Ladies how much of a man's potential worth to you?

[bcrusaderw]

I feel ya,ya wanna be equally yoked.I hope you let the poor man wear the pants

Why for? There's a meek man out there waiting for me to take charge.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Why for? There's a meek man out there waiting for me to take charge.

at least you keep it real.I feel bad for that guy but oh well,gotta have a backbone out here

 

[Ashley Banks]

Potential means nothing to me.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Potential means nothing to me.

Basically no romance without finance?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The smarter thing is non-negotiable. No one's going to turn down a partner for being too successful including me, but I would prefer someone equally or slightly less successful than I am. Keeps the power balance nice and manageable.

This sounds like disaster in the making

I have seen relationships destroyed by meaningless power struggles. shyt never works without mutual respect. NEVER

 

[Ashley Banks]

Basically no romance without finance?

more like I'm not taking care of you while you try to make it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

more like I'm not taking care of you while you try to make it.

I feel that,im not saying carry me and your load,what if a brotha ran into hard times?Everybody struggles now and then.What if a dude had no dough yet wanted to change the world on some MLK,Malcolm type stuff.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I feel that,im not saying carry me and your load,what if a brotha ran into hard times?Everybody struggles now and then.What if a dude had no dough yet wanted to change the world on some MLK,Malcolm type stuff.

If he's already my man and he ran into hard times, then it's fine. But if he's just trying to get with me then I'd wish him good luck and be on my way.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If he's already my man and he ran into hard times, then it's fine. But if he's just trying to get with me then I'd wish him good luck and be on my way.

I feel you that's fair

 

[Rocket Scientist]

upp

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

A woman's age is very important in this conversation. All throughout college I was a bum ass nikka with tons of potential, but some women overlooked my glaring flaws because my future looked good on paper. Younger women can afford to take more risks in these situations.

 

[bcrusaderw]

This sounds like disaster in the making

I have seen relationships destroyed by meaningless power struggles. shyt never works without mutual respect. NEVER

Why wouldn't I respect my husband?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A woman's age is very important in this conversation. All throughout college I was a bum ass nikka with tons of potential, but some women overlooked my glaring flaws because my future looked good on paper. Younger women can afford to take more risks in these situations.

Im thinkin same thing.At 23 they roll the dice.Once 26 comes they flip the script its more what have you done for me lately type stuff with them

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Why wouldn't I respect my husband?

As long as you respect him you could make it,but you being the leader of the relationship well

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Why wouldn't I respect my husband?

Because you chose him so you could dominate him. That's the opposite of respect. Also reeks of fear. If a dude here said he wanted a wife who wasn't his equal so he could control her you'd throw shade