Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

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Since when?

Black women are always my preferred type of woman. I ain't no c00n :whoa:
This is true he wants to date black women now can he get them? Not necessarily but he does want them believe that and complains about how they do him wrong because he wants them so bad. I got his back on that he wants a black woman o of all the stuff I think he full of shyt about this ain't one of them
 

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I'm not disputing the fact that there are great black men out there. There are. They're just not the majority. And there certainly aren't enough to go around for every woman that wants one.

Great men are rare in any group of men! :dahell: Most people are average, both men and women.

The way you're talking, every white man is making $100K and working a corporate job. Every Indian man is in engineering or IT. Every Asian dude is a doctor.

Just because any chick wants a great man doesn't mean she's entitled to one. Is she worthy of a great man?

That's the problem with Black American women. They all think they are Queens or some other bullshyt. Most of them are extra average, yet think they deserve some elite nikka.

Nope. Most would do well to just settle with the average dude, but end up getting knocked up by the below average nikka and then want to throw a pity party afterward.
 
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A lot of women get it right. They are typically the ones with fully developed minds and aren't functionally retarded.

Again, the only common denominator in all these fatherless homes are black men. Keep shuffling blame on the black women, the white women, the Asian women, the Hispanic women. All these women don't have fully developed minds. This of course isn't about the culture of black men not wanting to establish a home life with the woman (women) he has children with. ALL THESE WOMEN...

Listen, on the coli you can get away with this stuff but outside of the coli and in the real world, the message is out.
 

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Great men are rare in any group of men! :dahell: Most people are average, both men and women.

The way you're talking, every white man is making $100K and working a corporate job. Every Indian man is in engineering or IT. Every Asian dude is a doctor.

Just because any chick wants a great man doesn't mean she's entitled to one. Is she worthy of a great man?

That's the problem with Black American women. They all think they are Queens or some other bullshyt. Most of them are extra average, yet think they deserve some elite nikka.

Nope. Most would do well to just settle with the average dude, but end up getting knocked up by the below average nikka and then want to throw a pity party afterward.
That's not what I meant by great men. I didn't make any qualifiers about income. I was talking about non abandonment of offspring.
 

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I've always said this when concerning the type of Black men, African American women find attractive:


-Looks : he's got be sexy

-Penis Size
: penis has to be large

-Stroke
: good sex "game"


Now here you are... a crusader for Black Women on The Coli, whose premier thread is about large penises.....
 

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I've always said this when concerning the type of Black men, African American women find attractive:


-Looks : he's got be sexy

-Penis Size
: penis has to be large

-Stroke
: good sex "game"


Now here you are... a crusader for Black Women on The Coli, whose premier thread is about large penises.....
There's nothing wrong with most of that. There needs to be a base level of attraction in any relationship. Most women actually prefer average sized penises, and that thread is evidence to that. You need to be able to pleasure your partner. If you get to orgasm every time then so does she. There should be no excuse for shytty sex if you actual care about your partner and her needs. You want women to settle for mediocrity all while you get all of your needs met in having a young, naive, malleable wife who is attractive to you. Fatherlessness isn't a problem that black women created when black males exhibit the same behavior with every single group they procreate with.
 

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There's nothing wrong with most of that.


It only becomes a problem if you put that first; and many African-American women put that first when dealing with Black men....

This is what I posted on another thread,

I was listening to a Voddie Baucham sermon on marriage and he said that his wife turned him down, she was his friend at the time, when he asked her out and I have a feeling that had to do with the way he looked (he's a big guy)..... but eventually she put aside aesthetics and accepted him.... then they got married a few months later...... and they are still married to this day, 26 years later...... with 11 children......

^^^Had his wife, who is African-American by the way, disqualified him from her dating pool because he wasn't her "ideal", imagine how her life would have turned out... He said it himself on his marriage sermons that it isn't smart to date people because of their appealing physical characteristics... Why? It doesn't last!

You want women to settle for mediocrity


I want African American women to stop being shallow!
 
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