If I'm talking to a broad and she drops she has been cheated on in the past and she took him back. I lose all respect I may have had for her.
Ladies, Would you take back a good man who cheated?
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Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Why are you surprised? Most people would, it's not worth the future paranoia. I'd feel incredibly stupid.
Yup it shows someone with low self esteem and traits of co dependency. It shows that you are OK with being disrespected and don't value yourself enough to want a faithful man.
It also shows shows that dude had such a unhealthy hold on you .
It also shows shows that dude had such a unhealthy hold on you .
Any woman that says NO is lying. I done had 15 women take me back
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
So that means every woman walking this earth will do the same? All the women I know that have cheated, their husbands and bfs stayed, does that mean that all men that say they won't stay with a cheater is lying?
And then catch some type of illness? Too many decent men ( Especially African ones) in the world to put up with that mess
You like nikkas who will beat you, if you fukk up just once and don't have dinner on the table when they get home? Do you know your dad?
I know you're being sarcastic. but any smart woman wouldn't stay with a cheater because cheaters rarely if ever only cheat once.
and if a man cheats he isn't a good man, so why stay with a man that isn't good to you?
There you go beau. Just keep practicing your lines.
a good man can cheat as long as it was a one night, too drunk, bytch was begging for it, thought i wouldn't get caught, and didn't even remember her name kind of way. if a dude is having an ongoing affair tho thats different. if he does it over and over again then he just is not a good man. ya gotta understand we can get very weak for the puss if its being put on a platter right in our faces 
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
this topic has no right or wrong answer the way i see it
a good friend of mines who did cheat made that mistake and she took him back and they are better than ever
at the same time
i knew somebody who did take them back and still kept cheating
taking them back is a huge risk. so majority of the time it aint worth it but if u know ur partner very well and listen too the reason y which is no excuse for doing it no matter what the reason is and u decide too take them back make sure u know thats what u wanna do and move past it and move forward too the future
if it doesnt work it doesnt at least u know and tried
if it works then even better
like i said taking them back or not there is no right or wrong answer
a good friend of mines who did cheat made that mistake and she took him back and they are better than ever
at the same time
i knew somebody who did take them back and still kept cheating
taking them back is a huge risk. so majority of the time it aint worth it but if u know ur partner very well and listen too the reason y which is no excuse for doing it no matter what the reason is and u decide too take them back make sure u know thats what u wanna do and move past it and move forward too the future
if it doesnt work it doesnt at least u know and tried
if it works then even better
like i said taking them back or not there is no right or wrong answer
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
YOU would feel stupid...because somebody cheated on YOU?
YOU would be paranoid...because somebody cheated on YOU?
I would think those burdens would be on the other party, who would realize they have to step up their game to keep you...
mind you...i'm not talmbat serial cheaters, as my first quote in here infers.
You misunderstood my post
Not every woman, just the women on here. To be honest, I didnt read shyt but I scanned thru what you said but basically all im saying is that u females aint being real with yourself. Throwing away a dude that is "good" but made a mistake generally doesnt happen. A nikka with good dikk @opulence or got money or power women generally don't throw that away unless they have reason to believe they can do better ie Tiger Woods wifeSo that means every woman walking this earth will do the same? All the women I know that have cheated, their husbands and bfs stayed, does that mean that all men that say they won't stay with a cheater is lying?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I don't think someone can be a good person and be a cheater.
and I don't want to be with someone that isn't good to me. So I would throw him away I would rather be single.But if a woman is willing to risk her health and willing to stay with someone that disrespects her just because he has money or power or whatever, that's her business. But to say any woman that says she won't stay with a dude that's cheating is lying, is ridiculous.
I don't think someone can be a good person and be a cheater.
But if a woman is willing to risk her health and willing to stay with someone that disrespects her just because he has money or power or whatever, that's her business. But to say any woman that says she won't stay with a dude that's cheating is lying, is ridiculous.
You f-ed up right here. So in your world u saying everyone has to be perfect and a cheater is the lowest of the low?