You're good and much respect. I personally don't like how ultra casual society has become. Where I live everyone is in athleisure. Women think they can wear yoga pants everywhere. Men looking like they rolled out of bed. This is regardless of race.
You just killed your whole thread right here. So you admit that society as a WHOLE dresses down and that men look they rolled out of bed OF ALL RACES! But then want to lecture Black men about not dressing up and wanting to grow up? I would say “make it make sense” but it made sense the whole time...caping for white supremacy.