Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

agnosticlady

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I wonder if he would have gotten with a larger woman, and "worked with her to lose weight"?:sas2: The answer is clear. No one is saying that aesthetics should be the basis of a relationship. They do matter though.

He is saying that a woman should take care of her body, but her looks should not be the basis for a relationship.
 

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It's a black woman's problem. Women choose the men. A men can't do ANYTHING without a woman's consent(and that includes get her pregnant). Black women need to chose the men UPFRONT who will be good father & husbands, and stop playing "make believe" and "innocent victim" when the pretty boy with the multiple kids with multiple women won't be faithful to you. He wasn't faithful the 6 women before you, quit acting like you will be the one that he is.

Yep. These Black women are acting like they got raped out here. No. They chose to spread their legs for a known deadbeat nikka. I don't feel sorry for them one bit.

If people were constantly getting scammed by the same used car salesman, we'd begin to question the judgment of the people scammed.

Black American women, in general, have terrible judgment when it comes to mating.
 

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OP gets sonned in every thread:banderas: Jesus Christ:banderas: @mamba @agnosticlady :banderas: for holding it down:banderas:

Yes. Most Black women don't want to hear the truth.

They are 50% of what's wrong with the Black community. Yet, they'd like us to believe their decisions and actions have a minor effect on the community.
 

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Yes. Most Black women don't want to hear the truth.

They are 50% of what's wrong with the Black community. Yet, they'd like us to believe their decisions and actions have a minor effect on the community.
I agree fam... shyt is 50/50 but let these dumbass shorties on here tell it... Thank god I don't know anybody this bitter in real life:wow:
 

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Yep. These Black women are acting like they got raped out here. No. They chose to spread their legs for a known deadbeat nikka. I don't feel sorry for them one bit.

If people were constantly getting scammed by the same used car salesman, we'd begin to question the judgment of the people scammed.

Black American women, in general, have terrible judgment when it comes to mating.

I agree 100% brother. Couldn't say it better myself. Only black women and those men who wanna be PC would sit up here and say it's 50/50. Me personally I'm not leaving babies everywhere and i'm not running for office, so i'm going keep it REAL. It's a black woman's problem, and their problem alone. Unless a woman is raped or dated raped she ALWAYS, i repeat ALWAYS has the final say when it comes to sex. These women with all that power just don't wanna accept the responsibility that goes along with it. Period!
 

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women choose who they spread their legs for.

theres not a fatherless problem in teh black community there is a woman sleeping with men who are not father material in the black community
:what: I hate when nikkas make the ignorant ass generalization , first impressions can be deceiving and vibes can shift in a relationship for a vary of reason . It's a 50/50 fault not just one individual :camby:
 
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