If they were actually all in on the power couple lifestyle, they’d have more success. If their pitch was let’s take my 6 figure salary and put it with your 6 figure salary and live a great lifestyle they’d get some traction.
The issue is they wanna keep their 6 figures and only use it in stuff for them and pay for “vacations.” And they don’t understand, that use of the salary doesn’t benefit them. There’s a younger, prettier goal, more agreeable girl, who also won’t contribute financially. Why am I picking you over her you, if the one thing you have that she doesn’t you won’t use for the good of the household?
That’s the truth of the matter.
Most women want to use their money for themselves and contribute very little to the household. They are very selfish when it comes to that.
To them, a man “providing” means her money is not to be used toward household expenses, investing, etc. Using her money toward the household is a no-go in her mind. She actually resents that and feels like a “roommate” more so than a prize!
It’s also one of the reasons they can so easily walk away from relationships and marriages. They’ve really only invested time! Whereas men have typically invested a lot more into the relationship and would prefer to fix whatever issues are present as opposed to seeing his investment crumble.
At this point, I block out almost anything a woman leads with and watch her actions and those of her closest friends and her mom instead.
A Black woman telling you she makes $X amount of money means nothing since you and the household will not materially benefit from it.
A Black woman telling you she is a Christian means nothing. There was a time when that meant something and was a good screen for fundamental goodness. In 2021, it just means she goes to church from time to time!
As a man, you have to sit back and observe. And that can take some time since facades can be expertly maintained for months—even years, in some cases!
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