Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[↓R↑LYB]

Nah you’ve literally said this site was full of the dregs of society and weirdos don’t make me pull the receipts.

nikka thinks this site is all losers but he’s racked up 30k posts with us losers

I dare you to pull the receipts

 

[Jazzy B.]

As a black woman under 27, I don’t think so, stop letting social media cloud your vision.

Nothing to do with social media


City girls popped off about 4-5 years ago. Their main base are 18-23 year olds.

The women who were 22/23 will be 26/27 now.

They're in with black women in that age bracket.

 

[Kasher Juan]

The way that brehs on this site are constantly in denial of the state of the lion share of our women because they think that’s the “pro Black” thing to do



Oh man we are doomed doomed,
I’m out.

Bingo

 

[Dre God]

I dare you to pull the receipts

Translation: it’s the only place I can talk about how much I’m losing as a man with other outcasts and dregs of society

Why have you racked up 30k posts With the dregs of society when you have all the money and hoes? Why not just leave

 

[rabbid]

Ehh, alot of white women pretend to be cool with that just to get you out of your element. They'll still hit you with the "you think everything is a GAME" once they have you where they want you.

Alot of black women do take life very seriously though, for good reasons. I feel like thats kind of undeniable at this point.. Its like that skit from Atlanta. White women have the opportunity to fukk around.

 

[Cadillac]

White men have the same conversations about their women. But replace "street nikkas" and "hood dudes" with "Chads"

They talk about how "delusional" White women are, how feminism rots their brains. And how square White men need to date out to be better appreciated. (Sound familiar yet?) Just like you lames put White woman on a pedestal they put Asian women on one.


So in other words...somebody's lying.


I'm not a street dude by any means but I had nothing but Black women in my life.

If your a Black man...and your capable of pulling women but not Black women ..it's because deep down inside you don't really want a BW. And yes, the same can be said for for the reverse.

Nobodies lying

BM who complain about feminism amongst BW say the same for WW

Your preaching to the choir, the BM who hate feminism the most don't glorify WW. Most SYSBM typs glorify Asuan and Latin women hence why you had a legion of BM and still today flock to Latin countries like

DR
Columbia
Brazil


Nobody is flocking to European countries, or worshipping White bytches

 

[Fill Collins]

If you're in your 30's thinking and talking about this shyt that often, idk wtf to tell you

A few years back, I lucked out and went thru that puppy love phase with a "nerdy" BW: we both loved weird ass cac music, old sitcoms and shytty anime, among other things. Me just turning 21, and her being 19, it lasted and ended how you expected

BW like her are out there but realistically speaking, would a Black woman or a white woman be more likely to be a JoJo stand practicing, washi tape collecting, No Wave listening chick ?

Exactly

Plus, you would think that a lot of BW in that particular field are more or less angry, fat lesbians who'd rip your dikk off as soon as they could so...again,

 

[BaldingSoHard]

On some real shyt, a lot of black women don’t know how to recognize a good, financially well off black man…or they don’t know how to deal with them. And/or because they’ve messed with street dudes, have wildly unrealistic expectations of them.

I have a friend who cleans up with women…all 6s. He’s an ex-D1 Linebacker, 6’4, making like $400K+ as a doctor…bearded, initimidating looking dude. Doesn’t look or act soft at all. Not an ugly dude (pause) and prob around 10% bf (pause) Hearing dudes dating stories with black women is demotivating as fukk though.

Breh has had 0 luck with black women despite dating them. He’s messing with black 8s but they’re rude & ungrateful as shyt. I’m talking simple things like not saying thank you after he treats them to meals, expecting him to live way beyond his means (dude drives a $100K car and they still want him to get a Rolls Royce & shyt wtf), saying they’re gonna hold out sex for months, generally just being a pain in the ass.

And these aren’t uneducated women, these are women making $100K+ themselves with grad degrees.

Meanwhile Beckies are beating down dudes door and making hour long drives to come see him. Offering sloppy top for his lunch breaks, everything. shyt is insane.

Me and my boys talked about it and we concluded a lot of these women just legitimately are disconnected from reality. Don’t save. Have no idea what being a provider vs. a consumer is, etc.

Some of that is on black men (their fathers) for not providing examples, but we’re fairly sure it’s also expectations set from dating fast money, illegitimate dudes.

The fact this high net worth guy is actively trying to wife up an attractive black woman & is struggling is a red flag to me. We can act like there’s not an issue but if we’re real, there is.

Not that I don't believe you, but there's gotta be more to the story here.

Does breh have halitosis or something? Does he have a shytty (or nonexistent) sense of humor? With a resume like that, he should be at least accidentally getting some decent buns.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I'll say this...my biggest fukk ups in terms of finding a black woman to settle down with was not doing it in college and not being in cities with larger black populations in my early 20s. Had I known it would look this bleak this side of 30, I would've made that more of a focus.

Attractive, nice attitude, slim black women get swiped up quick as fukk...as they should. My personal experience? What's left in your upper 20s and early 30s is really sub-par vs. other races. I'd say this is probably the reality faced by black women too.

And I say this as someone who's had multiple, positive relationships with black women I'd say are 7s and 8s. It didn't work out due to timing, life shyt, compatibility and all, but these are all solid women. I see some of them still single too, so this is where I think it's a numbers game. At some point they'll date out because it's tough to manage a demanding career AND be selective in terms of race in who you date. Especially when your career and proximity has you around mostly non-black people...

Adding to this..I mentioned this in other threads too...it's just hard as fukk to know what the next black person's values are because some of us are so fukked mentally in terms of consumerism and superficial shyt. And we don't have a super strong culture in terms of moral expectations, strong common understanding of what "being a man" is supposed to look like. Or even what being "black" is supposed to look like.

You've really gotta be intentional, which with age is easier to do but harder to do successfully.

If you have better experiences with WW then be with WW. All I want is for y’all to pawg peacefully and stop talking about brehettes.

These threads are strange because rather than just focusing solely on why y’all love dating WW, and the perks, it’s like y’all don’t know how to talk about it without bringing up bw and doing this little compare/contrast to ww, and then the negative generalizations, and negative stereotypes.

Y’all gotta find a way to stop making bw the reason y’all date out. If y’all can see WW as individuals, excusing the WW who are racists, Karens, and who on average don’t even date Brehs (90% something of ww who marry actually marry wm) then y’all should also be able to focus on the individual experiences you each have dating these pawgs in these threads. And you should be able to do so without even bringing bw up.


Like I said these threads are usually devoid of specific personal experiences from Brehs and are almost always centered on negative generalizations about bw in comparison to positive generalizations about ww, and social media examples.

 

[Gloxina]

The sooner you guys accept the facts that

A. The reason you don’t get good looking black women is cuz you’re not good looking yourself, and you don’t have anything (money, style, personality, clout, etc.) to make up for it
B. You’re not getting good looking white women either

The sooner you will be at peace

Dudes who have their shyt together looks wise or money wise and are not complete weirdos/Borderline psychopaths do not have the issues that y’all have

Thank you!

People do not realize how important having a likable personality is.

Too many actual bums out here driving women’s cars, living rent free, getting handouts, enjoying physical intimacy with women, etc to say that if you’re a normal dude WITH your stuff together you can’t pull at least a few attractive Black women.

I honestly think people are pulling memories/interactions with a few women and painting with a broad brush.

I would never sit here and say that every fine & successful breh that I come across is trying to get at me. Nah. But just because a few might not holla doesn’t mean I think that there’s something wrong with all of the well-to-do brehs. Sometimes you’re their cup of tea and sometimes you aren’t. Sometimes you have to tighten up or maybe market yourself to a different crowd.

 

[Dre God]

I'm 5'10 with a fukked up hairline and I've somehow managed to not get shytted on by black women.

These nikkas got no excuse

This is why the internet is annoying.

In real life I’d beat shyt down your leg and slam your head into a windshield of oncoming traffic.

Instead you feel comfortable talking crazy on here every day to me

If you ever in nyc let me know my gym is a boxing gym we can put the gloves on and record it. Instant plat, lmk.

 

[Gloxina]

Real shyt...I used to be like that. I used to be more introverted (only child and late bloomer) and wanted more extroverted women and ur right...we may want that but those types of women come with a lot too and can be a lot to handle.

So instead of staying in one’s lane (not being funny or rude ) these dudes are drawn to and chasing women who aren’t in their lane, and then getting mad at the results of chasing women who aren’t in their lane.
These dudes overlook all that and expect the wrong chicks to just fall in line, instead of going for the girls who would be down for them.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

If you have better experiences with WW then be with WW. All I want is for y’all to pawg peacefully and stop talking about brehettes.

These threads are strange because rather than just focusing solely on why y’all love dating WW, and the perks, it’s like y’all don’t know how to talk about it without bringing up bw and doing this little compare/contrast to ww, and then the negative generalizations, and negative stereotypes.

Y’all gotta find a way to stop making bw the reason y’all date out. If y’all can see WW as individuals, excusing the WW who are racists, Karens, and who on average don’t even date Brehs (90% something of ww who marry actually marry wm) then y’all should also be able to focus on the individual experiences you each have dating these pawgs in these threads. And you should be able to do so without even bringing bw up.


Like I said these threads are usually devoid of specific personal experiences from Brehs and are almost always centered on negative generalizations about bw in comparison to positive generalizations about ww, and social media examples.

The women on the coli tend to be different from the women most these brehs see.

Cause y'all experience and

The men u say u go after aren't stereotypical

But u also said this wasn't ur environment

That plays a part in ur outcome in life more than folks think

 

[Iverson_64]

In NYC anyways, Haitian and African women usually tolerate "Blerds" more than other types of BW speaking from personal experience.

You can't generalize though because it depends on who you associate with. :

 

[Ozymandeas]

If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is

They call you c00n for saying this though. They really expect brehs to date the bottom of the barrel too just because they don’t fit our women’s swag parameters.