Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[King Poetic]

Her:: hi I’m 42, i used to weigh 2....

Him: mam stopped u FINISHED

Her: wait let me finish

Him:: I told u that your FINISHED

GOT DAMNNN

 

[The ADD]

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Water finds its own level. Everybody has a market place value and there's someone out there for this woman. This clip is just #HOH porn.

Speaking of water weight- you’re married to a white slab of pig fat with a body as wide as all outdoors. Why don’t you IR married ones (male and female) just sit this out and shut up. How the fuk are you giving your opinion/advice when you sold out, failed to stay in your race and went with the white at a Whole Foods market as soon as they gave you attention. “Someone out there”- that’s the illogical thinking that made the woman in the OP divorce and whine on to a YouTube channel about finding a Man better than what she had. You don’t need to give ya opinion on a damn thing. You should have been HOH - hard on hogs.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Her:: hi I’m 42, i used to weigh 2....

Him: mam stopped u FINISHED

Her: wait let me finish

Him:: I told u that your FINISHED

GOT DAMNNN

I could feel her soul leave her body at that point. I just sat there watching like:

 

[EndDomination]

It was a situation where pretty much the roles were reversed: he cooked, cleaned and took care of the kids. Not the optimal setup most women would agree with, but he never cheated or abused her or the children. If he did she would of admitted it and she did admit he is fully in their lives. And during the 8 years they have been divorced she has not been able to find a man, so what was the fukking point of getting divorced?

She didn't want to continue to share a life with a man she didn't want to be with anymore.
You don't have to go through a significant abuse or infidelity experience to divorce your partner who isn't bringing any income into the household.

 

[HARLEM AL]

I've already answered the question fam.

He asked you this.

Would you agree a 42 year old woman, 5'4 who weighs 210 is going to have a problem with getting a high earning man? Do you agree a 33 year old single mother that is a 5 is going to have a hard time at the least to land someone making six figures? He is not saying anything mind blowing or peddling something that requires some report on his background. The messages he repeats are simple: if you are overweight, lose it. If you are below a 7 and in your 30s-40's lower your requirements, especially if you have children. Become more feminine and wear your natural hair to help. Open your horizons to middle income/blue collar men to find someone you can marry. I do not see the problem.

You proceeded with this....

I post on here but still life in the real world. You talking that fantasy non sense. I know how most people react to things and the shyt you're kicking on this topic isn't the norm for how people get folks at all. I don't know why you're asking me these questions because they don't change my answer and don't even change what I posted to you in the first post. You don't see the problem because you agree with him and when people agree with something oftentimes they'll let folks eurostep around the normal protocol that we do normally. He's saying basic shyt so whats to disagree about? I don't recall saying I disagreed either so also don't get where you got that from smh. I said and maybe you didn't read it I'm not surprised if somebody questions duke because that's normal shyt unless you're a fan of someone and you let folks slide. That's just life.

You are agreeing. But you have a issue with nikkas agreeing with what you also agree with.

I would rather you nikkas just come out and “say I already knew this. You nikkas don’t know shyt. Y’all listening to some nikka on YouTube. Go outside like me”.
I would respect that a little more.

 

[MikelArteta]

Water finds its own level. Everybody has a market place value and there's someone out there for this woman. This clip is just #HOH porn.

There was but she left him

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You do a lot of projecting and I’m sure the insecurity carries over into your new relationship. Based on observation alone between how you bring up your old relationships



I’m just speaking bc my brothers have dated various women and I’ve seen this trend on repeat since I was the one as the female voice of reason for their situations.

How would you feel if your boyfriend said this about you (even though this was about your ex) - what if a man said this about a woman. You mean to tell me you wouldn’t feel offended?

The first one, I was single at the time. I would definitely take my fiancé on a trip and pay for everything for him. It wouldn’t bother me a bit.


The second one was very much a joke . I’m still trying to get him fat. He’s not cooperating.


Everything you quoted, he knows already. I’m an open book. Plus he already knows how I feel about him and his looks. I literally compliment on a daily basis, lol.

If my current SO said to other people that I wasn’t as good looking as his ex girlfriends and he chose me primarily based on my personality.. if I found out about it, yes my ego would be bruised. It’s not like I said it to the guys face though. I would never tell him that. That’s mean.

What exactly am I saying that’s so bad? Maybe I’m missing something here?

 

[EndDomination]

So since she doesn't make any money either. That would give her husband the right to divorce her for the same reason? He was still taking care of their kids, cooking and cleaning when he wasn't working. But that would be acceptable for her just not him?

If she was in his position, and he was in hers - I would not fault him for divorcing her.

 

[EndDomination]

Why pick somebody like that in the first PLACE ...she chose the danm man

That's a good question. I don't know the chronology of their relationship - nor am I all that interested in it - but its a fair reason.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Tyler perry, Steve Harvey and other dude Derrick (whatever his name is) made a following, millions and a whole bag off of delusions. Now when shyt hits the fan, all the “think like a man” segment are running around desperate at 40-50s “I do need a man, why don’t I have a man, I’m lonely and unfulfilled without a man “
Fast forward yrs later - Tyler and Steve have no solutions and left them hanging on to a fantasy and a dream. But they’ve been calling me a “pick me” for years when I tried to speak on it, saying that’s not the way, so what do I know I know I’m not complaining about the lack of or voicing discontent about relationships on male dominated platforms or call in shows.

Sink, line and hook.

Like Michael Caine said in the film, The Prestige, “people want to be fooled”. It’s more comforting believing it’s the outside world’s fault instead of accepting one’s shortcomings. The guys you’ve mentioned feed/fed false hope instead of reality for personal financial gain. Especially from guys that look like they ain’t get women until they got some fame or clout.

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

I'm not mad at Chelsea, she realized she had to get with a lesser attractive male that would treat her better than her ex. I don't particularly believe that a woman can love a man the same if the attraction component isn't there, they can be together but when you take your ex to exotic places, that's some reverse simping, that's what men do when they try to get the baddies to be with them.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Why pick somebody like that in the first PLACE ...she chose the danm man

He was alluding to that but deviated off. He was asking what he was doing prior to marrying him and she tried to save face by saying he was school. Didn’t mention what he was in school for so likely he wasn’t doing anything prior. She wasn’t a catch so they were a match. Sheesh

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

This guy is a pretty rude individual. Women CAN go overseas and find a husband if they want. After my parent divorced my mom, who is in her 50's is about to marry a non-American. My pops is fukking late 20's dimes in Atl. Men and women can find love in places outside of America.

He’s not being rude..
He’s being honest..
When you get to a certain age..
You not trying to hear all that juelzing..
When people ask for advice..
99% just want confirmation on what they already feel..
Anytime you try to tell them anything else..
You become a dream killer/rude/non-tactful..
Sometimes feeding people sugar pills..
Is to their detriment and they never learn..
These women out here want Idris Elba/Trevante Rhodes
But 42 and overweight
The same could be applied to brehs..
You wanna fukk Draya..
But don’t have the funds to up keep a “bad bytch”
Both sexes are delusional and there is nothing wrong..
With hard doses of truth..
The problem now days is everybody wants to be coddled..
I can tell a lot of you haven’t been around the older generation..
This nikka is lightweight when it comes to this word play..
He is actually hitting them with light jabs..
My uncles would have said shyt to her..
That would have her on suicide watch

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

You can measure how attracted a woman is to a man by how much bullshyt she's willing to put up with to be with him.

Average and ugly gang got to pay the bills. And he better not have no attitude about it.
Handsome gang can be on her couch, he just gotta pay for his fare. Y'all know I'm right.