I have a friend who is a, huge geek, 33, virgin makes about 75k a year who has never had a black woman interested in him romantically until not to long ago. He was over weight but now he's about 190 and in shape, and he's never had a black woman interested in him romantically long term until like 4 years ago.
He loves black women, I worked with him for like a year, I watched him interact with all people. I watched a white woman get close and ask him out. I watched him ask a black woman out, before that happen. She and the click had no interest in him which is fine. Every black woman doesn't have to like every black male. But after word out that he was going out with the white woman from HR and got a promotion all of a sudden he started catching shade. I literally watch this happen and discussed it with him..
I got another job shortly after and he transferred so it never played out completely.
I also have my own work and random experiences with this.
I dont know why black women act like black men make this up.
Its where alot of self hate and hate for black women come from with black males that aren't really "trendy" or "cool" and it doesn't really go away until like you hit your late 20's. Or they get with these white/asian or whatever chicks and then spew hate to other young black males and females.
I'm not sure to be completely honest, I saw it quoted somewhere either here or on FB.