HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
I hear you. I’ve dealt with women who have had frenemies in their circle. But, they weren’t lifelong friends.
Frenemies aren’t lifelong people. They can only disguise their jealousy and hate for so long before it blows up the “friendship.”
Lifelong friends are those people you’ve known for 20+ years. They’ve been there through it all. You might go weeks or months without talking to them. But, you know they got your back if you need them.
Those are the types of friends that are willing to step aside and let you focus on building with a potential husband or wife. They genuinely want to see you win.
Frenemies are usually short-term people who would feel you are besting them by achieving or being happy.

Ive mentioned before, Ivanka Trump was the friend of a friend. I guarantee she got bytches she can't stand but been knowing all her life and can't avoid.

Im only first gen, but i know boule types who legit left the country to get away from what i can only describe as an incestuous community of privilege.