Problematic Pat
Superstar
She's fat. And she's 42.
Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread
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Oh my god
Hmmm. This is the same thing that I’m stating in this thread and notice the emphasis is on while she’s young. This lady in the OP is over 40 and yet you’re in this thread making excuses for her. This is my exact point.
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/im-tired-of-always-being-a-guys-second-or-third-choice.363727/
I'm seriously getting so confused right now.
. Nothing I said here contradicts those posts.
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Nah I would definitely shoot the 5 but ok playa
. Enjoy!
General Mills
More often than not I tend to take that L.
When are y’all going to learn to stop half stepping with Nicole. 
She is at 100 at all times so if you are going to come at her you best act accordingly
Problematic Pat
Superstar
But they know the drill. Why participate in something freely that has non negotiable rules which you knew existed before you participated? And 10/10 times the ones who hesitate and try to dance around the question always reveal some bullshyt after being pressed for an answer. They can always book a one on one consult if they don't want to reveal information on his podcast.
Youseenmywork
KING
men and women alike need to put in the work . I don't like these women that use a degree to over compensate for being fat or just don't want to work on thing internally . Dudes gotta sop letting women show up and just breath and that's it yall making the game bad. Hit the weight room consistently and that will help your self esteem for a lot of you ...
Black Nate Grey
The God Emperor of Mankind
He's right in that a 42 year old single mom generally isn't going to have the best of options.
I understand women like to deflect and you have to push get a straight answer from them, as uncomfortable as it is, he's 100% right on the money in that respect.
I have a few problems with him in this segment.
He's pretty disingenuous at times, things are not at all black and white. Nuance exists.
Yes, their roles were flipped but this isn't the 1950's. Two steady incomes is the way to go in the 21st Century. She's right to have reservations about her husband not working, as would a man have concerns about their wife not working in this day and age. Especially on a Teacher's aide salary. fukk off. They were never financially comfortable.
Ideally, yes, it would be good for the husband to make enough so that their partner doesn't have to work. But this isn't everyone's situation.
I say husband because the wife making more causes problems. Wife lowkey resents and doesn't respect her husband in that situation, women will never admit it. It's easier to shoulder the burden as a man because society expects us to.
It seems to me, that it was a bit of schadenfreude on his part. Basically saying, "you were married to by all accounts, a good man (and he was), and you fukked it up".
Not simping but it seemed a bit cruel. Maybe I'm just too young, inexperienced and not jaded yet.
She, admittedly, fukked up talking shyt about her ex at the start of the divorce. It's more her fault than her ex-husbands, it seems. Him not working could have been discussed and worked out, though I'm not sure if it even was.
Women really do inflate their worth.
Beyond that, I did learn some things from his segment. I'm usually pretty polite, I've never actually pushed like Kevin has, consistently at least. Then again, she wanted something from him. He had the opening to push since the power imbalance was in his favor.
I understand women like to deflect and you have to push get a straight answer from them, as uncomfortable as it is, he's 100% right on the money in that respect.
I have a few problems with him in this segment.
He's pretty disingenuous at times, things are not at all black and white. Nuance exists.
Yes, their roles were flipped but this isn't the 1950's. Two steady incomes is the way to go in the 21st Century. She's right to have reservations about her husband not working, as would a man have concerns about their wife not working in this day and age. Especially on a Teacher's aide salary. fukk off. They were never financially comfortable.
Ideally, yes, it would be good for the husband to make enough so that their partner doesn't have to work. But this isn't everyone's situation.
I say husband because the wife making more causes problems. Wife lowkey resents and doesn't respect her husband in that situation, women will never admit it. It's easier to shoulder the burden as a man because society expects us to.
It seems to me, that it was a bit of schadenfreude on his part. Basically saying, "you were married to by all accounts, a good man (and he was), and you fukked it up".
Not simping but it seemed a bit cruel. Maybe I'm just too young, inexperienced and not jaded yet.
She, admittedly, fukked up talking shyt about her ex at the start of the divorce. It's more her fault than her ex-husbands, it seems. Him not working could have been discussed and worked out, though I'm not sure if it even was.
Women really do inflate their worth.
Beyond that, I did learn some things from his segment. I'm usually pretty polite, I've never actually pushed like Kevin has, consistently at least. Then again, she wanted something from him. He had the opening to push since the power imbalance was in his favor.
He said, "For you to have a chance you'd have to be gorgeous. If you was gorgeous you wouldn't be calling."
That hard cold facts
Now if she look like this shorty who is 42 then it would be a different story.
The only thing I disagree with is her being ”done”. She can find someone around her level or go back to her husband like the brother suggested.
He also went in on the brothers too. I honestly wouldn't take advice from a person who is not married but I won't disregard any information if it make sense.
Dude is funny but he’s gay as fuk...
Youseenmywork
KING
That hard cold facts
Now if she look like this shorty who is 42 then it would be a different story.
The only thing I disagree with is her being ”done”. She can find someone around her level or go back to her husband like the brother suggested.
He also went in on the brothers too. I honestly wouldn't take advice from a person who is not married but I won't disregard any information if it make sense.
fam she is alright but them knee caps look like neck bones legs is fat as hell
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
That’s the absolute truth really. People have a issue with how he said it which is weird. Men get straight to the point. We aren’t going to go around it to make you feel better. Our women are in the state of fantasy because they were told you can be 42 with kids and overweight. someone who is well off will except them with them as is. The higher caliber the man the more option he as. It’s not about what you “feel” you deserve.
LV Koopa
Jester from Hell
"if you were gorgeous, you wouldn't be calling"
This right here was some shyt you'd hear in a movie and the whole theater goes
Born2BKing
Veteran
Where are you getting this generalizations from? You running into fat women in their 40's who think they gonna bag Michael B Jordan?