Is this ladies dating goals unrealistic?

Lootha VanDraws

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anyone got another link to the video... can't see the one posted.
 

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The video/post vanished into thin air but the idea of building yourself to get with a single mother
is insane man.

My Ex is BAD, I mean BAD!
That's the ONLY reason I considered it.
If you're average/middling attractive or even above average and you want me to be a "Provider and Protector" for
children that aren't my own you're D E L U S I O N A L.

You don't go to college.
Get a six figure salary.
Invest heavily into assets.
To fukking DATE DOWN.

:yeshrug:
 

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The video/post vanished into thin air but the idea of building yourself to get with a single mother
is insane man.

My Ex is BAD, I mean BAD!
That's the ONLY reason I considered it.
If you're average/middling attractive or even above average and you want me to be a "Provider and Protector" for
children that aren't my own you're D E L U S I O N A L.

You don't go to college.
Get a six figure salary.
Invest heavily into assets.
To fukking DATE DOWN.

:yeshrug:
How long were y’all together?
 

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How long were y’all together?
On and off for the past three years.

I dated a lot of different women between us arguing/breaking it off for various reasons.

I was in a committed four-year long relationship before that.
 

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On and off for the past three years.

I dated a lot of different women between us arguing/breaking it off for various reasons.

I was in a committed four-year long relationship before that.
How many kids did she have?
 

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The video/post vanished into thin air but the idea of building yourself to get with a single mother
is insane man.

My Ex is BAD, I mean BAD!
That's the ONLY reason I considered it.
If you're average/middling attractive or even above average and you want me to be a "Provider and Protector" for
children that aren't my own you're D E L U S I O N A L.


You don't go to college.
Get a six figure salary.
Invest heavily into assets.
To fukking DATE DOWN.

:yeshrug:

And this is the way most nikkas would get caught up with a single mom, if she’s bad af and our dikk intervenes and alters our normal thinking process. :pachaha: We don’t want to deal with at all but will definitely entertain her if she is a bonafide 8, 9 or 10. But most women ain’t that so…..
 

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Women say a lot. Then you see who they allowed to get them pregnant or their ex.

It's like children babbling about how rich they're gonna be.

This is my only beef with “reformed” single moms or women that are ran through. If you sit back and listen to their stories in the getting to know them phase you’ll typically find that they purposefully made poor choices with the men they had kids/prime years with.

Then you meet these women post poor decisions and they want to run you through the wringer to prove yourself “worthy” of damaged goods.

Sure, have standards and a list. Just don’t wait to have those standards AFTER you’ve been rode hard and put up wet. And at my age that’s the modus operandi of 80% of the ladies I’ve encountered.
 
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