TheAnointedOne
Superstar
He'd get fired if he spoke his mind. Best to let it go.
Is society promoting Black Women and leaving Black Men behind?
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He'd get fired if he spoke his mind. Best to let it go.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Putin kinda said something like this. Like, 'the west is trying to push stuff on us that's inherently against nature'. I assume he meant all the tranny shyt.
I thought we shouldn't be looking for white validation, and maybe if some Black men stop being bytch ass nikkas that want to pawg in peace and Always complain about Black women then this wouldn't bother some of y'all.
Black women are promoting themselves. Decades of being called masculine, undesirable, manly, forever single, nasty, ghetto hood rats, bytches, hoes, hairhats, welfare queens…ect., caused many black women to focus on creating safe spaces for themselves.
It’s sad that the work blk women have done for themselves gets presented as agenda but, it’s not surprising. Just another part of the long legacy of hate we are given. You get used to it after a while.
Now, instead of focusing positively on improvements for themselves, people are focused on trying to blow our candles out as if that will make theirs shine brighter.
Black women getting degrees, becoming business owners, pushing action to free blk men from prison, starting record labels, producing movies, pushing their brand, writing grants, pushing legislation to allow them to work in public with the way their hair grows out of their heads, starting natural hair movements, art, and doing all of this under the foot of white supremacy, misogyny, violence in many of the communities they grow up in, unacknowledged sexual abuse, AND many are doing this while raising children by themselves.
Then they turn to their men only to find many black men sounding like white supremacists when they talk to anything black and female.
I think after so many years of degradation of black women in so many ways, a shyt ton of black women are finally learning how to say fukk you to their haters because we will be hated on no matter what we do.
Black women have even the slightest sexual experience and they are considered the nastiest hoes. Meanwhile, non-blk women delete their hoe and still get acceptance.
On the other hand, many black women actually aren’t nearly as sexual active as other races but when they are sexually conservative, they get insulted for that too.
Black women with attitudes=manly, masculine.
Non-blk women with attitudes=spicy latinas, ignore virulently racist white chicks.
So many crazy ass standards for black women, so many insults, so much bullshyt.
And now many black women just don’t give a fukk about the naysayers anymore. It’s a beautiful thing. They conduct those systematic reviews, growing their hair out with shyt from their pantries, turning small skills into businesses, graduating from college, going to counseling, doing weight loss challenges, hiking and twerking whenever they feel like it. The world overplayed its hand in the hyper criticism of black women and now…
Black woman thou art LOOSED!
They aren’t perfect. So many have a long way to go across all metrics. Many would definitely appreciate the help. But black women are finally fighting for themselves as much as they’ve fought for others.
The cool thing is there is always room by their sides
for supportive, loving, healthy, respectful individuals who want to build and grow. You can always join them. But not to rule over them or abuse or use them.
Otherwise, don’t worry about the nasty, hair hat, dark butt, masculine, ugly, single, fat, lonely, attitudinal, uncooperative, unsubmissive, stressful, single baby mama drama black bishes. You not missing out on anything with those bitter ugly adjustable 3s. We don’t love them hoes remember? They ain’t got no options anyway. Nobody wants a black bytch.
Just focus on your goals and the hoes will follow…or so I’ve heard.
It’s sad that the work blk women have done for themselves gets presented as agenda but, it’s not surprising. Just another part of the long legacy of hate we are given. You get used to it after a while.Now, instead of focusing positively on improvements for themselves, people are focused on trying to blow our candles out as if that will make theirs shine brighter.
Black women getting degrees, becoming business owners, pushing action to free blk men from prison, starting record labels, producing movies, pushing their brand, writing grants, pushing legislation to allow them to work in public with the way their hair grows out of their heads, starting natural hair movements, art, and doing all of this under the foot of white supremacy, misogyny, violence in many of the communities they grow up in, unacknowledged sexual abuse, AND many are doing this while raising children by themselves.
Then they turn to their men only to find many black men sounding like white supremacists when they talk to anything black and female.
I think after so many years of degradation of black women in so many ways, a shyt ton of black women are finally learning how to say fukk you to their haters because we will be hated on no matter what we do.
Black women have even the slightest sexual experience and they are considered the nastiest hoes. Meanwhile, non-blk women delete their hoe and still get acceptance.
On the other hand, many black women actually aren’t nearly as sexual active as other races but when they are sexually conservative, they get insulted for that too.
Black women with attitudes=manly, masculine.
Non-blk women with attitudes=spicy latinas, ignore virulently racist white chicks.
So many crazy ass standards for black women, so many insults, so much bullshyt.
And now many black women just don’t give a fukk about the naysayers anymore. It’s a beautiful thing. They conduct those systematic reviews, growing their hair out with shyt from their pantries, turning small skills into businesses, graduating from college, going to counseling, doing weight loss challenges, hiking and twerking whenever they feel like it. The world overplayed its hand in the hyper criticism of black women and now…
Black woman thou art LOOSED!
They aren’t perfect. So many have a long way to go across all metrics. Many would definitely appreciate the help. But black women are finally fighting for themselves as much as they’ve fought for others.
The cool thing is there is always room by their sides
for supportive, loving, healthy, respectful individuals who want to build and grow. You can always join them. But not to rule over them or abuse or use them.Otherwise, don’t worry about the nasty, hair hat, dark butt, masculine, ugly, single, fat, lonely, attitudinal, uncooperative, unsubmissive, stressful, single baby mama drama black bishes. You not missing out on anything with those bitter ugly adjustable 3s. We don’t love them hoes remember? They ain’t got no options anyway. Nobody wants a black bytch.
Just focus on your goals and the hoes will follow…or so I’ve heard.Or not. Either way I hope everybody finds their way but this ain’t it.
the 2 black women he gave the highest positions to are both married to white men
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
It's Black men in media fault
None of them push back
They stay silent or agree
None of them push back
They stay silent or agree
LunaticVillage415
All Star
I noticed this. Its getting really bad if Ebro is noticing it and pointing it out.
I'm not even against interracial relationships. I just know one of the shared qualities in most WM/BW relationships is a shared disdain for Black Men so as much as I want Black Women to be happy...I can't celebrate that wholeheartedly I'll just admit it.
There's an underlying.message here...
White Men are the best Men for ALL Women...including their own.
Black Men arent good enough for even their own Women.
Its like society would rather have Black Men out here as eunuchs and asexual. A far cry from the player image of the Black Man in the 1990s and 2000s.
That’s what Asian nikkas been experiencing for decades. nikkas thought it couldn’t happen when nikkas failed to realize the number one reason Asian men are looked at a certain way is because of media representation. Asian men are not allowed to be wavy in mainstream corporate funded American media. But how entire demographics are portrayed in the media has real life implications. All it took for WM/BW relationships to be normalized was advertising. If advertising didn’t work, corporations wouldn’t spend billions annually doing it.
And the only place black men are promoted in the media is sports and entertainment. And Rap has become a one-sided c00n fest where only hyper violent street nikkas who get locked up for fukk shyt or killed within a few months of blowing up is now the norm. Back in the 90’s, some of the most popular rappers were nice guys who weren’t street in today’s sense even though they were from the hood (i.e. Tribe Called Quest, De La Soul, Pharcyde, Souls of Mischief) even up to the early 2000’s (Kanye, Mos Def, Common, Kweli). Now, the nice normal dude from the hood is replaced with these literal industry fakkits like Lil Nas X and post lock up Youngboy wearing makeup. All while representation of black men outside entertainment remains nonexistent.
I’m confused. Bw ir marriage rate isn’t even that high… here’s a dose of reality: 12%.
his complaints are strange when you look at things in context. Asians and Hispanic women have a much higher IR rate than black women. Interestingly enough whites have the lowest IR rate.
Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
But frfr. Life too short to keep worrying about this type of stuff. Black women having the nerve to try and claw themselves a bit of peace or prosperity under the burden of being known as dead last in the world, isn’t a threat to the blk community. Put ur ego aside and join us instead of blaming us.Black women are promoting themselves. Decades of being called masculine, undesirable, manly, forever single, nasty, ghetto hood rats, bytches, hoes, hairhats, welfare queens…ect., caused many black women to focus on creating safe spaces for themselves.
Now, instead of focusing positively on improvements for themselves, people are focused on trying to blow our candles out as if that will make theirs shine brighter.
Black women getting degrees, becoming business owners, pushing action to free blk men from prison, starting record labels, producing movies, pushing their brand, writing grants, pushing legislation to allow them to work in public with the way their hair grows out of their heads, starting natural hair movements, art, and doing all of this under the foot of white supremacy, misogyny, violence in many of the communities they grow up in, unacknowledged sexual abuse, AND many are doing this while raising children by themselves.
Then they turn to their men only to find many black men sounding like white supremacists when they talk to anything black and female.
I think after so many years of degradation of black women in so many ways, a shyt ton of black women are finally learning how to say fukk you to their haters because we will be hated on no matter what we do.
Black women have even the slightest sexual experience and they are considered the nastiest hoes. Meanwhile, non-blk women delete their hoe and still get acceptance.
On the other hand, many black women actually aren’t nearly as sexual active as other races but when they are sexually conservative, they get insulted for that too.
Black women with attitudes=manly, masculine.
Non-blk women with attitudes=spicy latinas, ignore virulently racist white chicks.
So many crazy ass standards for black women, so many insults, so much bullshyt.
And now many black women just don’t give a fukk about the naysayers anymore. It’s a beautiful thing. They conduct those systematic reviews, growing their hair out with shyt from their pantries, turning small skills into businesses, graduating from college, going to counseling, doing weight loss challenges, hiking and twerking whenever they feel like it. The world overplayed its hand in the hyper criticism of black women and now…
Black woman thou art LOOSED!
They aren’t perfect. So many have a long way to go across all metrics. Many would definitely appreciate the help. But black women are finally fighting for themselves as much as they’ve fought for others.
The cool thing is there is always room by their sides
Otherwise, don’t worry about the nasty, hair hat, dark butt, masculine, ugly, single, fat, lonely, attitudinal, uncooperative, unsubmissive, stressful, single baby mama drama black bishes. You not missing out on anything with those bitter ugly adjustable 3s. We don’t love them hoes remember? They ain’t got no options anyway. Nobody wants a black bytch.
Or not. Either way I hope everybody finds their way but this ain’t it.
There is never space alongside
One ideology or group will always dominate, unfortunately in our community that will be women and whatever bullshyt they're pushing
Kinda agree with the rest though, we do have to also look at our past behaviour towards our women
The answer as to why has been expressed multiple times in this thread and throughout others. A lot of Black men are not receptive to help. Who is going to keep trying to help someone that smacks your hand when you reach out?
Ya'll will sit and say no one understands, no one cares, no one I can reach out to, etc. While making no effort to find the support either. It's disheartening and frustrating at this point. Black women will take full advantage of help because it makes shyt easier, then turn around and try to make it easier for the next. How many more generations are you going to struggle before you change the mentality of the approach?
If you don't want to accept outside help, then yall need to turn to one another and create a network of support. It's not that people don't want to help, yall only want help on your own terms, well then create the fukking terms so you can advance. Don't be mad at the group that opted for help and showing improvement because that's just how getting help works.
Ya'll will sit and say no one understands, no one cares, no one I can reach out to, etc. While making no effort to find the support either. It's disheartening and frustrating at this point. Black women will take full advantage of help because it makes shyt easier, then turn around and try to make it easier for the next. How many more generations are you going to struggle before you change the mentality of the approach?
If you don't want to accept outside help, then yall need to turn to one another and create a network of support. It's not that people don't want to help, yall only want help on your own terms, well then create the fukking terms so you can advance. Don't be mad at the group that opted for help and showing improvement because that's just how getting help works.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
But frfr. Life too short to keep worrying about this type of stuff. Black women having the nerve to try and claw themselves a bit of peace or prosperity under the burden of being known as dead last in the world, isn’t a threat to the blk community. Put ur ego aside and join us instead of blaming us.Black women are promoting themselves. Decades of being called masculine, undesirable, manly, forever single, nasty, ghetto hood rats, bytches, hoes, hairhats, welfare queens…ect., caused many black women to focus on creating safe spaces for themselves.
Now, instead of focusing positively on improvements for themselves, people are focused on trying to blow our candles out as if that will make theirs shine brighter.
Black women getting degrees, becoming business owners, pushing action to free blk men from prison, starting record labels, producing movies, pushing their brand, writing grants, pushing legislation to allow them to work in public with the way their hair grows out of their heads, starting natural hair movements, art, and doing all of this under the foot of white supremacy, misogyny, violence in many of the communities they grow up in, unacknowledged sexual abuse, AND many are doing this while raising children by themselves.
Then they turn to their men only to find many black men sounding like white supremacists when they talk to anything black and female.
I think after so many years of degradation of black women in so many ways, a shyt ton of black women are finally learning how to say fukk you to their haters because we will be hated on no matter what we do.
Black women have even the slightest sexual experience and they are considered the nastiest hoes. Meanwhile, non-blk women delete their hoe and still get acceptance.
On the other hand, many black women actually aren’t nearly as sexual active as other races but when they are sexually conservative, they get insulted for that too.
Black women with attitudes=manly, masculine.
Non-blk women with attitudes=spicy latinas, ignore virulently racist white chicks.
So many crazy ass standards for black women, so many insults, so much bullshyt.
And now many black women just don’t give a fukk about the naysayers anymore. It’s a beautiful thing. They conduct those systematic reviews, growing their hair out with shyt from their pantries, turning small skills into businesses, graduating from college, going to counseling, doing weight loss challenges, hiking and twerking whenever they feel like it. The world overplayed its hand in the hyper criticism of black women and now…
Black woman thou art LOOSED!
They aren’t perfect. So many have a long way to go across all metrics. Many would definitely appreciate the help. But black women are finally fighting for themselves as much as they’ve fought for others.
The cool thing is there is always room by their sides
Otherwise, don’t worry about the nasty, hair hat, dark butt, masculine, ugly, single, fat, lonely, attitudinal, uncooperative, unsubmissive, stressful, single baby mama drama black bishes. You not missing out on anything with those bitter ugly adjustable 3s. We don’t love them hoes remember? They ain’t got no options anyway. Nobody wants a black bytch.
Or not. Either way I hope everybody finds their way but this ain’t it.
I'm gonna disagree with this post. Not with its content, but its perspective. The question here is, "Is SOCIETY promoting bw and leaving bm behind?" You responded to a different question. 
Im still curious to know if you agree that SOCIETY is giving us a bit of a boost rn. Bc it's super obvious. My mother was in store at Macy's recently and the cashier, a fellow older bw, gave her the little spiel about the charities she could donate her change to. The only black one was explicitly for black girls. Moms, aqua down to her bones 
, asked why there were no bm focused charities. The cashier got offended, ppl were staring, it became a thing. If that's not a societal, institutional boost, I dont know what is.
Only time u see a black couple it’s a McDonald’s commercial
every other commercial or tv show it’s a single black mom, black woman with a white man or gay black man unless u put it on VH1 and u got all that ratchet love and hip hop and u see the low level nikkas or shows where black men are just seen as sexual tools
Ice T been the only nikka on tv with law and order that’s been holding it down and Anthony Anderson with blackish but they both only on after 9:30 pm
Ice T never married a Black Woman tho.