This post is so full of stupid fukkery I dunno where to begin, but all Ima say is this type of thinking is definitely one of the contributing factors to problems within the black community. Lack self accountability for your actions as an adult, brehettesWho else would be at fault? The man is supposed to be the leader if someone else is the leader it is because the man failed to rise up and seize leadership. Failures don't get respect.