I had a homeboy that was going thru this with his wife. She didn't have any sex drive at all. He ended up cheating on her and became pretty regular. Then, come to find out that some medicine she was taking that was killing her sex drive. Well, they changed her prescription and everything was back regular. Now my homie was getting waken up by blowjobs in the morning!!But he's in the process of slowly working the sidechick out the way.
But what I was saying is that if its something medical that's one thing. Because I look at as if what is the guy wasn't able to perform for whatever reason. You cool with the chick stepping out? I always try to look at the shoe being on the other foot. Now if there is nothing wrong and they still not giving it up, then
ya it can be medical i know its in my situation except its me instead of her she always wants it but man it be so painful for me to be having sex
i be feeling like this aftewards 
we do have sex but not as much as she would like though my medical issue prevents that pain and sex just dont mix
to 
So I stepped to her one day when we went to go get breakfast in the cafeteria, like "yo, real rap, how did you drop weight like that?" She told me "I stopped screwing". Turns out the birth control pills caused her to hold some weight, and also ended up killing her sex drive. She would try her best to hold dude down, but her game wasn't up to par. Now that she was off the pills, she was looking 
cause I know we was cool. I called my other man that still worked there, and he told me that once she dropped the weight, and started looking real good, son came back in the picture. But now since she was smashing regularly again, she started picking the weight back up.... So you know where that was headed.
