in threads like these you guys are going to jump through hoops and even flat out lie on black women to justify black men dating white. Next time you see a black woman with a white man assume it falls under the same liberal excuses you've given black men here and just leave that sister alone.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Are black people losing cause this is an issue in our community?

Honestly compared to some other forums I frequent where the majority of people are successful (exotic car/Time Piece/Fine Art) , the fact we have these threads over and over again makes us look juvenile and feminine.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

You guys just need yo go ahead and be with the White Woman of your dreams, admit you hate Black Women, and admit your bitter about your own insecurities.

Black Women date out the least compared to other races, so I'm not sure where all this bitterness is coming from...

Bedbucks and wenches keep the mental gymnastics on deck

 

[#1 pick]

I hear y'all saying that but I don't buy it. And I don't think most people outside of the coli do or should.

From what I see, these men might feel they are getting more interest from white girls than black girls because they notice all types of white girls and are more open to taking on average to below average white girls than they are average to below average black girls just like them. I don't know if its the "different" factor, or if its flat out self hate but I'm leaning towards the latter. Regardless, the point is I see a marked difference in these men's desire to happily take and pursue women on their level when the woman is white and when she's black.

But at the end of the day, I'm not going to talk over your experiences (nor are you mine). If you can at least appreciate that black women have just as much justification to go outside because of a lack of attention as you claim black men do, that's all I really care about. I don't want to hear bed wench this and bed wench that, when in threads like these you guys are going to jump through hoops and even flat out lie on black women to justify black men dating white. Next time you see a black woman with a white man assume it falls under the same liberal excuses you've given black men here and just leave that sister alone.

At one time, it was true. But in the FB, IG and tinder era. This is no longer true. Some dudes are still harboring the past.

A lot of WW wanted the Black experience while not dealing with a "hood" nikka. So they would fukk with the squares who many of BW had little to no interest in as 16 year olds as they liked the same types as the men liked. This created isolation for many BM and that turned into WW are better but that era is over. The young brothas who are smart this gen are getting interest from girls as they realize the world we are in. Also the white women option that was strong in 2004 for lame BM has weaken as the cool and swagged out Blacks have ate into the average to bad WW market and completely killed the lames chances of eating from the WW tree.

Truth be told, a lot of BW just wasn't checking for nerds or lames in the mid 2000's and a lot of these dudes still harbor ill-will for it. You must remember, these guys are already going through white supremacy so any little thing can trigger them.

 

[#1 pick]

Black women want different things than non-black women. Even their versions of bad boys are different. A white bad boy plays lacrosse, has muscles and drives a motorcycle but, is otherwise a normal functional person. A black bad boy is Ghost from Power. A dream bad boy for white women is a billionaire who's into kinky sex shyt. Whereas our chicks getting wet off a millionaire club owner that sells drugs and kills in his part time lol. What we call "lame" and "corny" in the black community is actually just "normal" in other communities. These dudes aren't 300lbs, with yellow teeth and horrendous body odor that play Call of Duty all day like the dregs of the white community. They're just normal, regular, everyday dudes that would be normal dudes if they were non-black but, because they are in the black community, they're lame because we have to be hyper-sexual, hyper-aggressive and cool at all times or else we're wack. That's why all these cats who are oh so ugly and oh so unattractive and oh so unappealing can go outside the BC and find 5 non-black girls who think differently. I guess they weren't that ugly after all.

This is some bullshyt. Most BW ain't checking for this. Some Black teenagers are but Black adult women?

 

[#1 pick]

That's the funny thing about it all.

When a prominent Black man dates a non-Black woman, Black women interpret and internalize it as an attack on their womanhood. They view it as evidence that the whole world, including their own men, thinks lowly of them. It reinforces their feelings of inadequacy as women when compared to other women.

When a prominent non-Black man (especially a white man) dates a Black woman, Black women see it as validation of their womanhood. They view it as evidence that they are indeed adequate. The idea is that if a non-Black man, who could easily have a great woman of his own race, chooses a Black woman, as a whole Black women must be seen as equals among all women. It's the same feeling a lot of nikkas had when they saw CACs chanting "Yes, We Can" back in 2008! If CACs love this Black dude, maybe there's hope for us, we thought!

That's why Black women promote the swirl and cheer on other Black women who are out here dating non-Black men.

But, as soon as a Black man is seen with a non-Black woman, the venom comes out!

That's because when the Black woman is swirling, it's a self-esteem boost for Black women.

When Black men are swirling, it's like the proverbial punch to the gut in terms of self-esteem for them.

@Wild self

They do but it's understand as it is an attack regardless if we want to admit it.

Your job as a BM or BW is to keep your talent at home. Sorry but when Debra Wilson and Kim Wians marries out. Who cares? But when your best talent leaves? It sucks. Women see Mike Colter and Nate Parker as a catch and had to hate him for marrying out. While we don't admit it since don't care as much, if Meagan Good married a cac, a lot of us would be pissed the fukk off. We don't even like those bait @malcolmxxx_45 threads.

 

[#1 pick]

It wasnt like that at all where i grew up

The problem is a lot of dudes want women who are out of their league

If youre an average looking guy then realistically you should have an average looking girl....unless youre a good athlete, super popular, nice car...something lime that

Average looking guys get ignored by good looking black girls and then they say "no black women want me. Im gonna go get an average white woman"

Thats what ive seen

Agreed.

 

[#1 pick]

Dont matter if you couldnt ruin it

Its the spirit inside you that would even try to fukk a nikka program up because he not on yours

Women like you are spiritually broken and dont deserve a good man period

You are demonic and host the spirit of a demon cac

But i get it you a victim of white supremacy

But just dwell on your spirit inside of yourself and ask why would a positive brother have anything to do with a woman who would even think of doing something that will be a detriment to her own community

Just because a man is not cow towing to her tune

A man is not suppose to follow any ones program beside his own

You are a threat to that

You are a threat to a mans essence regardless of of you are successful in ruining his career

You are not what a man needs in his life if he is going to level up

@Chelsea Bridge ain't no demon and she damn sure got reasons to say what she's saying. We all are victims of white supremacy so that's moot. Man, you be talking crazy when ppl don't agree with you.

 

[@OffHalsted]

You guys just need yo go ahead and be with the White Woman of your dreams, admit you hate Black Women, and admit your bitter about your own insecurities.

Black Women date out the least compared to other races, so I'm not sure where all this bitterness is coming from...

Most Black Women I know lose in the dating department for being so loyal to broke ass losers when they can do better. I only hear about this "Black Women aren't loyal" narrative in this subforum.

There's no way this guy couldn't get any Black pu$$y then. He probably was like most of his ilk, he was just on that .

Nothing wrong with IR relationships, but Black Men need to stop using Black Women as the scapegoat.

Most Black Women I know sh_t on other race of men, especially White Men. I don't know any Black Woman there dudes are describing. Black Women date outside of their race less than all groups.

we need reps back

 

[@OffHalsted]

so yall just ignoring the fact that these bitter and insecure women use so called black media outlets to sabotage the careers and projects that black men are promoting because they mad at who he dates or marries

That shyt is not cool

All the other shyt yall talking about is a deflection at least from the point i was making.

They knew the risksso fuk em