‘Luke Cage’ Actor Michael Colter Responds to Fans Criticizing Him for Marrying a White Woman
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I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
This c00n nikka mamba got at least 2 paragraphs in every damn page
TL;DR - Sometimes, black men and women are their own worst enemies when it comes to locking down quality mates of the same race, and it's both sides fault.
Long version: I read this thread and went from
to 
because of how quickly the thread went from on topic (and from what I saw, most people didn't have a problem with Mike marrying a white woman) to black men and women bashing black men and women because of expectations, entitlement and how one side's behavior dictates the other. I particularly hate it for black women because I'd listen to the argument that if ANYONE had it worse than the average black man in today's times, it would be the average black woman.Sometimes it feels like we can't even get on the same page with each other just for something as simple as a fukkin' relationship (not saying it's simple but this is in relation to those who want black people in general to unite as one like other races do to turn around our people's lot in life) or dating/social interaction. Seems like an obvious disconnect. Black men say black women don't really check for the "good ones" until they, for all intents and purposes 'no longer deserve one', and black women deny that and some say that it's on the black man to deal with the fact that the one they want just aren't feeling them, and a black man turn around and say that the main reason that woman didn't want him was because he didn't fit her idea of "that nikka" when he was already "that nikka" but she never took the time to see it or give him a chance or she showed bad judgement or whatever the fukk.
Shyt like that tells me that black men in general have a pronounced preference for the sistas (and presumably vice versa) but for one reason or another, that don't work out for some of the brehs and brehettes. I know I hold this preference, and I've said it on this site a handful of times but above all else, I check for those who check for me, and if I can't get a black woman to ride or die for me and am given a choice of being alone or locking down somebody who isn't black but is everything I want in a spouse ... then I'm jumping the broom with Becky or Carmen or Rosalina or Ingrid or Svetlana or Ming-Na, whatever, and the Jasmine or the Keisha I originally wanted just lost out. So be it.
And while black women are well within their right to choose who they want -- and black men ought to just make peace with the idea that a woman's missing out on them is nothing more than "her loss" and just move on from it with no bitterness or "I told you so, bytch
" type mess to it -- too many nikkas talk about the "they all just want thugs/dusty nikkas" bullshyt happening for women not to be like ... "Shyt, the breh might be right." Like, take this thread for instance. Some women in here are saying that because of how Mike looks, he should have had no problem getting black woman and chose to date a white woman who he eventually married (I'm going to assume they've been married for some time).While he may have been an objectively handsome breh, by no means does that mean he was swimming in black women. The dude was at Rutgers. To my knowledge, that's a predominantly white/Asian campus. Not to mention, we don't know if he had any social hangups or personality quirks that may or may not have been off-putting to black women. Just because a dude looks like a ladykiller doesn't mean that he is one. We don't know what Iva did to win his heart. For all we know, maybe Mike was the one who saw the obvious potential in her and decided to lock that down because she was going places and demonstrated loyalty to him, not the other way around.
Maybe this whole thing is just about the hypocrisy of the whole "bedwench" shyt. Maybe this is just the 80/20 rule being prove again. Who knows. I'm just gonna stop here because really, I feel like I stopped making sense a while ago and am just fukkin' rambling now. I'm not trying to go back and forth about who Mike chose to be with because he checked for the one who checked for him and I won't fault him for that.
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KOOL-AID quit this foolishness
okie dokieGood so black women have nothing to complain about ever again! Hooray, we solved the interracial dating controversy guys!
Good so black women have nothing to complain about ever again! Hooray, we solved the interracial dating controversy guys!
They complain just like black men complain
Lmaooo most of the black men in this pro black era of Hollywood entertainment are with white women.
Another one
Looks wise, you think that you are Beyonce or Nia Long? So why you think you deserve top of the top men when you
for bum ass dudes in the streets?
KingJudah2
All Star
who give a fukk. Only shyt that bother me is bedwenches who lazy and shyt on black men when they don't work for shyt and just want to get fukked and spend money.
That's the funny thing about it all.
When a prominent Black man dates a non-Black woman, Black women interpret and internalize it as an attack on their womanhood. They view it as evidence that the whole world, including their own men, thinks lowly of them. It reinforces their feelings of inadequacy as women when compared to other women.
When a prominent non-Black man (especially a white man) dates a Black woman, Black women see it as validation of their womanhood. They view it as evidence that they are indeed adequate. The idea is that if a non-Black man, who could easily have a great woman of his own race, chooses a Black woman, as a whole Black women must be seen as equals among all women. It's the same feeling a lot of nikkas had when they saw CACs chanting "Yes, We Can" back in 2008! If CACs love this Black dude, maybe there's hope for us, we thought!
That's why Black women promote the swirl and cheer on other Black women who are out here dating non-Black men.
But, as soon as a Black man is seen with a non-Black woman, the venom comes out!
That's because when the Black woman is swirling, it's a self-esteem boost for Black women.
When Black men are swirling, it's like the proverbial punch to the gut in terms of self-esteem for them.
@Wild self
I agree, but for the record, I love black women. Any lady that can show me a post about me shytting specifically on black women, I will Paypal them $40.
Those men are dumb tooThey complain just like black men complain
but if you see the same guys in the "wenching" threads that are defending IR in these type threads then feel free to shame them. No one who's happy in their own love life gets mad about interracial dating.
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
nikkas need to start keeping it 100
"Yeah I'm married to a white woman"
"Yes I have never dated a Black woman in my life"
"No I'm not problack..matter of fact, I'm a c00n"
"But I love money and fame,so I'm not turning down this role they've offered me"
"Yeah I'm married to a white woman"
"Yes I have never dated a Black woman in my life"
"No I'm not problack..matter of fact, I'm a c00n"
"But I love money and fame,so I'm not turning down this role they've offered me"
I agree, all u gotta do is go to a blk female dominated site . It's all about "i hate blk men", "swirl life"... "pink peen" "the newest bw& am/wm/lm/im couple" .
All until they see a blk man with a non blk woman. then it's, "the blk community", "blk love"... "keeping the wealth in the blk community" ...
Its a guilt trip game they play.
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