Ladies, Would you consider yourself a failure if...

[MikelArteta]

Not a failure, if I don't get married it is what it is. But when you try to base success off of something like depending on the type of person. You would settle just say you accomplished something. Those aren't things you should try to force.

Everyone settles who gets married

its why getting married having kids etc. is called settling down

 

[Elle Driver]

Lol I guarantee you're in your early 20s saying this. Just wait until the age 30 starts knocking on them ovaries

Nope, I'm in my mid (almost late) twenties. I've known since I was a teenager that I ain't never want no children.

@Rawtid @Elle Driver

Every man wants kids (especially boys) to carry their name and spread those impeccable seeds.

I personally don't believe a woman that claims not to want kids, a few years back most Spanish women chose their career over a family but now they all scrambling to get those children :Heh:

Did you miss the part where I also said I didn't want marriage either?

 

[Dooby]

Nope, I'm in my mid (almost late) twenties. I've known since I was a teenager that I ain't never want no children.



Did you miss the part where I also said I didn't want marriage either?

Hey what exactly is that number?

 

[PimpHandStrong]

Petty arguments, having children I'm not mentally capable of taking care of, being in an unhappy marriage just so I can follow the rules of society? Like I said, I'm good. I don't wanna end up in a marriage like my parents. They could've saved themselves the trouble by not even having me in the first place.

I know we are a product of our environment but dam baby don't let your parents marriage destroy any ideas of marriage for you. We might not see an example of something good working out but at least have hope that it's possible. And if it doesn't work out then so be it. But at least you can you tried it, and enjoyed the ride.

 

[MikelArteta]

Nope, I'm in my mid (almost late) twenties. I've known since I was a teenager that I ain't never want no children.



Did you miss the part where I also said I didn't want marriage either?

oh crap a female reincar

 

[Anothergirl]

got married at 29 and yes i absolutely would have felt like a failure i didn't. then again i come from a culture-family that's big on Marriage\Kids\Homeownership. anything less gets you looked at like

 

[MikelArteta]

got married at 29 and yes i absolutely would have felt like a failure i didn't. then again i come from a culture-family that's big on Marriage\Kids\Homeownership. anything less gets you looked at like

Anothergirl honest like always,
how old are you?

i always thought this time you were like 26 or something

 

[Anothergirl]

Anothergirl honest like always,
how old are you?

i always thought this time you were like 26 or something

nah i'm 34. i just have a "young personality" that transmits through my posts i guess

 

[KinksandCoils]

I wouldn't feel like a failure but I would probably be upset that I never found that special person and had a child with them.

 

[LOUD]

No what the fukk? One: I'd adopt and two: when you have a good support system of friends and family, marriage doesn't mean much.

It's not the 50's anymore where all the ladies' dream is to be married and have a gang of kids. Times are changing.

And this is why women don't know their position in life

 

[KinksandCoils]

SPIN:
Would you consider yourself a failure if the woman having your seed aborted your child without your permission and left your ass for a real nikka?

This made me bust out laughing

 

[MikelArteta]

I wouldn't feel like a failure but I would probably be upset that I never found that special person and had a child with them.

so what if all your friends around you were getting married and have kids, your now 32 time is running out

you'll feel fine?

 

[Elle Driver]

I know we are a product of our environment but dam baby don't let your parents marriage destroy any ideas of marriage for you. We might not see an example of something good working out but at least have hope that it's possible. And if it doesn't work out then so be it. But at least you can you tried it, and enjoyed the ride.

I ain't tryna test drive, I'm good. I'm tryna spend my final years in a monastery in the Far East or some shyt. I need my mental health to be in tact, you know how bad it can be for a woman who's already not all there mentally have to a child? Post partum is a bytch.

Hey what exactly is that number?

Watchu mean, age? I'm 26 goin on 27.

oh crap a female reincar

Trust me, we're saving ourselves a world of bullshyt.

 

[Anothergirl]

i dunno ladies ..... i know a lot of y'all are saying no. but that's because you all are still young. at 23-26 i said the same thing. "Marriage kids psshhh! "

fact is our purpose for being here (purpose of life) and BIOLOGICAL instinct is find a suitable partner and PROCREATE. it's in our Dna. i think a lot of the ladies saying no will change their minds as they get older. i never cared to have kids in my 20's but 32 came and that baby fever hit it's real ladies. i never thought it was but it is. you'll all experience it one day inshallah.

 

[Lana Kane]

And this is why women don't know their position in life

*rolls eyes*