Firstly, I'm not likening Lawrence's emotional cheating to Issa's emotional + physical cheating. I'm pairing Lawrence's 2 year negligence to Issa's physical cheating.
Lawrence was basically prepping Tasha to come off the bench. IMO, that is emotional cheating. Lawrence wanted an ego boost & chose Tasha to give that to him, rather than Issa, who at the latter point, checked back into the relationship.
Mind you, Lawrence & Tasha did not work together so at minimum, they made some effort to be more than cordial (b/c cordial is "hi & bye") How did Lawrence even have her #, to call her & have the smash session as soon as him & Issa broke up?
Yes Issa was wrong for seeking out Daniel & use Daniel to fulfill her emotional needs (b/c Issa was straight up being ignored). I am not debating that & I never did. But Lawrence also used an outside party to fulfill emotional needs. They both emotionally cheated.
Question: Would you be okay with your girlfriend having casual lunches & unnecessary encouragement talks with a dude that you know is interested in her? Would you be okay with your girlfriend never telling you that this guy existed?
2 year negligence?
Lawrence was fukking depressed. He graduated from a good university, tried to start his own business and failed, tried to find a good job in a brutal market, and was in a bad place. He was still extremely supportive of Issa and didn't even recognize how low he'd sunk until Issa stopped being passive aggressive and just had a conversation with him.
He manned up and fixed his problems. Lawrence didn't do anything to Tasha. They had a friendly relationship, he mentioned he had a girlfriend, and the second she overstepped her boundaries he made it clear that he was taken. This is the same dude who thought a stripper wanted to fukk Him for free. He's just naive, none of what he was doing was backhanded or sneaky.
Have her number? That was a long ass trip back from the vacation spot for Issa, he could have easily swung by the bank and just said what's up.
And no, I wouldn't care especially if I knew that she straight rejected him when he came onto her like Lawrence did.
Comparing what Lawrence did with Tasha to what Issa did with Daniel is straight stupid. She was kissing him, going out of her way to hide it, lied and involved her friends in it, and was far more proactive in trying to push something with Daniel than Lawrence was with Tasha.
You comparing Lawrence minding his own business and Tasha sitting with him to Issa lying to her best friend in an attempt to meet Daniel at the club then kissing him on the way home?
Lawrence wasn't daydreaming or chasing Tasha. He wasn't making excuses to fight with Issa and then run off to see Tasha. He wasn't lying to his friends and talking about much he wishes he could fukk Tasha while with Issa. When Issa was out letting Daniel slide in her, Lawrence was REJECTING a girl who wanted him and solving Issa's issues because he was invested in their relationship.
The goddamn hall