James Franco brehs

[re'up]

The problem isn't that these "time honored techniques" are "under fire", its that they never were acceptable, it was just how we were socialized as men, for the most part, to make us think its ok, when it isn't. If you find yourself seeing close similarities to behavior outlined in these kinds of stories, it is incredibly likely someone you were with, felt the same way. I went to high school with date rapists and sexual abusers, and they were friends, I just didn't know enough to know how wrong it was. I suspect all of us did.

Men, or many of them, are operating with the belief system that women want us regardless, or under any circumstances, which just isn't true. Men often view sex as something to be extracted, not a mutually consensual activity.

As far as myself, I feel guilty for what I didn't do, which was staying silent, instead of participating, but my silence is essentially complicity.

 

[AnonymityX1000]

The problem isn't that these "time honored techniques" are "under fire", its that they never were acceptable, it was just how we were socialized as men, for the most part, to make us think its ok, when it isn't. If you find yourself seeing close similarities to behavior outlined in these kinds of stories, it is incredibly likely someone you were with, felt the same way. I went to high school with date rapists and sexual abusers, and they were friends, I just didn't know enough to know how wrong it was. I suspect all of us did.

Men, or many of them, are operating with the belief system that women want us regardless, or under any circumstances, which just isn't true. Men often view sex as something to be extracted, not a mutually consensual activity.

As far as myself, I feel guilty for what I didn't do, which was staying silent, instead of participating, but my silence is essentially complicity.

What's acceptable and unacceptable is an individual thing. There is no one standard. What one person likes and wants is different than what other people want. Some people are asexual while others have rape fantasies.

 

[re'up]

So, you don't just assume one size fits all. That is part of my point, because you may be taking advantage or even victimizing someone.

 

[AnonymityX1000]

So, you don't just assume one size fits all. That is part of my point, because you may be taking advantage or even victimizing someone.

This #meto thing is kinda assuming one size fits all, retroactively even.

 

[re'up]

No, those specific women are saying it impacted them in that way, and other women are saying ME TOO.

I know women who don't really believe in sexually harassment, and think all women are liars, but would it surprise you they tend to date older, wealthier men? And repeat essentially sexist talking points to defend sexual harassment/sexual assault, because patriarchy is a powerful thing, as we have seen in the last election.

 

[AnonymityX1000]

No, those specific women are saying it impacted them in that way, and other women are saying ME TOO.

I know women who don't really believe in sexually harassment, and think all women are liars, but would it surprise you they tend to date older, wealthier men? And repeat essentially sexist talking points to defend sexual harassment/sexual assault, because patriarchy is a powerful thing, as we have seen in the last election.

#Meto is lumping straight up rapists with people who just asked albeit inappropriately for sexual favors. One is a heinous crime the other is an uncomfortable situation.
We can't judge people based on two people saying they felt the same way. There needs to be a standard of actual behavior.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

they say just ask her if shes down for sex and if not just move on

but what if just asking her makes her uncomfortable?

we get any cases like that yet?

 

[Lee_Land]

So no Deuces season 2

Never cut off a show quicker than when Maggie Gyllenhaal showed her t*ts

 

[BXKingPin82]

This technique has worked for me on multiple occasions. The girl has to be feeling you though. You don't just whip out your dikk on a stranger.

you know she gonna suck that shyt before you even pull it out!


Negrodamus shyt!
:hahapaul:

 

[feelosofer]

Dude has been kind of a known scumbag for years now.

 

[Diunx]

Man I love Franco's stoner comedies, can't believe we will probably go some years without one thanks to some failed actress, not to mention The Deuce

 

[Nymbus]

Harry Osborn

Do what you need to with her then broom her *fast* :Usher:

 

[altruicsense]

fuk these bytches for real.. this war on men is goin too far.. she liked dude at the time.. gave him head and now shes a bum shes calling it abuse.

and u men in here acting holier than thou.. they coming for u next.. they gonna lock u up for even asking for a number soon.

 

[Knowledge]

Let's call it what it really is at this point, a witch Hunt. They can say anything and the world will take it as truth at face value without any sort of proof. How can a man really fight against"allegations"

 

[FocusedDaily]

I’m convinced 90% of this thread didn’t read the article.

It said he had a consensual sexual arrangement w the woman, but 1 time he tried to get head from her in a car and she didn’t want to, so he fell back and another time she thinks he wanted to fukk her friend

That’s the entirety of his being “inappropriate” he’s accused of in this. And that’s enough in 2018 for nikkas to get blackballed ??!!!

FOH