Ladies, Would you take back a good man who cheated?

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Faithful dude for years, treated you better than any other guy has. traveled together and you love him, but there was a cute co worker and heended up smashing at the Christmas work banquet, he's honest and told you what happened .

You gonna throw that all away? :lupe:

Doesn't sound that "good" to me. :yeshrug:
 

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Faithful dude for years, treated you better than any other guy has. traveled together and you love him, but there was a cute co worker and heended up smashing at the Christmas work banquet, he's honest and told you what happened .

You gonna throw that all away? :lupe:

"I" wouldn't be throwing anything away but rather answering a situation I didn't create. If he risked such a good relationship for a cute coworker, that's telling in itself. :yeshrug:Relationships have pros and cons, I'd be losing and gaining if it was over. :patrice:
 

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"I" wouldn't be throwing anything away but rather answering a situation I didn't create. If he risked such a good relationship for a cute coworker, that's telling in itself. :yeshrug:Relationships have pros and cons, I'd be losing and gaining if it was over. :patrice:
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imo it all depends on your age and the crow you run with. If your running around with the wrong crowd you'll get caught up every single time.


nikka's and these chicks in there 20's can fool around and get caught slipping in all kinda situations. It's even worst nowadays because everyone and I mean everyone wants to go out and party and get drunk now. I'm a pretty big closet nerd on the low and I've been to some of the lamest event's and even the geek's get smashed and mess around on there mates.


Once you hit 29-30 though....:patrice:


More so as a chick, It's kinda standard to expect dudes to screw up and or be still pretty immature until about 34.
 

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I'll tell you nikkas one thing. All women flirt, most women cheat. If your woman hasn't cheated yet, she hasn't been put in the right situation. It'll happen and yo'll prolly never know. :ufdup:
 

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Like everything else in life the real answer is, "It depends on the situation."

Any female who says otherwise is lying or doesn't have enough life experience. Some of the BEST men in history (MLK for example) have cheated. Sometime even great men falter. I'm not condoning it, I'm just bringing some realism to the topic at hand.
 

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, but most women will never understand smashing a board every few years isn't the end of the world.

how eloquent. :pachaha:

Like what if a niggga cheated on you ten years ago, 3 times....then finally decides to tell you (stupid) but he's been faithful for the last 10 years....you just gon up and leave? :rudy:

lol. my dumbass did this shyt. Never heard the end of it and it eventually led to the end of the relationship. So here's a protip guys, if your guilty conscience is eating you up on some G-Dep shyt... keep it to yourself or tell a therapist. Telling your girl is only gonna lead to problems....

...which brings me to my other point. Half these chicks in here acting indignant don't know that they've been cheated on before. and it's best that they don't because its going to shatter their frail existence and self-image. :ohlawd:
 

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I'm against all forms of cheating was just asking a question


Cheating is so damn selfish, make up your mind. Do you wanna be with this person or do you want out? Like you wanna keep this person trapped in a relationship while sticking your dikk in some other bytches smh. :what:Just dump them and move the fukk on.
 

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Not even on some a cheating tip, I thought I had or should say could to tell my chick everything.... nah son. There might be some chicks around the world that can deal with that ( and I wouldn't really trust them if they could)


But man I would hear things after months like "you always talking about" "You probably" "I bet you" Best thing I ever did was just stop trying to tell her everything I was up to when I was out and everything in detail when I went out or something random happen's that involves other females.
 
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