It wasnt like that at all where i grew up
The problem is a lot of dudes want women who are out of their league
If youre an average looking guy then realistically you should have an average looking girl....unless youre a good athlete, super popular, nice car...something lime that
Average looking guys get ignored by good looking black girls and then they say "no black women want me. Im gonna go get an average white woman"
Thats what ive seen
Not sure how I feel about leagues...I may get Red Pill here but women's value decrease as they age and men's appreciates older for a long period of time.
Plus have you seen these women who are out of your league without makeup?
A woman's value is mostly physical. Men can always increase their value by other means.
That's the funny thing about it all.
When a prominent Black man dates a non-Black woman, Black women interpret and internalize it as an attack on their womanhood. They view it as evidence that the whole world, including their own men, thinks lowly of them. It reinforces their feelings of inadequacy as women when compared to other women.
When a prominent non-Black man (especially a white man) dates a Black woman, Black women see it as validation of their womanhood. They view it as evidence that they are indeed adequate. The idea is that if a non-Black man, who could easily have a great woman of his own race, chooses a Black woman, as a whole Black women must be seen as equals among all women.
That's why Black women promote the swirl and cheer on other Black women who are out here dating non-Black men.
But, as soon as a Black man is seen with a non-Black woman, the venom comes out!
That's because when the Black woman is swirling, it's a self-esteem boost for Black women.
When Black men are swirling, it's like the proverbial punch to the gut in terms of self-esteem for them.
In a twisted logic sort of way Mike Colter's value in front of black women went up because it was somehow validated because he's married to a white woman.