Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[CHICAGO]

Coli brehs don’t want their female equal. They want to be Urkel with Laura. Meanwhile, all the white girls liked Shawn, not Cory or Minkus.

DID THE WHITE HOES LOVE
SCREECH OR ZACH?



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[lib123]

The point is average black men who are funny, have a good personality, careers, and interesting are getting into relationships every day. But let The Coli tell it, you have to be Future to get a decent woman who is on the same page. Half this thread is the false belief that nerdy, sloppy white guys are pulling Megan Fox. Megan Fox just had a baby with Machine Gunn Kelly, and they aren’t even together anymore.

Nobody is saying that average BM with good personality and careers can't get into relationships. The fact is the square good looking white guy with a good personality and career can pull a more attractive WW under 35 than the square good looking BM with a good personality and career. IRL the vast majority of WW over 22 (25 max) who are above-average looking aren't messing with the Machine Gun Kelly types unless they're wealthy. On the flip side, there are tons of above average looking BW under 35 messing with Duke Dennis and Skepta types without the money or clout. Even brehettes on this site have said this.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Nobody is saying that average BM with good personality and careers can't get into relationships. The fact is the square good looking white guy with a good personality and career can pull a more attractive WW under 35 than the square good looking BM with a good personality and career. IRL the vast majority of WW over 22 (25 max) who are above-average looking aren't messing with the Machine Gun Kelly types unless they're wealthy. On the flip side, there are tons of above average looking BW under 35 messing with Duke Dennis and Skepta types without the money or clout. Even brehettes on this site have said this.

Are those particular above average looking black women high quality women? Are we just rating women solely on their appearance? Those women aren’t trying to settle down with those men. The same girls who liked Bieber when he was a kid liked him when he grew up, and got tatted up. Who is Bieber’s fanbase? Let’s be real, square black people period aren’t common. Square black men get clowned by other black men for being square. Please find me all the thugged out black men lamenting their lives, because they wanted to be square, but felt they couldn’t because they wanted to get women.

 

[King Poetic]

Number 1

Open your eyes beyond the hood / low budget / low mind thinking broads of the community

And if u venture out to other places you’ll see a lot of the so called corny brothers with sisters

 

[romeodunn]

Geography is destiny, and Black people are not a monolith.

In places like DC, professional, educated Black men that make an effort to look decent and groom themselves well get plenty of play, and the women they date typically want professional men with a similar level of education.

Same goes for certain parts of ATL.

In places like the south it is much easier for Black men to find a black woman that fits him as there are plenty of choices.

In the North East and Northwest there is less of a selection and the White/Latina/Asian girls can get aggressive when they see a desirable Black men that checks the right boxes.

There are definitely Black women who like Hood dudes but I don't really think they are necessarily the majority as the women tend to be hood themselves and not the first choice for a professional Black man.

 

[Scaaar]

Are those particular above average looking black women high quality women? Are we just rating women solely on their appearance? Those women aren’t trying to settle down with those men. The same girls who liked Bieber when he was a kid liked him when he grew up, and got tatted up. Who is Bieber’s fanbase? Let’s be real, square black people period aren’t common. Square black men get clowned by other black men for being square. Please find me all the thugged out black men lamenting their lives, because they wanted to be square, but felt they couldn’t because they wanted to get women.

These brehs do a lot of trauma dumping on this site. Dating isn't that bad at all or the way they make it seems. They gotta get outside and touch some grass lol

 

[lib123]

Are those particular above average looking black women high quality women? Are we just rating women solely on their appearance? Those women aren’t trying to settle down with those men. The same girls who liked Bieber when he was a kid liked him when he grew up, and got tatted up. Who is Bieber’s fanbase? Let’s be real, square black people period aren’t common. Square black men get clowned by other black men for being square. Please find me all the thugged out black men lamenting their lives, because they wanted to be square, but felt they couldn’t because they wanted to get women.

Yes this includes above average looking Black women who are educated and have good careers. They are more likely to get into “situationships” with the Skepta and Duke Dennis types without money or clout while they’re under 35 compared to WW counterparts getting into relationships with MGK types. And given that they accumulate emotional baggage from dealing with these men, many of them try and fail having relationships with these men. Stop playing dumb. You know this. Even ChatGPT knows this.

 

[lib123]

These brehs do a lot of trauma dumping on this site. Dating isn't that bad at all or the way they make it seems. They gotta get outside and touch some grass lol

lol it’s not trauma dumping. Never said a square BM can’t get women.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Yes this includes above average looking Black women who are educated and have good careers. They are more likely to get into “situationships” with the Skepta and Duke Dennis types without money or clout while they’re under 35 compared to WW counterparts getting into relationships with MGK types. And given that they accumulate emotional baggage from dealing with these men, many of them try and fail having relationships with these men. Stop playing dumb. You know this. Even ChatGPT knows this.

I’ll say this, white women snap out of this in their 20s.

 

[Shadow King]

All her noise ends with one simple observation.

He can grow up and be better. Can you?

Aside from that, you let her boil in her own swill. Trying to talk at her just gives her the attention she's looking for and makes her and everyone watching feel like she has any kind of valid point.





No one will never improve upon childishness by putting all this effort into matching it.

Nobody here is directly responding to her. We're having our own separate discussion with evidence of limited black boys/men are expected to be in emotional expression.

 

[Shadow King]

Nobody is saying that average BM with good personality and careers can't get into relationships. The fact is the square good looking white guy with a good personality and career can pull a more attractive WW under 35 than the square good looking BM with a good personality and career. IRL the vast majority of WW over 22 (25 max) who are above-average looking aren't messing with the Machine Gun Kelly types unless they're wealthy. On the flip side, there are tons of above average looking BW under 35 messing with Duke Dennis and Skepta types without the money or clout. Even brehettes on this site have said this.

Yes this includes above average looking Black women who are educated and have good careers. They are more likely to get into “situationships” with the Skepta and Duke Dennis types without money or clout while they’re under 35 compared to WW counterparts getting into relationships with MGK types. And given that they accumulate emotional baggage from dealing with these men, many of them try and fail having relationships with these men. Stop playing dumb. You know this. Even ChatGPT knows this.

That's a woman cosplaying, stop giving her attention.

 

[Ozymandeas]

Like I said before, one of the biggest myths perpetuated online is that hot/attractive non-Black women are infatuated with nerdy Black men.

I mean....it's one thing if we're talking a nerdy Black dude who's extroverted, non-ugly, tall, and makes a lot of money. Such a "nerd" will do well with any time of woman: Black, White, Hispanic, etc. I know because I'm technically a "Blerd" who's extroverted and makes a lot of money and I've rarely had issues with sisters outside of hoodrats.

However, if we're talking about nerdy Black dudes who are socially awkward, have no real social life outside of video games, unattractive, short, and have no game(or "rizz" as the youth like to say) then he's not going to do any better with non-Black women than Black women.

Matter of fact, when I was in college, the nerdiest Black dudes I knew were generally paired off with educated Black women while only sometimes getting with White/Latina women while the basketball/football athletes, frat boys, wannabe rappers/rappers, and "tall dark and handsome" brothers were the main dudes eating well in IR dating.

For every actual Black nerd or goofball I saw with a White/Latina woman, I saw 10 more White/Hispanic women who were getting passed around by Black dudes who played ball, partied a lot, dressed/acted like rappers, or were built like Adonis, etc.

Even on Tik Tok, when Black men interview White women who claim they like Black men, the White girls usually bring up swag, sports, penis, confidence, muscles, and other hypermasculine traits for why they "love" Black men. Almost none of them big up nerdy or goofy Black dudes who don't embody these traits.

Just something to think about. There's a reason why 83% of "Lame" Black men making 6 figures have Black wives. A good portion of "open-minded/pro-IR" White/Hispanic women view Black men as walking dildos and hypermasculine caricatures as opposed to wholesome partners who they actually want to build and have a long lasting relationship with.

One of the biggest myths perpetuated online is that "Nerdy Black Men" are Nerdy.

Non-Black Women see "Nerdy Black Men" as Regular Men.

It's only our twisted and corrupted community that looks at men with a stable job, who are straight-laced, and not into degenerative behaviors as being lame.

 

[semicko82]

One of the biggest myths perpetuated online is that "Nerdy Black Men" are Nerdy.

Non-Black Women see "Nerdy Black Men" as Regular Men.

It's only our twisted and corrupted community that looks at men with a stable job, who are straight-laced, and not into degenerative behaviors as being lame.

 

[Ozymandeas]

Nobody is saying that average BM with good personality and careers can't get into relationships. The fact is the square good looking white guy with a good personality and career can pull a more attractive WW under 35 than the square good looking BM with a good personality and career. IRL the vast majority of WW over 22 (25 max) who are above-average looking aren't messing with the Machine Gun Kelly types unless they're wealthy. On the flip side, there are tons of above average looking BW under 35 messing with Duke Dennis and Skepta types without the money or clout. Even brehettes on this site have said this.

Anybody denying this is telling ducktales. But I get it. The bolded can be seen as an attack on black women, so people are going to argue against it to defend them. But for example, this white guy looks kinda lame but, he pulled a very attractive and shapely black woman. To be fair to this white guy, if he dated white girls, he'd probably get a cute white girl too. But the point is, if he was a black guy, I don't know if he pulls her. Her standards would go up to wanting a cooler, swaggier, more attractive black dude but, that's how it is

 

[Ozymandeas]

BW called Michael B. Jordan lame/nerdy when he's cooler than 98% of White Men

Nikkas aren't into computer programming, anime, dungeons and dragons. We're not nerds. We're normal.