HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
He's biracial, ain't he? They go either way, but we should definitely take note of those who live as black professionally, but white romantically.
Is society promoting Black Women and leaving Black Men behind?
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filial_piety
Banned
It's been this way since around the early 00's...I know some people on here are under 30, but trust me, this message has been ongoing since around the year 2000
It was in magazines, online discussions, talk shows, and anything else you can name....if you don't know or have a clue about any of this....go look at the very opening scene of the movie "Something New"...in the very beginning they run all the bad stats about BM down and encourage BW to marry out...that movie alone is like 15 years old...but even before that this topic was everywhere
But I also pointed out what the OP said to my wife...everything is black woman oriented now...they're literally in every commercial, and every new show is about black women...jobs are promoting and hiring anyone who is a black female, schools are admitting anyone who is a black female...and politicians are putting BW into ivory towers...
BM on the otherhand?
...well unless you count "social justice" issues yeah....but if you're just a regular everyday BM who's trying to get ahead...you're basically invisible...noone is going to promote or recruit because you're the "it" group....not happening
I agree with what other are saying tho....this is a black male problem for the most part...BM have a habit of promoting "race" rather than gender...Today's BW tend to promote gender and then race...hence when a BW is high achieving we recognize "Black Women" and when BM achieve great things we just chalk it up to "black excellence" and make no distinction about gender--so we don't reap the benefits of "Black Male" achievements and positive publicity of other black men like black women do in their gender....that's just my opinion though
It was in magazines, online discussions, talk shows, and anything else you can name....if you don't know or have a clue about any of this....go look at the very opening scene of the movie "Something New"...in the very beginning they run all the bad stats about BM down and encourage BW to marry out...that movie alone is like 15 years old...but even before that this topic was everywhere
But I also pointed out what the OP said to my wife...everything is black woman oriented now...they're literally in every commercial, and every new show is about black women...jobs are promoting and hiring anyone who is a black female, schools are admitting anyone who is a black female...and politicians are putting BW into ivory towers...
BM on the otherhand?
...well unless you count "social justice" issues yeah....but if you're just a regular everyday BM who's trying to get ahead...you're basically invisible...noone is going to promote or recruit because you're the "it" group....not happeningI agree with what other are saying tho....this is a black male problem for the most part...BM have a habit of promoting "race" rather than gender...Today's BW tend to promote gender and then race...hence when a BW is high achieving we recognize "Black Women" and when BM achieve great things we just chalk it up to "black excellence" and make no distinction about gender--so we don't reap the benefits of "Black Male" achievements and positive publicity of other black men like black women do in their gender....that's just my opinion though
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That's cool if he wasn't always preaching pro-Blackness but turn around wifed a Mexican(common law) and then a White Woman.
FreshFromATL
Self Made
this thread can literally be closed after this post.
ThatTruth777
Superstar
I knew the blame black men remix was gonna happen in this thread but dayum 
StretfordRed
Afro-European
It's because she never said it and breh just created the scenario in his head.
That’s what Asian nikkas been experiencing for decades. nikkas thought it couldn’t happen when nikkas failed to realize the number one reason Asian men are looked at a certain way is because of media representation. Asian men are not allowed to be wavy in mainstream corporate funded American media. But how entire demographics are portrayed in the media has real life implications. All it took for WM/BW relationships to be normalized was advertising. If advertising didn’t work, corporations wouldn’t spend billions annually doing it.
And the only place black men are promoted in the media is sports and entertainment. And Rap has become a one-sided c00n fest where only hyper violent street nikkas who get locked up for fukk shyt or killed within a few months of blowing up is now the norm. Back in the 90’s, some of the most popular rappers were nice guys who weren’t street in today’s sense even though they were from the hood (i.e. Tribe Called Quest, De La Soul, Pharcyde, Souls of Mischief) even up to the early 2000’s (Kanye, Mos Def, Common, Kweli). Now, the nice normal dude from the hood is replaced with these literal industry fakkits like Lil Nas X and post lock up Youngboy wearing makeup. All while representation of black men outside entertainment remains nonexistent.
Crazy how Asian Males did everything right in terms to education and professions, and their women are not physically attracted to them nor are they respected.
Literally just got a notification talmbout Vikings Valhalla and Madea (a nikka in drag) is out now.
BM gotta GET on code or face eradication, the writing is on the wall.
Crakkas dotted their i's and crossed their t's with this WS shyt. You would think brehs are tired of getting shyt on by everyone including their own but nope.
BM gotta GET on code or face eradication, the writing is on the wall.
Crakkas dotted their i's and crossed their t's with this WS shyt. You would think brehs are tired of getting shyt on by everyone including their own but nope.
I was honestly thinking the same thing. Sometimes posters be full of shyt on here.
Rell84shots
Veteran
It always doesI knew the blame black men remix was gonna happen in this thread but dayum
You gotta understand the sisterhood is just so much stronger. The community is matriarchy. Plenty of BM are receptive, but some brehs in higher places love being the token and some sistas thrive off rejecting brehs and being guard dogs for cac corporate heads.
Who’s instilling confidence in them? Who’s really looking out for them? How many family members are really uplifting the boys as well as the girls? Are aunts, cousins, moms really uplifting? Or just saying “Do better” The whole community needs to care about BM, not just when there’s an incident with a cop, but every single day.
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Cel 510 kid ados forever
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But frfr. Life too short to keep worrying about this type of stuff. Black women having the nerve to try and claw themselves a bit of peace or prosperity under the burden of being known as dead last in the world, isn’t a threat to the blk community. Put ur ego aside and join us instead of blaming us.Black women are promoting themselves. Decades of being called masculine, undesirable, manly, forever single, nasty, ghetto hood rats, bytches, hoes, hairhats, welfare queens…ect., caused many black women to focus on creating safe spaces for themselves.
Now, instead of focusing positively on improvements for themselves, people are focused on trying to blow our candles out as if that will make theirs shine brighter.
Black women getting degrees, becoming business owners, pushing action to free blk men from prison, starting record labels, producing movies, pushing their brand, writing grants, pushing legislation to allow them to work in public with the way their hair grows out of their heads, starting natural hair movements, art, and doing all of this under the foot of white supremacy, misogyny, violence in many of the communities they grow up in, unacknowledged sexual abuse, AND many are doing this while raising children by themselves.
Then they turn to their men only to find many black men sounding like white supremacists when they talk to anything black and female.
I think after so many years of degradation of black women in so many ways, a shyt ton of black women are finally learning how to say fukk you to their haters because we will be hated on no matter what we do.
Black women have even the slightest sexual experience and they are considered the nastiest hoes. Meanwhile, non-blk women delete their hoe and still get acceptance.
On the other hand, many black women actually aren’t nearly as sexual active as other races but when they are sexually conservative, they get insulted for that too.
Black women with attitudes=manly, masculine.
Non-blk women with attitudes=spicy latinas, ignore virulently racist white chicks.
So many crazy ass standards for black women, so many insults, so much bullshyt.
And now many black women just don’t give a fukk about the naysayers anymore. It’s a beautiful thing. They conduct those systematic reviews, growing their hair out with shyt from their pantries, turning small skills into businesses, graduating from college, going to counseling, doing weight loss challenges, hiking and twerking whenever they feel like it. The world overplayed its hand in the hyper criticism of black women and now…
Black woman thou art LOOSED!
They aren’t perfect. So many have a long way to go across all metrics. Many would definitely appreciate the help. But black women are finally fighting for themselves as much as they’ve fought for others.
The cool thing is there is always room by their sidesfor supportive, loving, healthy, respectful individuals who want to build and grow. You can always join them. But not to rule over them or abuse or use them.
Otherwise, don’t worry about the nasty, hair hat, dark butt, masculine, ugly, single, fat, lonely, attitudinal, uncooperative, unsubmissive, stressful, single baby mama drama black bishes. You not missing out on anything with those bitter ugly adjustable 3s. We don’t love them hoes remember? They ain’t got no options anyway. Nobody wants a black bytch.Just focus on your goals and the hoes will follow…or so I’ve heard.
Or not. Either way I hope everybody finds their way but this ain’t it.
Most of the names u posted if not all was created by white men to denigrate bw
And liberals do push bw to the forefront over bm to divide
They act as if straight black men dont exist or if they acknowledge them they only speak on them to negative sterotypes.
They also hate when black men act masculine and try to portray any masculinty as toxic
Nothing wrong with bw promoting themselves but dont shyt on bm to do it or help divide the black community in the process
That why folks got a problem wit it
If that was the case they'd have more black men to look at for black women...I think it's just that black women watch more tv and thats who they're targeting.
it's all about data these days and they know who's engaging with their shows the most on social media and youtube.
I was just talking about this the other day in regards to euphoria. No real black male teen lead, especially in season 2 . They'd never have a good looking black dude play the role of say...Nate.
In my opinion, we have presence, and we are more of a...threat to certain dynamics that pre-exist. Want a dominant white male in a show? A masculine black man will over power him from a presence standpoint and undermind the dynamic they want.
We're scary to them man. Women are easier