Let’s be honest about friends

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

would y'all agree that if u haven't spoken to someone in a year or chilled in over a year then it ain't a close friendship?

Not true at all. my sis lives in China. every time she comes back its on!! sometimes people aren't in a position to call you every day. and i dont eve like being called ever day.

 

[Lobo]

I fukked my best friend's mother. We were still cool afterwards.

 

[Thegospel]

I love coli rules
OP prob a 21 year old know it all tryna say whats what smh

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I fukked my best friend's mother. We were still cool afterwards.

Yall got a diff kind of relationship. I would have killed yo ass.

 

[MajesticLion]

lost all my friends
Every single one betrayed me this year just because I came into some money
Set me up
Even a fake cousin was in on it
Now all I have is my siblings a few cousins and my children
Those are my peeps my priority now

Stash your loot with your good neighbourly peoples here at Lion Inc, aka Fossack Monseca. No maintenance fees, no forex fees, no early pullout fees, just a small 38% fee to open an account and you're all set.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Not true at all. my sis lives in China. every time she comes back its on!! sometimes people aren't in a position to call you every day. and i dont eve like being called ever day.

I get that.. I said like a year. No text in a year?

 

[Cowboyz89]

Maybe if youre 21.
When you get older this is not a good policy at all

 

[ThirdAct]

My belief is if you don’t hangout or at least text/call someone within a 20-30 day time span then they’re not your friend.

Not tryna hear life gets busy. Everyone is in some type of group chat. Everyone got friends that sends them random memes or topic convos like Michael vs Lebron.

And just because you have known someone forever and were tight homies back in the day does not have more value than someone you’ve known for only a year or two if the latter is more present.

Long story short if you don’t hear for them after awhile they’re not your friends

I mean sometimes friends go on different paths in life, you don't talk as much and shyt, especially the older you get...but at the same time I get your point and I don't disagree with you either

 

[Fletch]

I go months without seeing my best friends and weeks without talking frequently sometime and anytime we see each other it’s like no time has passed at all.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Whassup with you talkative ass, clingy ass nikkas?

“ if we don’t talk 6 times a month, we not friends”

some people got adult shyt to do, shyt on their minds, etc. If you a real friend you wouldn’t care as long as yall catch up and chill at some point.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I go months without seeing my best friends and weeks without talking frequently sometime and anytime we see each other it’s like no time has passed at all.

Exactly

can’t stand clingy ass nikkas that don’t understand the concept that you don’t have to talk 3 times a week for hours

 

[Contrefaire]

OP how old are you? I can only assume you're young as hell because this is just not a mindset I tend to see in most full-fledged adults with careers, marriages, kids and/or many of the constant familial obligations that come with being a person no longer in their teens or early 20s.

 

[Majestic]

They set me up to get kidnapped because like a dummy I put one of them in my Will
Smh
Friends
How many of us have the..

yo?! wtf? how did you escape and how did you find out?

 

[Ahadi]

I agree with you and disagree with you at the same time. I’m in one of the most fickle cities.

Everyone here moves on a “what can you do for me basis”

But I also understand sometimes people move on from your life because you’re doing better than them.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Man look at the old heads all salty af that I’m saying someone you only see about once a year really not your friend



Quit tryna use being an adult as an excuse. Yes that person has kids and a job. Yes they’re busy. But what grown ass adult not? That same person you claim is an adult and life gets in the way probably be at the same locations you go to with a group of different people not even thinking about hitting you up to see if you want to join. Are you still cool with that person? Yes. But that doesn’t make that person your friend.


Tryna judge my value of friendship but you all claiming friends that you never see