Yup, this is why they have the highest singles rate compared to other women.
Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?
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Dance_Like_A_Fiend
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This thread is almost a year old and my answer is the same:
Yes, but you have to be 6'0+, have to work out/have the same body as a pro NBA/NFL player, you have to have the networth of an ethical hacker, and you also need a "little edge" whatever that means. If you want her to be attractive. I don't mean "instagram baddie" attractive, I mean like anything above a 5 or 6.
The real kicker is that no other race has to jump through these hoops, if they want to get their women or black women. We must get like one thread a week about some attractive black woman paired up with some goofy looking white duede.
If you're any other race you can just have a job, some social skills, and not be fat and you're guaranteed an attractive gf.
If we're using internet couples as an example like in the OP then it's even grizzlier because the only dudes on my feed bagging attractive black women are either African or they're built like Tyson Beckford. IRL it's a little bit better.
Yes, but you have to be 6'0+, have to work out/have the same body as a pro NBA/NFL player, you have to have the networth of an ethical hacker, and you also need a "little edge" whatever that means. If you want her to be attractive. I don't mean "instagram baddie" attractive, I mean like anything above a 5 or 6.
The real kicker is that no other race has to jump through these hoops, if they want to get their women or black women. We must get like one thread a week about some attractive black woman paired up with some goofy looking white duede.
If you're any other race you can just have a job, some social skills, and not be fat and you're guaranteed an attractive gf.
If we're using internet couples as an example like in the OP then it's even grizzlier because the only dudes on my feed bagging attractive black women are either African or they're built like Tyson Beckford. IRL it's a little bit better.
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Iverson_64
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Like I said before, one of the biggest myths perpetuated online is that hot/attractive non-Black women are infatuated with nerdy Black men.
I mean....it's one thing if we're talking a nerdy Black dude who's extroverted, non-ugly, tall, and makes a lot of money. Such a "nerd" will do well with any time of woman: Black, White, Hispanic, etc. I know because I'm technically a "Blerd" who's extroverted and makes a lot of money and I've rarely had issues with sisters outside of hoodrats.
However, if we're talking about nerdy Black dudes who are socially awkward, have no real social life outside of video games, unattractive, short, and have no game(or "rizz" as the youth like to say) then he's not going to do any better with non-Black women than Black women.
Matter of fact, when I was in college, the nerdiest Black dudes I knew were generally paired off with educated Black women while only sometimes getting with White/Latina women while the basketball/football athletes, frat boys, wannabe rappers/rappers, and "tall dark and handsome" brothers were the main dudes eating well in IR dating.
For every actual Black nerd or goofball I saw with a White/Latina woman, I saw 10 more White/Hispanic women who were getting passed around by Black dudes who played ball, partied a lot, dressed/acted like rappers, or were built like Adonis, etc.
Even on Tik Tok, when Black men interview White women who claim they like Black men, the White girls usually bring up swag, sports, penis, confidence, muscles, and other hypermasculine traits for why they "love" Black men. Almost none of them big up nerdy or goofy Black dudes who don't embody these traits.
Just something to think about. There's a reason why 83% of "Lame" Black men making 6 figures have Black wives. A good portion of "open-minded/pro-IR" White/Hispanic women view Black men as walking dildos and hypermasculine caricatures as opposed to wholesome partners who they actually want to build and have a long lasting relationship with.
I mean....it's one thing if we're talking a nerdy Black dude who's extroverted, non-ugly, tall, and makes a lot of money. Such a "nerd" will do well with any time of woman: Black, White, Hispanic, etc. I know because I'm technically a "Blerd" who's extroverted and makes a lot of money and I've rarely had issues with sisters outside of hoodrats.
However, if we're talking about nerdy Black dudes who are socially awkward, have no real social life outside of video games, unattractive, short, and have no game(or "rizz" as the youth like to say) then he's not going to do any better with non-Black women than Black women.
Matter of fact, when I was in college, the nerdiest Black dudes I knew were generally paired off with educated Black women while only sometimes getting with White/Latina women while the basketball/football athletes, frat boys, wannabe rappers/rappers, and "tall dark and handsome" brothers were the main dudes eating well in IR dating.
For every actual Black nerd or goofball I saw with a White/Latina woman, I saw 10 more White/Hispanic women who were getting passed around by Black dudes who played ball, partied a lot, dressed/acted like rappers, or were built like Adonis, etc.
Even on Tik Tok, when Black men interview White women who claim they like Black men, the White girls usually bring up swag, sports, penis, confidence, muscles, and other hypermasculine traits for why they "love" Black men. Almost none of them big up nerdy or goofy Black dudes who don't embody these traits.
Just something to think about. There's a reason why 83% of "Lame" Black men making 6 figures have Black wives. A good portion of "open-minded/pro-IR" White/Hispanic women view Black men as walking dildos and hypermasculine caricatures as opposed to wholesome partners who they actually want to build and have a long lasting relationship with.
This thread grows more nonsensical by the day
This needs to be a sign by itself.
And it's why I don't take white and Hispanic seriously at all