Ladies, Would you consider yourself a failure if...

[Ashley Banks]

Most are not worth it, they cannot keep vowels and are money hungry cheating emotional vampires who wreck lives with no remorse

 

[flusterose]

That's you in your avi?

yes....

 

[flusterose]

Most of the children of the women in this thread will become criminals.

didnt you contact AIDS in jail? FOH

 

[Luchini]

yeah i would

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I don't believe in marriage so no I wouldn't but I do want kids. Now considering myself a failure? No, I would consider myself a failure if I raised a bum ass child with a bum ass dude tho.

why dont you believe in marriage?

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

didnt you contact AIDS in jail? FOH

 

[Blankthawtz]

didnt you contact AIDS in jail? FOH

i believe you're are indeed correct with this statement!

 

[Arishok]

why dont you believe in marriage?

I don't believe marriage signifies how much I love or want to be with a person. Why should a piece of paper define if I love and want to be with someone forever? (Not asking you just being rhetorical) I do want to find someone to spend my life with but I don't want to get married. If I need the legal benefits I'd probably consider domestic partnership or common law marriage.

 

[Ikwa]

No.

nah

No what the fukk? One: I'd adopt and two: when you have a good support system of friends and family, marriage doesn't mean much.

It's not the 50's anymore where all the ladies' dream is to be married and have a gang of kids. Times are changing.

Married? No.

Kids? Maybe.

This kneeger a bish?

I don't kids nor marriage, I'd be a failure if I did have kids and got married. I'm good.

No

No

Lie about not wanting kids or a husband to save face, brehettes

 

[Rawtid]

This kneeger a bish?







Lie about not wanting kids or a husband to save face, brehettes

Why is it ok for men not to want to be married or have children, but women can't want the same thing? Marriage is a risk for both men and women. Children are an even bigger risk so I can see why anyone wouldn't want to be bothered with either.

 

[Elle Driver]

Lie about not wanting kids or a husband to save face, brehettes

Petty arguments, having children I'm not mentally capable of taking care of, being in an unhappy marriage just so I can follow the rules of society? Like I said, I'm good. I don't wanna end up in a marriage like my parents. They could've saved themselves the trouble by not even having me in the first place.

 

[Rawtid]

Petty arguments, having children I'm not mentally capable of taking care of, being in an unhappy marriage just so I can follow the rules of society? Like I said, I'm good. I don't wanna end up in a marriage like my parents. They could've saved themselves the trouble by not even having me in the first place.

I'm happy they made you lol

but I feel what you're saying in regards to relationships/marriage. It's all a big hassle. I have one child and honestly when/if i go to have another I'd be looking into invitro fertilization. As long as my money is right, I'm good. I'd rather be rich than married.

 

[Elle Driver]

I'm happy they made you lol

but I feel what you're saying in regards to relationships/marriage. It's all a big hassle. I have one child and honestly when/if i go to have another I'd be looking into invitro fertilization. As long as my money is right, I'm good. I'd rather be rich than married.

I think it's a drain mentally, if you have a relationship and even more so if you have a kid. You have to be selfless when you have a child, when you're in a relationship you gotta be mindful of someone else's feelings. I got enough problems on my own, I can't handle two other people. At least I know that and keep my eggs unfertilized. Probably finna get my tubes tied and keep it movin.

 

[Dooby]

I don't kids nor marriage, I'd be a failure if I did have kids and got married. I'm good.

Lol I guarantee you're in your early 20s saying this. Just wait until the age 30 starts knocking on them ovaries

 

[Ikwa]

@Rawtid @Elle Driver

Every man wants kids (especially boys) to carry their name and spread those impeccable seeds.

I personally don't believe a woman that claims not to want kids, a few years back most Spanish women chose their career over a family but now they all scrambling to get those children