Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[agnosticlady]

Yes. Most Black women don't want to hear the truth.

They are 50% of what's wrong with the Black community. Yet, they'd like us to believe their decisions and actions have a minor effect on the community.

The problem with a lot of black women is that many lack self accountability and MANY can not stand to hear any type of criticism about any black woman. For instance the moment you start talking about the bad black women that ruin the community you have black women making way too many excuses for them. Too many black women are captain save hoe for other black women. There are some trifling disgusting evil black women out there. Black women do not like to call them out, but let a black man be a dead beat father and you WILL hear about that.

 

[bcrusaderw]

If you're a fat and sloppy woman why should a man break his neck over you?

As usual you are glossing over the main argument. Until you can speak to that argument stop replying to me.

women choose who they spread their legs for.

theres not a fatherless problem in teh black community there is a woman sleeping with men who are not father material in the black community

OP gets sonned in every thread Jesus Christ @mamba @agnosticlady for holding it down

There has been no sonning here just a deflection. No one in this thread has explained the fatherless rate of mulatto children. If white women who produce white children have a single parenthood rate of 23%, but one of 80% when producing children with black males whose fault is that. If Hispanic women have a single parenthood rate of 40% when producing hispanic children, but it jumps to 90% when they have children with black males whose problem is that? When Asian women have a single parenthood rate of 13% when producing Asian children, but one of 85% when producing children with black males whose problem is that. These are women who have demonstrated that they know not how to pick deadbeats, yet when they procreate with black males their single parenthood rates increase exponentially. There is only one answer here, and only a member of the group that is apart of the problem would skirt around the answer.

 

[MikelArteta]

My sister did it right she married a virgin and has been married ofr almost 10 years now and has 3 kids, all black.

All of her bum ass friends who tried to dissuade her from marrying a dude who wasn't making that much money are single with a b*stards running around or single in their 30s.

There is ag ood black man out there for evry black woman if she wants but they'd rather cavort with some nikka with a rap sheet or some nikka thats talking to a bunch of other women.

Its sad t osay but I'm shocked when I see a black woman in her twenties or mid thirties with kids with a wedding ring. So broken

and women dont get it, there is nice lookign woman at my church 28 a nursebut she has a 9 year old kid, might as well have leprosy in my eyes. But now she wants a husband, a good man bla bla

should have thought of that when you were 19 opening your legs

 

[agnosticlady]

I hate when nikkas make the ignorant ass generalization , first impressions can be deceiving and vibes can shift in a relationship for a vary of reason . It's a 50/50 fault not just one individual

First impressions aren't deceiving to the point where you are letting a man dump his cum in you with out giving you his last name. A lot of women do NOT even think about whether or not the man will be a good father. I could understand if it was 15% out of wedlock, but when more than 70% of black children are born out of wedlock that is MOSTLY due to black women allowing worthless men to give them kids. Also MANY of these women go back and have more kids after making their first mistake.

 

[bcrusaderw]

That's not what the "pastor" is saying at all.

 

[MikelArteta]

another black woman I know has a 5 year old son, all these years I've heard how the baby father is a loser, a cheater, she hates him bla bla.

Guess whose now pregnant with baby number 2 and guess who is the father, and gues whose so in "love" and guess who will be crying in a few months again, i feel no sympathy for any single mother with a living babyy father NOT ONE OUNCE

 

[agnosticlady]

My sister did it right she married a virgin and has been married ofr almost 10 years now and has 3 kids, all black.

All of her bum ass friends who tried to dissuade her from marrying a dude who wasn't making that much money are single with a b*stards running around or single in their 30s.

There is ag ood black man out there for evry black woman if she wants but they'd rather cavort with some nikka with a rap sheet or some nikka thats talking to a bunch of other women.

Its sad t osay but I'm shocked when I see a black woman in her twenties or mid thirties with kids with a wedding ring. So broken

and women dont get it, there is nice lookign woman at my church 28 a nursebut she has a 9 year old kid, might as well have leprosy in my eyes. But now she wants a husband, a good man bla bla

should have thought of that when you were 19 opening your legs

It's sad really. Some women with one child who have everything in check can get a good man who may have a kid too. A lot of them don't learn and believe that they DESERVE a good man. The vast majority of men do not want to take care of another mans child. Too many women want to have their fun and then be responsible after shyt hits the fan.

 

[MikelArteta]

why dont you post a source t o this study oh wait I will


Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family Structure, Economic Standing, Paternal Relationships, and Emotional Stability of Biracial Children with African American Fathers by Tiffany N. Calloway :: SSRN

some bs site where any tom dikk or harry can post a paper


Tiffany N. Calloway

Independent

 

[MikelArteta]

like honestly how do you even find this drivel? its someoen with no credentials not even a school research paper just some backwater writer with NO other papers anywhere on the internet and were suppose to take it as gospel?

you must really hate black men to search the depths o the internet to find this white supremecist jargon

 

[bcrusaderw]

why dont you post a source t o this study oh wait I will


Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family Structure, Economic Standing, Paternal Relationships, and Emotional Stability of Biracial Children with African American Fathers by Tiffany N. Calloway :: SSRN

some bs site where any tom dikk or harry can post a paper


Tiffany N. Calloway

Independent

The SSRN is not a BS site. It's one of the most popular in its category.

 

[bcrusaderw]

like honestly how do you even find this drivel? its someoen with no credentials not even a school research paper just some backwater writer with NO other papers anywhere on the internet and were suppose to take it as gospel?

you must really hate black men to search the depths o the internet to find this white supremecist jargon

Shall we discuss your whole underdeveloped mind schtick?

 

[MikelArteta]

a man talks to a woman she an decline and end it there
a man gives her his number she can toss it in the garbage or never use
a man asks a woman on a date she can say no
a man goes into kiss a woman she can say no
a man invites her inside she can say no
a man makes the first move she can no
a man gets ready to insert his penis into her vagina she can say no or make sure he has a condom
even without a condom she can pop a pill the next day
even without a condom and if she is knocked up she can get an abortion

a woman can wait and vet the guy to see if hes good or not, meet his friends and his family to get sense of what he really i but nah, these whores will read a movie review, or read a review in cosmo for a nail polish, read a review for the season of the game or whatever ridiculous black movie thats out, but reviewing to see if jarkell will make a good father?

we gon make cute babies though

 

[MikelArteta]

The SSRN is not a BS site. It's one of the most popular in its category.

its a site where anyone CAN POST A PAPER
the author of that paper has zero CREDENTIALS< i googled her name cant even find another article she written

lets take a look when you google this tiffany n calloway

Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family ...
ssrn.com/abstract=2625893
by TN Calloway - ‎2015
Jul 4, 2015 - Calloway, Tiffany N., Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family Structure, Economic ... Tiffany N. Calloway (Contact Author).
new study finds that 92% of biracial children with black fathers ...
https://www.st0rmfront.org/forum/t1110167/
Jul 10, 2015 - ... Children with African American Fathers by Tiffany N. Calloway :: SSRN . the study is jaw dropping and extremely infuriating and the author ...
SHOCKING NEW STUDY!!! BIRACIAL Children With BLACK ...
butthatsnoneofmybusiness.com/shocking-new-study-biracial-children-wi...
Jul 9, 2015 - According to the author, Tiffany Calloway B.S. J.M., children born of interracial relationships have a MUCH HARDER TIME IN LIFE.

 

[agnosticlady]

like honestly how do you even find this drivel? its someoen with no credentials not even a school research paper just some backwater writer with NO other papers anywhere on the internet and were suppose to take it as gospel?

you must really hate black men to search the depths o the internet to find this white supremecist jargon

This is what a lot of women will say:

"It's my body I can wear whatever I want to wear!

"It's my body I can sleep with whoever I want to sleep with"

"It's my body I can get an abortion if I want to"

Yet it's no longer your body when you have a kid out of wedlock. You are no longer capable of picking a good husband and father for your kids.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is what a lot of women will say:

"It's my body I can wear whatever I want to wear!

"It's my body I can sleep with whoever I want to sleep with"

"It's my body I can get an abortion if I want to"

Yet it's no longer your body when you have a kid out of wedlock. You are no longer capable of picking a good husband and father for your kids.

i hope one day welfare rates are slashed by like 90%