Not at all...plan B insinuates a "just in case," a 2nd place, an in case of emergency break glass, back burner type of choice.
yeah you right, nvm
Yeah I misread it nvm.
nail on the head.
Better decision is to just keep shyt on the hush. If they ask tell..if they don't then withhold the information.I tell dudes straight up all the variables. Free food ain't worth wasting my time and life with somebody I'm not interested in. Also I don't like the idea of taking advantage of men either even tho some dudes are a$$holes. I like authentic fun experiences. I kinda feel like that's a hallmark of being an adult. I can make moves w/o having to lie or justify shyt. I can be real.How many of y'all are telling these people that you are seeing, talking to, dating and possibly having sex with other people? How soon do you give out this information?
I'm assuming most of y'all ain't saying squat for fear of running all your options away by being truthful even if they were doing it themselves. I feel as if even if you yourself were dating multiple men, and if one of the men told you he's also doing so it would bring him down about 2-3 notches. And unless you really like him and y'all are really vibing, you would probably charge him to the game/throw him to the bushes. This also goes for men, but I think he wouldn't charge her to the game as there's still the possibility he could have sex with the woman.
I'm not necessarily dating for marriage. As a person who just got out of a relationship I find trying to make someone I just met drop everything for me weird and I 'm really sure why anyone would want that.
Definitely a catch 22. I heard somewhere that even if you have a girlfriend, wife etc you should still flirt with other women because of the energy it brings. Women can sense that energy, and I guess it puts them on the edge of their seats subconsciously knowing that you still "got it" and can pull other women/have options even if you really don't. Whereas a dude who only has eyes for his women and wouldn't dare flirt with another woman has no options, and he's no longer perceive as attractive by other women (even though he could be but the energy isn't there).nail on the head.
I have stories to break the shyt down but I',m too lazy to even explain. Overall I would advise EVERY man to try and have as many options as he can when it comes to women. Never get complacent.
Women don't need to because regardless...whether or not they TRY to have options they will have options. Men will approach them if they are remotely attractive. Hence, a woman can be in a relationship or dating...be broken up and
a) turn on her phone to some nikka like me tryna hit her up and see what shes up to
b) go outside and have a nikka like me tryna bag it and get the number
c) go to a club or party and have dudes buying her drinks and tryna holla
d) log into social media and have nikkas sliding in her DMs (not my style)
e) have her friends hook her up with eligible dudes who are ready and willing to prove themselves.
With a man however? If you relinquish your roster at any time because you feel that your girlfriend is your everything you lose all your leverage. Let's say your girl starts acting funny...flaking...all of a sudden needs space? Try and go back to those girls that you distanced yourself from. Every single one of them jawns will curve you. Essentially you'll have to start all the way from the ground up and get out there bagging girls as you try to get your mojo back. You'll have to build your confidence back up in the face of rejection. Keeping that in mind...when you're girl starts acting dumb you're gonna turn a blind eye because you remember how cold the dating game is and dont wanna be thrown back into the sea.
It's a catch 22. You let these women know you're taken and if you're ever broken up with or become single all of a sudden they're bitter cause you didnt choose them initially and they're probably wondering how you fukked up your other relationship. If you broke up with your girl in their eyes youre probably an a$$hole. If she broke up with you you're damaged goods and there must be something wrong with you. But if you dont let them know you're being a snake.
I don't see anything wrong with that. Some people date for fun while others do it with a set goal in mind of building a relationship that will flourish into bigger and better things.
But I'm really not pressed to be in a relationship so maybe that is the difference. I date to enjoy the personalities and experiences of others. I don't date hoping dude will be my prince charming.
But I can't hate on someone's dating style but if a dude I just met told me he was the only I can spend any time with if I wanted to get to know him I'd probably consider him controling and keep it moving. I can't imagine someone I don't know telling me how I should feel about them off the break. Nah son.
We're only ( dating ) is a age old ( fukk shield ) for women.
They can get free meals,drinks,weed and dikk all through
the week from as many cats as they want and weigh
their options (can't hate on it) but I don't play that bullshyt.
Oh you're just dating huh?
Well let's do this love......I have a bottle of patron,
A flock of wings,a few grams of northern lights and
some new face towels that just came in from overstock.com
that you can use after I push your p*ssy up under your armpits.
I can't imagine jockying for a position in some broads
weekly lineup.
