Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[Apollo Creed]

Preach. I've seen it happen.

As men, we operate on a code when it comes to our friends. If a breh tells us he's trying to do right by his girl or in life, we aren't going to put him in situations that will potentially fukk up what he has going on.

Women don't generally have code when it comes to their friends. They will have that one friend who is in a relationship and consistently pressure her into situations, plant seeds of doubt, etc. that will jeopardize what she has going on.

On top of doing “girls trips”. If my girl/wife ever utters the words girls trip to me I’m telling to go and stay where ever she at.

 

[JT-Money]

No wonder KS says he's moving to NY. Atlanta is filled with mostly birds like Tommie.

 

[True Blue Moon]

50/50 for me here , I've known guys to go out the country mostly South America and the Caribbean and "come back" with a chick and it be fine, and by be fine i mean these were mostly guys who wanted chicks that there 8s & 9s physically but those chicks wont pay attention to them here, so they go get a foreign bring her here marry , kids etc. Then Ive known dudes who have had horrible fails.

One older cat stands out in particular, am going to switch the details a bit just because. This guy went to school with me at one of the large university's in the state, he was 20 years older than everyone else but was going back to get his master in business or something, he ran a very successful limo renting business and had been running it since his early 20s. Very easily fell into the Kevin Samuels "HVM" category. He was also already married and had several kids all of which at the time were teenagers give or take. I had a single class with him and we chat it up and became friends , he wanted to take his family on vacation and asked me for suggestion i recommended Puerto Rico, dude goes out with the fam they spend two week sat luxury resort etc. Dude comes back we go out for drinks and he proceeds to tell me how he feel in love with one of the room cleaning chicks that works at the resort

Said the chick cleaned up after them way better than his wife ever cleaned up the house, said she never complained etc but the line that got him was one day she told him "if i ever had a man that took my family on a trip like that i would never complain about doing anything for him"

over the next month he continues to talk her on the phone while he is at work , chick (who was a dime) sends him nudes, he sends money, the old man thinks he has his fire back. I tell him to be careful he has a good thing going with his wife and kids and he does need of them young chick (she was 22) problems. Dude doesn't listen and makes up a fake business trip in FL as an excuse to fly out to PR and see the chick


dude came back from the second trip obsessed, already had a lawyer on deck to divorce his wife and get this chick over here. This is were i learned his issues with his wife were the standard ones. Sex was limited and boring, she didnt cook, didnt really clean, nagged all day and let herself go (they had been married for almost 15 years). I once again warn that things arent always what they seem and he should avoid what he is about to do.


a month later this guy stops cominng to school , i call him up and come to find out not only did he bring the chick here he brought her here, took his wife out to dinner and the chick come , that how he would tell his wife there marriage was over, over the next 12 months the following happended

wife gets a bunch of alimony and he has to pay a crazy amount of child support

because of the stress he loses a few major limo rental contracts his income plummets


the puerto rican chick gets really comfortabel in america and decides she doesnt wanna do none of the chick she promised and is bored


in order to keep her unbored he sells his companys, cashes out for a few hundred grand which he blows between a house and a couple new cars for the new chick (which he now marries)

he fails at launching a new business and has to go work at book store


new chick goes back to PR, gets knocked up by another guy, tries to pass it off on him, that fails, she divorces him, gets a bunch of money and moves back to PR

Dude becomes and acholic and i never hear from him again

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

When Big Shirley called in barking about swirling

Then Kevin proceeded to drop the hammer:

Where's your white husband?

Spoiler

 

[Easy-E]

Wavy

 

[HARLEM AL]

No wonder KS says he's moving to NY. Atlanta is filled with mostly birds like Tommie.

NY is worst.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

At the end of the day someone can be a good person but you have to legit ask yourself are you prepared to take on whatever stuff (wont use the word baggage) they come with. I.e she has a crackhead mother, are you ready to deal with the issues that may come with that?

This is gospel. I’m in a relationship now but I refuse to seriously date a woman from a broken home. Yeah it’s not her fault, she may have come out of it as a good person but the baggage is definitely there.

If a woman comes from a stable home with little to few messed up relatives, I can deal with that. There’s is definitely a correlation with their emotional stability if they had a stable two parent household.

 

[The Fade]

If y’all work in upfront sales or retail or have to talk to customers long enough you can do that stonewall shyt Kevin does.

but Kevin had cancer, fukk would he be afraid of her for? That’s probably partly why he is the way he is.

 

[HarlemHottie]

This is gospel. I’m in a relationship now but I refuse to seriously date a woman from a broken home. Yeah it’s not her fault, she may have come out of it as a good person but the baggage is definitely there.

If a woman comes from a stable home with little to few messed up relatives, I can deal with that. There’s is definitely a correlation with their emotional stability if they had a stable two parent household.

I do think ppl should 'match'. In my case, we both come from similarly broken homes. (Married parents who divorced/ separated, absorbed into the maternal side, but everybody was married so lots of good relationship examples, uncles, etc.)

Being broken in the same way has actually been helpful to us, in the sense that we both realize what we don't know. So, over the decades, we've tried several different relationship models. We read relationship books and then discuss. Its a really... self- reflective relationship.

I don't think a man who came from a two parent home would be willing to do all that. I suspect that he'd either stick to his parents model or do the exact opposite in a reactionary sort of way. Im not sure if he'd be as willing to try anything.

 

[Spliff]

I remember that Tommie chick from LAHH like 6 years ago. She was on the "Bad and Boujee" artwork cover.

Kevin might stroke out after hearing her full history. Broad is every definition of damaged goods.

She all but called him daddy at the end.

 

[HARLEM AL]

This is dope. She's going to have to let that Pro woman shyt go though. it is the opposite of what she's doing. And she also going to have cut her friends and family off who arent married or in healthy relationships.

 

[Ahadi]

I remember that Tommie chick from LAHH like 6 years ago. She was on the "Bad and Boujee" artwork cover.

Kevin might stroke out after hearing her full history. Broad is every definition of damaged goods.

She all but called him daddy at the end.

He’s getting mad joints from this

Off my IG burner, dude is racking them up. Hope he doesn’t get sloppy and makes himself a mark.

 

[HarlemHottie]

This is dope. She's going to have to let that Pro woman shyt go though. it is the opposite of what she's doing. And she also going to have cut her friends and family off who arent married or in healthy relationships.

She's cooperative (and young) enough that her man can make adjustments where he sees fit.

 

[ajnapoleon]

He put the lasso around her and she was bucking




Until she got worn down

 

[JT-Money]

He put the lasso around her and she was bucking




Until she got worn down

You wrong for that.