Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[mamba]

I hate when nikkas make the ignorant ass generalization , first impressions can be deceiving and vibes can shift in a relationship for a vary of reason . It's a 50/50 fault not just one individual

Black women are sleeping raw before even getting a full impression of a man?

If that's the case, we have a bigger underdeveloped minds problem than the research shows.

 

[bcrusaderw]

its a site where anyone CAN POST A PAPER
the author of that paper has zero CREDENTIALS< i googled her name cant even find another article she written

lets take a look when you google this tiffany n calloway

Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family ...
ssrn.com/abstract=2625893
by TN Calloway - ‎2015
Jul 4, 2015 - Calloway, Tiffany N., Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family Structure, Economic ... Tiffany N. Calloway (Contact Author).
new study finds that 92% of biracial children with black fathers ...
https://www.st0rmfront.org/forum/t1110167/
Jul 10, 2015 - ... Children with African American Fathers by Tiffany N. Calloway :: SSRN . the study is jaw dropping and extremely infuriating and the author ...
SHOCKING NEW STUDY!!! BIRACIAL Children With BLACK ...
butthatsnoneofmybusiness.com/shocking-new-study-biracial-children-wi...
Jul 9, 2015 - According to the author, Tiffany Calloway B.S. J.M., children born of interracial relationships have a MUCH HARDER TIME IN LIFE.

She has a Bachelor of Science and Juris Master. The methods of the study are sound. The paper is lacking raw data though.

 

[bcrusaderw]

This is what a lot of women will say:

"It's my body I can wear whatever I want to wear!

"It's my body I can sleep with whoever I want to sleep with"

"It's my body I can get an abortion if I want to"

Yet it's no longer your body when you have a kid out of wedlock. You are no longer capable of picking a good husband and father for your kids.

This doesn't even make sense.

i hope one day welfare rates are slashed by like 90%

The welfare rates are already quite low.

 

[MikelArteta]

Where is the proof?

Again the author has no other written pieces, no picture no profile wasn't even a school paper. Where is the research data and proof there is nothing but words.

Probably a white supremicist named Billy Bob who penned this ish

She has a Bachelor of Science and Juris Master. The methods of the study are sound. The paper is lacking raw data though.

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

Nikka you know what I meant a man could be generous to a woman for 2 years but once a baby come into the equation either it could elevate the relationship or it can go south , but I know the intentions ya'll have for this thread so go on and continue .

Black women are sleeping raw before even getting a full impression of a man?

If that's the case, we have a bigger underdeveloped minds problem than the research shows.

 

[Elle Driver]

i hope one day welfare rates are slashed by like 90%

Why do you care? Your ass lives in Canada.

 

[MikelArteta]

Why do you care? Your ass lives in Canada.

oh i forgot black people dont live in canada and fatherless is only rampant in america

 

[mamba]

another black woman I know has a 5 year old son, all these years I've heard how the baby father is a loser, a cheater, she hates him bla bla.

Guess whose now pregnant with baby number 2 and guess who is the father, and gues whose so in "love" and guess who will be crying in a few months again, i feel no sympathy for any single mother with a living babyy father NOT ONE OUNCE

Breh, you've got to making this shyt up.

 

[mamba]

a man talks to a woman she an decline and end it there
a man gives her his number she can toss it in the garbage or never use
a man asks a woman on a date she can say no
a man goes into kiss a woman she can say no
a man invites her inside she can say no
a man makes the first move she can no
a man gets ready to insert his penis into her vagina she can say no or make sure he has a condom
even without a condom she can pop a pill the next day
even without a condom and if she is knocked up she can get an abortion

a woman can wait and vet the guy to see if hes good or not, meet his friends and his family to get sense of what he really i but nah, these whores will read a movie review, or read a review in cosmo for a nail polish, read a review for the season of the game or whatever ridiculous black movie thats out, but reviewing to see if jarkell will make a good father?

we gon make cute babies though

at Jarkell.

But, yeah, they'll do all kinds of background research and product comparisons on trivial shyt.

But, when it comes to selecting a father for her children, the average Black woman willingly rolls the dice.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh, you've got to making this shyt up.

nah im not man, when she was pregnant with her first kid dude told her have a abortion, called her names and all that, when she had the kid. Dude never paid for child support or didnt come around for months, dude cheated on her all the time when they were dating, now suddenly the a$$hole, the loser, the "waste man", knocked her up again and now there going to buy a house together and be a family according to her .

I already can see whats going to happen, dude is going to cheat or leave and she'll come crying and everyone will be like there there even though dude is a pos an dalways will be

I know all this because my brother in law is a pastor and counsellor and my sister tells me all the details


also another woman I mentioned in another thread married this dude who abused his previous two wives, but dude is rich and she was a single mother who thought she was "winning", my brother in law gtss a text a few days ago how this year has been so tough on her and shes been in a horrible marriage filled with abuse

I just said , women dig their own holes

 

[mamba]

Nikka you know what I meant a man could be generous to a woman for 2 years but once a baby come into the equation either it could elevate the relationship or it can go south , but I know the intentions ya'll have for this thread so go on and continue .

Most of the men skeeting and retreating haven't been in the woman's life for two years.

Most of these brehettes getting knocked up by deadbeats know these nikkas less than 3 months.

 

[mamba]

also another woman I mentioned in another thread married this dude who abused his previous two wives, but dude is rich and she was a single mother who thought she was "winning", my brother in law gtss a text a few days ago how this year has been so tough on her and shes been in a horrible marriage filled with abuse

I just said , women dig their own holes

Damn. Some of these chicks are hard headed.

 

[Elle Driver]

oh i forgot black people dont live in canada and fatherless is only rampant in america

Go fix Canada then.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I hate when nikkas make the ignorant ass generalization , first impressions can be deceiving and vibes can shift in a relationship for a vary of reason . It's a 50/50 fault not just one individual

That's BULLshyt you're trying to sell, and nobody who is intelligent is buying it. It's 100 % women's fault.

 

[agnosticlady]

i hope one day welfare rates are slashed by like 90%

This doesn't even make sense.

Of course it doesn't make sense. A woman being accountable for her actions will never make sense to you.

Explain why many black women go onto have more kids out of wedlock.....If you had one kid and experienced what it is like to be pregnant, broke, having to work at a fast food joint because the man you slept with bounced, not knowing who will help you babysit while you work, not knowing how you're going to get to your baby's doctors appointment,and etc. Why do some go on to have more kids out of wedlock? Did they not learn the first time?

When I was in my second semester of college I had two classes with a young lady. She would always come to class late, tired, her hair would be a mess, and etc. I later got to know her (she is a nice person) and found out that she has a child (a 2 year old daughter). The father has an expired visa (he's from Jamaica) and he has been living here four years. He can only get an under the table job. He is currently unemployed and doesn't try to find a job. They were renting a room in someone's house. Since he doesn't have a car when she allowed herself to get pregnant she had to take the metro bus or walk. That is pathetic. She works 45+ hours a week, while trying to be a full time student (she failed her classes).I asked how does he help out. She said by watching the daughter. She also said that he hits her and he is verbally abusive towards her. She later broke up with him, and decided that she wants a good man. She is 21 years old. She is a nice young lady, but why are you letting a man who does not want to work get you pregnant? The man doesn't even have his residency documentation in order. I do not feel sorry for those women.

There are a lot of black women who do not think of fatherhood and understand the importance of picking a good husband/good father.My sister and I are very into reading and writing. Growing up I rarely came across normal romance novels involving black people. The type of black romance novels I would come across involved thug love, or convincing a man to do better. My sister uses something called wattpad. She told me that there aren't a lot of normal romance stories involving black people. Most of the stories are interracial OR the black man is not a normal brother. The vast majority of those stories are written by young black women. Too many black women want a Tupac in a business suit or pay no attention to who they enter a relationship with.