You're doing the most. He explicitly stated the direction he should have steered her. He said she is clearly looking for security and looking only to money to get that is not the move.
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You're doing the most. He explicitly stated the direction he should have steered her. He said she is clearly looking for security and looking only to money to get that is not the move.
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that’s what the caller wanted though
she literally said she wants a man who makes over 100k, and I believe she even added that she can’t submit to a man who makes less than that ...which is fine
she made no mention about character, personality, emotional intelligence or any other significant traits that one would think is important in choosing a spouse.
it was about the money for her and I don’t fault her; that’s her preference/standard. Kevin was just telling her with her stats, that it is highly unlikely that she will get that.
EDIT: i’m not attacking u. @num123 summed up what I said better.
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She wanted a six figure man and the reason why is, and i quote "Because i feel like i need a guy i can respect and admire and im ambitious". He told her what she needed to hear, but she did not want to accept it. You can lead a horse to water but you can not make them drink. What advice would you have given her if she came to you with the same question?
I get it. She makes over 6 figures and would like the reciprocal. Men with money don’t care about a women’s money... often to their own detriment in cases of separation/divorce/C-support. She was dolled up with makeup, eyelashes, and weave and was still average ...plus a kid...plus a sketchy baby daddy.
She wouldn’t tell her own child to go for that if he grows up to make good money. Why would a man walk into that situation
Think again
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I honestly don’t remember word for word what was said between them, but I remember in the beginning of the clip she said something about younger women not liking older men, so I think he told her that would be her best option as a 35 year old single mother who rated herself a 5/6 on a good day.
The main gist was that she didn’t like his answers like many women don’t.
I’m not saying his delivery was right or wrong, but it is true that finding a man making 100k is harder when you say you’re average looks wise and are an older woman with a kid.
To me Kevin’s advice sounds like this in a nutshell:
He tells men to make a lot of money, wife up a younger woman and pay the bills.
He tells women that their best bet to have man to take care of them is to be with an older man with more money and who wants to settle down.
Most women don’t like his answer though.
I mean you are but it's cool. Ya'll live to go back and forth. I stand by what I said. I don't really think there is really anything else I can say that wouldn't be redundant.
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I stand corrected
I literally answered the question in the post you quoted and the rest is in the video of the other dude. I'm not having a circular conversation so ya'll can argue. You don't agree. I get it. I accept it.
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how am I attacking you? I never personalized anything in my replies to you. I don’t think I even said “you”. If u felt that way then that’s not my intent
I just feel like women don’t like hearing anything unless it reinforces what they already believe. Men are constantly being told how we ain’t shyt and how to do better in Op-Eds, think pieces in magazines and social media. But this 50 y/o man on YT saying men typically like women in between dress sizes 4-8 is light but gets women furiously calling in.
I wonder why? Thinly veiled gay accusations, saying men can not rate women looks, that everyone is ugly to someone (and for the lady in the video, that is a lot of people), level up garbage, etc... It is simple, you do not like men rating or discussing women unless it is to praise them.I know what advice he gives. I just said I like the other guys response. I comprehend.
I know what advice he gives. I just said I like the other guys response. I comprehend.
I feel what you been saying the last couple pages lol
KS has a few important themes that some women can learn from.
1. “High value” men don’t care as much about your salary or educational/career accomplishments
2. Average looking women should adjust their expectations to where they aren’t expecting the top 10% of earners, because a lot of men in that space will value looks and agreeableness above all else. So the competition will be too stiff to get what you’re asking for.
and I think theres truth in both of those themes.
Beyond that he’s just an entertainer lol.. really enjoyable show to watch because of the fukkery and to see delusion chicks get shat on.
But any serious chick, looking for advice on how to date in the 2020s shouldn’t be calling this show or expecting any “expert” advice. He makes points that have validity but usually says it in a fukked up way or gets frustrated with the caller instead of trying to help them legitimately see the flaws in their thinking.
im not criticising him because i think that’s perfect for the platform he’s built but I would look my cousin or homegirl like “really?!”
if they called in expecting to actually get something out of it.
yea he was lame for that. Lol and the whole I was more mature then him when I was half his age/ “Men’s warehouse rep with a promotion” jab
Make a lot of money, wife a younger woman, and pay all the bills.
In 2020 this is his advice
Breh setting up these lame nikkas who only pull with they bag to get they pockets ran something fierce
In 2020 this is his advice
Breh setting up these lame nikkas who only pull with they bag to get they pockets ran something fierce
