If he treats her good than what's wrong ?
She kept leaving cause she thought she could do better
And comes back to him cause the dating scene sucks
Is she dumb or is it just me?
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She kept leaving cause she thought she could do better
And comes back to him cause the dating scene sucks
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you're too focused on his lack of money the bigger issue is he already has 4 kids , how old are they? he gotta pay child support? I know a girl just like your friend around the same age six figure salary and she married a dude like that and he stays at home and watches the 3 kids (works part time only) but he only has kids with her and they've been married for like 10 years 
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If her and her man can’t stay together how are they going to manage to live together? All she is doing is inviting nonstop conflict into her house. If she wants to be with him fine, but they should not live together
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The dating scene isn’t that bad. Breh is like ten years older than her and is
looking to me lol. Not worth all the baggage he comes with. Just my opinion though. 
He has everything to gain from moving in with her, she has everything to lose. Oh well.
you're too focused on his lack of money the bigger issue is he already has 4 kids , how old are they? he gotta pay child support? I know a girl just like your friend around the same age six figure salary and she married a dude like that and he stays at home and watches the 3 kids (works part time only) but he only has kids with her and they've been married for like 10 years
He does have 4 kids, that live in a different state. I’m not sure about his child support situation. I just know that he sounds broke. And she’s desperate.
She seems like the type to be okay with a stay at home dad tbh.
Just cause ms caramel doesnt find him attractive..u shouldn't shyt on himThe dating scene isn’t that bad. Breh is like ten years older than her and is
Does he make your friend happy?
He probably a good dude.. hence why she keeps going back
Tbh they both not a catch
Their perfect for each other
I love desperate womenHe does have 4 kids, that live in a different state. I’m not sure about his child support situation. I just know that he sounds broke. And she’s desperate.
She seems like the type to be okay with a stay at home dad tbh.
U should of introduce me to her when I come back to Charlotte
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That's like asking why do you love to make cereal in the morning
Cause its easy
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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That's like asking why do you love to make cereal in the morning
Cause its easy
Desperate women are clingy and fall in love easy.
U can have a long term problem
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Who said I want a long term
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Yup i feel that.
The dating scene isn’t that bad. Breh is like ten years older than her and is
I feel what you saying here, but you acting like she doesn't have a shyt ton of baggage herself. With the exception of her being a bit more financially stable than him, she has just as much baggage as him, probably MORE when you consider her selfish and destructive nature (as you previously mentioned).
But life is full of trade offs. She wants to be the one in the control and be treated a certain way, well its hard to find a man that has all his shyt together that is willing to give ALL of that in the fashion she seems to want. It doesn't sound like an ideal relationship at all, but sometimes the devil you know is better than the devil you don't.
Does she have dating/keeping a man problems? She sounds like she has trouble keeping a worthwhile man around longer than 3-4 months.
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@carmel Barbie if you have anymore SLIM ATTRACTIVE friends that are JUST AS STUPID AS SHE IS, send them to west Charlotte(the upper side) and let me eat. Thanks
i have a friend. Here’s some brief info on her: 36 years old, 2 daughters from previous relationships, makes six figures, just bought a big ass house last year, slim, attractive, nice girl, immature though imo(you’ll see why below), Christian, is submissive in relationships.
Here’s some brief info on the guy: he’s in his mid forties, has 4 kids, lives in an apartment, is working a couple of manual labor jobs to make ends meet—he doesn’t have a degree or trade, so he’s been struggling lately with finances, is nice and hardworking, I guess traditional, and he’s
Situation: they were in a relationship for a year. The entire year they broke up three times. It was always her dumping him. The last break up they had, they took a 3 month break from each other. she realized she loved him, etc.
He recently came back in the picture. She said they are going to take it slow. But already they are talking about him moving into her house with her. She even talked to her two daughters about it.
She said she would write out a lease for him to protect him in case she dumps him again, that way he isn’t ass out.
I asked if they would be splitting the house payment. She lied and said he was going to pay for everything. I know she lied, because earlier she said that he is barely making ends meet with his apartment situation, and that it’s hard because he doesn’t have a degree. So I know he won’t be paying for everything like she said.
Now she asked me and my group of friends what we thought... Everyone was on board with her plan. One even said, “maybe he can go to college so he can make more money....”
And I’m not saying that’s a bad idea in theory, but i feel like it’s dumb to be entertaining this with her. Like first y’all need to actually manage to stay together long enough for that to take place smh.
I told her I thought the whole situation was stupid asf. Why would she move the man she broke up with three times, into the house she shares with her two daughters?(one of them is 15) that’s not a good look.
she says he treats her good... as if that makes up for everything else.
So my question is it just me or is she dumb asf? All of my friends are on her side and I don’t get it...
she’s talking about they’re taking it slow this time—but they fukked already, and are talking about him moving in already. That’s not slow.
She’s mad at me for not supporting her on this.
she isn't dumb. she likes the control aspect of it. It is similar to men who like women who don't have much going for themselves. She likes that he is kinda dependent on her and uses her as a first option. Maybe even over his own children.
