A lot of women just aren’t used to being given straight talk.
They get a bunch of “princess” talk from their fathers.
A bunch of validation from simps.
A bunch of “it’s not you, it’s them” talk from their girlfriends.
A bunch of feel-good messages from pastor.
They can easily reach 40 and never have had a man give it to them unfiltered.
As Kevin alluded to, most Black women know what they are looking for in a mate. But, they do not really know Black men and what we are looking for. It’s akin to a person applying for a coveted job and not even reading the job description and getting frustrated because the result isn’t positive. Imagine the arrogance and delusion of a person to keep repeating that approach without taking a step back, researching and adjusting to achieve a better result. That’s what we’re dealing with when it comes to a lot of these chronically single Black women.
Men control the marriage market. Women should work to better understand what men want. The problem is a lot of Black women do not listen and think they have all the answers, yet remain chronically single.
They get a bunch of “princess” talk from their fathers.
A bunch of validation from simps.
A bunch of “it’s not you, it’s them” talk from their girlfriends.
A bunch of feel-good messages from pastor.
They can easily reach 40 and never have had a man give it to them unfiltered.
As Kevin alluded to, most Black women know what they are looking for in a mate. But, they do not really know Black men and what we are looking for. It’s akin to a person applying for a coveted job and not even reading the job description and getting frustrated because the result isn’t positive. Imagine the arrogance and delusion of a person to keep repeating that approach without taking a step back, researching and adjusting to achieve a better result. That’s what we’re dealing with when it comes to a lot of these chronically single Black women.
Men control the marriage market. Women should work to better understand what men want. The problem is a lot of Black women do not listen and think they have all the answers, yet remain chronically single.
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